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WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:15:59 PM   
mike4864


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Status: offline 		I have been on this site for many months and spoken to lots of people.I have come to the Conclusion That THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY PEOPLE THAT ARE ALL TALK AND NO ACTION.I HAVE YET TO SPEAK TO ONE GENUINE SLAVE OR SUB THE ONES I HAVE SPOKEN TOO ARE LITTLE MORE THAN LIARS AND PLAYERS.THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS YET I FOUND MORE GENUINE VANILLA PEOPLE THAN HERE.I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE
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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:17:20 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		A more pertinent question: why do people in the lifestyle KEEP FORGETTING THEIR DAMNED CAPS LOCK BUTTON?

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:17:56 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		They aren't less truthful.

You just care less when vanilla folk lie to you.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:27:41 PM   
SunNMoon


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

They aren't less truthful.

You just care less when vanilla folk lie to you.


What she said. People are people are people.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:31:11 PM   
HarleyKitty69


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Status: offline 		Well that might be you whinie ass oppion but I do know that there are some kick ass real people on here and I happen to had the honor to meet some of them.....
You don't like here ???   LEAVE !!!

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:32:54 PM   
pleasingpj


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Status: offline 		In response to mike 4864, there are some genuine people here. i have found a few. As with the vanilla lifestyle, you have to weed out the fakes and wannabes. That does not mean you should give up and throw in the towel As they say, anything worth having is worth working for......Be Blessed.....

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:34:14 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: mike4864
THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS
Ohhhh....THAT'S the purpose of this lifestyle?  Thanks for explaining.  People in this lifestyle are NO more genuine than "vanillas."  Hate to break that to you, but that's the hard, cold facts. 
 
I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE
I'm truly sorry you're disillusioned but I think your expectations of this "lifestyle" are pretty unrealistic.  Who promised you anything let alone "much?"  I always find it funny when people look into the world of BDSM and somehow get the impression that all the people within it and on sites such as these are somehow better or totally different than "vanilla" folks.  We're not some strange, unique breed of people who don't have the same characteristics as those who aren't involved in BDSM.  You're disillusioned because, it seems, you entered a site to meet others of like mind/like kink/whatever, and found the same faults, flaws, and disappointments you would on a vanilla site.  See.....people can and will let you down wherever you go be they BDSM or vanilla inclined.  I think the sooner you understand that concept and don't have unrealistic expectations of those in any alternative lifestyle, the sooner you'll understand it takes time to wade through lots of let-downs to get to what you really seek whether in this "lifestyle" or a vanilla context.  Good luck......slave luci 


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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:35:09 PM   
szobras


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Status: offline 		I have been on this site for many months and spoken to lots of people.I have come to the Conclusion That THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.
 
Is this then an inclusive statement ?

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:41:35 PM   
FullCircle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

A more pertinent question: why do people in the lifestyle KEEP FORGETTING THEIR DAMNED CAPS LOCK BUTTON?


He don't trust that shifty button. Ho Ho Ho.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:44:40 PM   
drawntothedark


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From: Arkansas
Status: offline 		Okay OP you caught me.

I am really a middle aged bald man from Ohio.

BTW All caps is soooooooooooo hot!

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:45:18 PM   
lilsubl


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Status: offline 		in my experience, ya gotta kiss a lotta frogs...i have found one who suits me better than any i found when i was denying my submissive nature...but that doesn't mean i found him immediately...i have chapped lips from all that frog-kissing...patience in all areas of your life will probably work better than complaining......

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:46:31 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Hello! it is the internet. Get out in groups and meet people. It is an internet site not a representation of everyone in the lifestyle. People are the same whether they are vanilla or not. Why would you expect people in the lifestyle to be different? That is a presumptuous assumption on your part. You obviously have alot to learn in both worlds.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:47:04 PM   
HarleyKitty69


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Status: offline 		I am not real ... no realy I am an alien ..... no realy I am I am .....  wanna see my alien card ??

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:50:07 PM   
SweetCaleigh


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quote:

THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.
 
Sir, IMHO there are many genuine people here, maybe it's the ones You choose to associate with are the ones that are not genuine or it could be that You are to suspicious and You don't give them a chance to be themselves.  Getting to know people on line takes time.  More time than most people have patience for.  Maybe You don't have the patience to really sit down and get into someone's mind and really get to know who they are.  Maybe You have a personality that is just way to pushy for some to even feel comfortable being able to open up to You.  i think You really should look at Yourself before You judge others on this site.  i have met MANY genuine people here and i am honored to have had the chance to even meet some of them for real.  Think really hard about what You say to these people when chatting and where it starts to go sour.  Again, i highly doubt it's everyone here.. You need to take a good hard look at Yourself, and not be vain about it (after reading your profile) and see where the problem may lie within You.
 
Submissively,
*sweet caleigh*

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:50:50 PM   
drawntothedark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mike4864

I .THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS YET I FOUND MORE GENUINE VANILLA PEOPLE THAN HERE.I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE


Okay - where did you get the idea that the "lifestyle" offers more genuine people?

Since when did the lifestyle promise you anything?


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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:51:32 PM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		lolol, here we go again, another whining, bellyaching dominant. SUBMIT!! Sign your life over to me!! I am a DOM!!
no compromises! I am in control!! me me Meeee!!

::snorts:: give me a break.
there are LOTS of real people on here. However, most of them can spot people like you a mile away. You start spouting labels and I imagine more than a few of them will throw them right back at you.

Try being a friend, a person with interests outside of BD/SM and a gentleman. You know like in those so-called vanilla relationships where respect and manners come first.


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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:52:12 PM   
FullCircle


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Status: offline 		In all that time you have only made one post here? Only the ones that make it happen get anything. That’s not only true of the lifestyle but also the real world.

P.S. I like your door, did you rent a suit and stand in front of a door at B&Q because your real door has nasty wire reinforced glass like on council estates? Tut tut there are soooo many fake door pictures.


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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 12:59:21 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mike4864

THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS YET I FOUND MORE GENUINE VANILLA PEOPLE THAN HERE.I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE



Actually the purpose of this lifestyle to give people who aren't fulfilled by an equal power dynamic in relationships an alterative, not to give ourselves airs.

You are not better or more genuine then anyone else because you are belong to any particular lifestyle.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:09:12 PM   
Gauge


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mike4864

I have been on this site for many months and spoken to lots of people.I have come to the Conclusion That THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY PEOPLE THAT ARE ALL TALK AND NO ACTION.I HAVE YET TO SPEAK TO ONE GENUINE SLAVE OR SUB THE ONES I HAVE SPOKEN TOO ARE LITTLE MORE THAN LIARS AND PLAYERS.THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS YET I FOUND MORE GENUINE VANILLA PEOPLE THAN HERE.I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE


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New guy to the boards whose first post tells us we are all fakes: Priceless

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:09:54 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		people are people...you will find honesty and dishonesty everywhere..I have had some bad experiences here as well as some very good ones....your statement is false.

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