RE: Thoughts on owning a slave

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Limits are always contentious issues. Should a slave be allowed to have limits?
In my mind this is looking at limits in the wrong way. Limits will come along whether we wish them to or not. I work and I expect my girls to work as well. Any job will impose limits. For example a job will impose a dress code and I will impose a dress code of my own. My girls know that what I want comes first but they must also Be bright enough to understand that I expect them to work therefore they dress as work dictates for work and as I require at all other times.
if I meet a girl for lunch or after work I expect her to be dressed how I want
This may mean several clothes changes in the day - tough. It is what’s expected.

When starting off a relationship with a new girl then I will allow some limits during that time. It’s important that a new girl feels relaxed and has confidence in the person who will own her. After about six months she should have an understanding of exactly what I expect and be ready to commit. If not then the door is there use it and save the pair of us from any grief and that’s something I use throughout a slaves time of servitude. It’s very simple, slave obeys or leaves.

A slave or submissive should be allowed limits if that is what is decided by the people within the relationship. Some do - some don't. It is all up to the individuals. My concern with this first section is that to me, you are mixing up rules and expectations with limits. A limit is something personal to yourself. And expectation - ie: dress codes are something you impose on someone else.

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A slave Must always serve to the absolute best of her ability no matter the task, how much she likes/dislikes the task, no matter how long she has been awake, no matter how she feels.
Anything less is an insult.
Does she deserve a 'good girl' for giving perfect service?
If she does the absolute best she can in a task then she has merely met expectations and no praise should ever be expected for that.
I DO NOT expect any of my girls to come to me with an issue or a problem. The order has been given, get on with it – deal with issues and problems yourself because I don’t care.
If you seek clarity on an order then by all means come and chat with me and I will explain further but don’t give me problems. If I want problems I will go to work. I only want intelligent girls so they can deal with the problems and issues themselves.

I think the problem here is that people are seeing your expectation as something that is expected even when it is impossible - (like when one is ill). I would suggest that you have already thought about this and that your statement excludes that - but it might assist in communication to introduce it.

However, I do believe that praise is needed in any training, whether it is done as expected. If you train a dog, it will not obey you if you do not praise it. If a child is taught at school, the marks encourage them to do better. It isn't simple reward, it is about encouragement. Without it, a person is doomed to fail.

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Something I often hear is that the punishment must fit the crime and I agree, something else I hear is that the punishment must be proportional to the crime and here I disagree.
Any misbehaviour committed by one of my girls will be met with a punishment that exceeds the crime.
A punishment that is proportional to the crime will only leave an impression on the mind for a short period of time. Make it MUCH larger than that and it will leaving an impression for a far longer time. The aim here is to ensure that the girl truly understands. A slave girl who serves me is expected to give her absolute and total best at ALL times. Failure to carry out an order, to understand an order, to fail in a task means punishment and not all punishment is about pain. There are thousands of ways to punish a slave who fails as long as the message of why she failed and how disappointed you are gets through to her then its all good.

Not much to add there. That is your choice and you slaves accept it. I see it as counter productive.

Again, the suggestion that at all times, a slave should give her best, it really depending on how she is. I hope and again give the benefit that you realise that if a slave has terrible 'flu, they are just not going to give what they could without it. But I do suggest that if you do understand that, that it needs to be communicated clearly in your own relationships.

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I may come across as harsh and uncaring but a relationship being an owner and His property is important. If a girl does exceed her best then she should be rewarded. It is also nice to curl up with a girl and watch a movie and do other things together but it’s important that the girl still knows her place during these times, in fact these times can reinforce who is in charge.

Not much to add to this.

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I hate and detest SSC because NOTHING we do is actually SSC.
SSC – Safe, Sane, Consensual
How can knife play, gun play and many others be considered safe?
How can any of us who enjoy being sadists be considered sane?
Consensual is utterly stupid – Girl consents when she agrees to become the owners slave.
RACK works better – Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
With Rack as long as both owner and slave know the risks then slave gets on with it – end of discussion. It is not the slaves place to try to bargain or get out of anything ‘risky’. It’s slaves place to deal with it and accept it.
Again, it’s a matter of total obedience and total power exchange.
The military have a wonderful term C3 (C Cubed) which stands for Command, Control, Communication – Perfect words for a TPE relationship and worth remembering alongside RACK.

I do use RACK and not SSC, however the C3 definition is also a good one, but (at the risk of sounding picky) I think that your communication skill - at least in these writtings - are lacking. If one is tired at 6am and writes something that can be misunderstood, that could be a problem in other areas also.

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You will have to forgive if this is a little all over the place. I wrote this on the train going in to work. I have asked julia to post it because I want her to read it and tell me where she has been going wrong recently. I am also curious to see how much of a discussion it promotes.
Thank you for your time.

I believe you are wanting to get julias feedback - which is cool and I think it is unfair that people are saying you should just talk to her, because my (optimistic) assumption is that is what you are planning to do after she has read this and seen the results from others - you are simply wanting her perception.

Peace

P.S TO ADD - I know that underpass! How did you shoot without buskers? There are always buskers in there!