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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 6:59:09 AM

MsKatHouston

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Foreplay is great. How I define foreplay can encompass a ton of things though and not all of them are, I guess, a traditional sense. Afterplay...well I might be in the minority of women here but I like afterplay to entail a bed, pillows and off to our corners for sleep. Maybe afterplay also includes him making me breakfast in the morning?

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 7:29:03 AM

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As long as you're getting what you need, then it's good.

I agree for me that it's contextual. Sometimes those things are great, somethings they are just distractions. Sometimes I want hours of fun, sometimes I want a quick burst.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 8:26:20 AM

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Sure, foreplay and afterplay are both great, I even wake up more after sex and am ready for more, any guy that's just in a hurry to stick it in and get off is missing a lot of the finer points lol, kissing I think is the most erotic thing.....

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 9:32:14 AM

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For me it is something i use and enjoy. To me bdsm always intesifies not only the pleasure, but the bond, and the feelings that result as well. So "after care" to me is just the part of a loving relationship and in my opinion any loving and good top's "job". As someone who has always been called a pleasure Dominant or Sensual Dominant i have always viewed forplay with alot of interest as it can be ever bit as fufilling as sex itself as the possibilites are as endless for fun as sex itself. An as most know it can only make the fun to come even more fun for the submissive (assuming both are wired that way) in the long run. The key is just to find the other half who views this similarly as in any good relationship you want to find a ballance, and have them have similar passions and interests, i think this falls into that.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 9:36:07 AM

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I miss good old fashion fore play....i used to get it....Hmmmm what decade was that?.....i'll think of it......no wait....80....something....LOL......(sigh)

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:00:22 AM

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Oh, foreplay I don't have a problem with. It's afterplay. You women don't realize how exhausting it is to ejaculate several hundred microliters of hot white jizm.

What about those of us who multiple???? wah wah wah......all You have to do is snuggle a few minutes....a lazy hand on the back where the warm red welts are.....

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:11:21 AM

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That's simple. We fuck you and fuck you while you multiple, then we ejaculate when we think you've had enough, then we go to sleep.

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Oh, foreplay I don't have a problem with. It's afterplay. You women don't realize how exhausting it is to ejaculate several hundred microliters of hot white jizm.

What about those of us who multiple????

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:15:07 AM

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That would be passing out for both of us.....lmao!

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:16:18 AM

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Now you're starting to catch on.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:18:05 AM

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It depends on my mood. If I feel like playing around beforehand or after, then we do. If I don't feel like it, we don't. Pretty simple.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:19:04 AM

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I"m glad that the subs have chimed in on a topic that has little relevance to their actual purpose. I wish that my favorite pizza place was open all night....But I guess that my needs don't accomodate their schedule.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 10:50:11 AM

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If i pass out, then i can forgive You that one.....

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 11:18:13 AM

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I view foreplay and afterplay as more tools to use! Foreplay can be hot as hell at times.. other times lets get down to business. Same thing with afterplay. Oh Hell it's all Good. There have been times when I did a lot of teasing in what appeared to be foreplay, and put off taking it anywhere. Sneaky devil that I am.

Foreplay.. Ohhh yes... I love slowly transforming words and building them up in foreplay as well... Going from from Mr. Nice and slowly sliding into Mr. Nasty mode.

What a beautiful ass you have...
What a hot beautiful ass you have...
What a hot beautiful fucking ass you have...
What a fucking hot beautiful fuckable Ass you have..
I want that hot beautiful fuckable ass of yours..
I'm going to fuck that hot fucking ass of yours...
I'm going to Fuck your fucking ass hard now, you fucking little whore..

Well, you get the idea... combine with ass caressing slowly transforming into ass slaps!

There are many other aspects I enjoy about foreplay as well. It's all good though...

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 11:27:11 AM

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WOW. Nice images, around here, sheesh. {turns on the fan} Thanks everyone.

I thought about afterplay or that cool down, as of late, it involves my inhaler, trying to breathe and that lighheaded feeling of 'damn, when can we do that again.' Throw in a water bottle and some nosensical stuff coming from me, normal, cuddling ends up almost as a given or the light touches and purrrrrrrrrrrring. All good.

To domiguy and LordandMaster :oP ~ Foreplay will and can usually get you basically anything you want, at least as far as I am concerned, if the foreplay and that build are are great, I am putty in the guy's hands and open for just about anything. The afterplay, will get you an encore later and maybe something else ;o) later.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 2:30:47 PM

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Postplay is more important to me than foreplay, because it lets me know he is happy with what just happened.

Foreplay...what is that? It's been SO FREAKING LONG!!!!! (I miss it dearly.)

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 2:54:24 PM

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I love foreplay, but sometimes just good raw sex is just what I need. On the other hand, if it's been good, I always want aftercare.

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RE: Are Foreplay & postplaydead?! - 6/5/2007 6:47:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

I mean sex is such a tremendous, earth shattering, synapse jumping tsunami that I want to anticipate it coming and lay on the beach recovering, looking at all the palm trees uprooted and buildings shattered when it has left.

yes, this works...

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