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RE: Genderfucking - 5/30/2005 4:18:12 PM

CalliopePurple

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Part of the reason I guess I don't necessarily like the word "genderfuck" is that I really don't like profanites...it's not for religious reasons (far from it, because I've never been Christian) but I simply don't like how they sound. I know other people have no problem with it and everyone else can continue using whatever word/phrase they want as long as they know how they define it. I'm in an oddly easy-going mood today.

And it came to me the other day that the time I remarked in the main CollarMe.com chat room that I really didn't see myself as being either gender, someone commented "that's a very slave-like statement." After directing the person to read my profile, he apologized, but continued by saying that some slaves are trained to see themselves as asexual beings, not having gender. I found that...odd, to say the least.

Then last night, again in the same chat room, I'd mentioned that I was thinking of shaving my head again and a random person piped up "You might want to save that as an act of submission for your future Master." Gah, the world is full of idiots. *Points at profile*

I know that making assumptions is something a lot of people do, especially in a forum or chat room area, but it got on my nerves because it was more then just assuming I was something I'm not, it was making that assumption based on my views and desires.

I'm a sadomasochistic, bisexual, genderqueer pagan switch and that doesn't make me, or anyone else who identifies as some of those terms, unsure about myself or in a state of confusion concerning what it is I am and what I want from the world. I know my place is firmly in the grey areas, not black and white and easy to sum up in a single word.

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RE: Genderfucking - 5/30/2005 8:09:24 PM

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quote:

I'm a sadomasochistic, bisexual, genderqueer pagan switch and that doesn't make me, or anyone else who identifies as some of those terms, unsure about myself or in a state of confusion concerning what it is I am and what I want from the world. I know my place is firmly in the grey areas, not black and white and easy to sum up in a single word.

Good for you. I always found the grey areas more soothing myself ;)

- LA

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/2/2005 12:00:23 AM

CalliopePurple

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Just leaving a note saying that, because I'm going to be moving from Florida to Missouri on Saturday, I won't be on to follow this thread much of today (Thursday) through Sunday (once I get moved and at least reasonably settled in.) Got two days to pack...how is that possible, you ask? Well, I'm going Greyhound and can only check two bags of things. Glad I don't own much.

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Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/2/2005 11:36:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: CalliopePurple
Well, I'm going Greyhound and can only check two bags of things. Glad I don't own much.

Yikes! You are travelling half way across the continent via bus??

How many hours is that going to take?

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/2/2005 5:34:13 PM

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The ride will take about 28 hours total, including layovers. Made it once before, though, and I've managed the even longer one from Wisconsin to Florida with only $20 for food. Vending machines were my friends.

And it only took me like 3 hours to pack most of my things today because I motivated myself by saying "no computer time until at least 80% done." Gods, I'm nervous about leaving the relative safety of my parent's house to live with three guys in their mid 20's I happen to be friends with.

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Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/2/2005 8:30:11 PM

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Have a safe trip and come by and send us a note when you get settled in :)

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/5/2005 2:55:36 PM

CalliopePurple

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I'm all safe and sound here, though my shoulders are killing me. There's a short write-up of the bus ride in my LiveJournal, but I'll probably end up elaborating later.

Meh, I enjoy the pain of getting a tattoo or piercing, but make me carry around all my luggage, leaving me achy, and I whine about it.

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hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/5/2005 3:54:11 PM

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I am glad you survived your bus ride and are getting settled in. (I never did learn to sleep well on Greyhound).

Having three guys as housemates ought to be interesting. Are you all in college? I hope you don't wind up being the one setting the cleanliness stardard. (Thinking back to my roommate days and shuddering)

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/5/2005 6:13:04 PM

CalliopePurple

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Two of them are in college, one's been out a couple years, and I will be eventually. I can handle mess everywhere other than the kitchen and the bathroom (thankfully, there are two of those, so it won't be AS much of a disaster.)

They all kinda view me as one of the guys, anyway, so I don't think things here will be bad.

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hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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RE: Genderfucking - 6/6/2005 3:31:20 PM

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quote:

I'm all safe and sound here

Yay!

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