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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 4:32:26 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Actually I find intuition to be a good asset (NO pun meant). It's always quite obvious when one's contact sounds rigid (NO laughing) and stiff (NO snickering) and unnatural.

That's what fake fucks sound like.



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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 4:36:51 AM   
drawntothedark


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

GREAT, but many do not have them, and many are real people BUT fake slaves.


What makes them fake?
How do you KNOW they are fake?
(Just wondering - I know there are really fake people out there - I'm just trying to figure out your method of finding out if a girl is fake)

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 4:49:24 AM   
MadRabbit


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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Experience. I've been on cm for over 4 years, this profile for about 3 1/2 yrs, so I have learned how to spot fakes, as best I can. Its a crap shoot at times to find a nonfake, other times its like a waterfall of nonfakes.


Since you seem to talk about fakes and non fakes as if there was some clear cut definition for what makes a person a fake or a non fake, I would be curious as to here what that definition is so the rest of us can avoid these non real people.

Or are simply the fake people the ones who dont meet the standards created by your own ego and enlightened "One True Way"?

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 4:49:38 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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ORIGINAL: dogobedience
Dom's what are your views?

Honestly, I feel there are too many threads started up ranting about fakes on this website. 

I don't begin to know what your definition of a fake is or not.  What is or is not a slave in your book? What do you consider is a true submissive in your book? What you believe is fake maybe the real thing somebody else is searching for. 

If I talk with them on the phone or see them on web cam, then I know they are not faking their gender. 
I look for consistency in the things they say and do.

Personally, I have not encountered very many fakes that have emailed me.

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 4:51:00 AM   
MasterLordguru


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Status: offline 		This thread is an intrugiing one for several reasons. The first is that we all share this experience even if we dont admit it. Fakes are a necessity in life. Like the shephard who must guide his sheep through the fields full of wolves and foxes, fakes are a necessity to narrow down our paramaters, to makes us more involved in the choices we make and rid ourselves of the shallowness of our own humanity.

A case in point. I do have someone very special to me who is here on collarme.com. She understands and accepts me for my ways and I do see her every two weeks when time permits and spend a few days with her fulfilling her needs as much as life allows. However, she has shown me her two other screen names here.. names that she uses to weed out the fools from the those who are genuine. She does so, lets me read their emails, and we both have a laugh. I admit it... It is fun. It is fun to see the hypocricy so many exhibit in secret becuase they present one side on their profile and immediatly revert to the inner beast we all have inside. What makes it amusing is that her own fake profiles are very vain and dont give much but a vauge promise of the inner animal she wants to release. Men & Woman are not that different when it comes down to it. She in fact has allowed me to listen in on some of these conversations. And let me tell you, some of the people are an embarrasment. She never names names but believe me, I have seen a very few here on the forums.

What I am saying is dogobedience is that we just have to bear and grin it. And amuse ourselves at the fact that there fakes out here. Sometimes, we need mud on our face. But like some of the wonderful people here on this thread have pointed out.. Conversation, real time conversation (weather on chat/phone/in person) to get a indepth feel of the person.. to hear an inflection in their voice.. that is truly the only way to get to know people. And some people will never allow you this. Then it is up to you, to make a choice. Can you accept it? Will you accept it? As a Man who is in control of your own choices, I am sure you know which way speaks clearer to you.

Thank you again all for putting up with this long post.

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:00:05 AM   
marieToo


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately internet venues are a breeding ground for those who like to misrepresent themselves in a myriad of ways.  I have found after putting in some time, the truth always bares itself about a person. There is no other way but to go through the legwork and the hassle of it and put in the time. With some people you can spot their bullshit very quickely, with others it takes a bit longer. This is true of online and real life, or a combination of both.
As far as verifying gender online,  the best bet of course is to get on the phone as soon as possible,  but even then, you have to get to know the person in real time before you know if they are really what they claim to be.


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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:01:23 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		I'm waiting for the "Why do women fake orgasms" thread to start soon.
I'll just sit here in the mean time and ponder the universe and the meaning of life.  


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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:14:34 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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for the OP,  sheeeeeeeeesh - you have found the "one" for you so why do you care about the many "fake" profiles hitting your inbox?   you could respond back or ignore/block/delete ...simple as that.

i have received requests before for cam viewing ...i have one however doesn't mean i will use it just because a Dom demands to see if i'm real.  my advice - get over it and move on ...have a happy relationship with your "one".


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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:28:31 AM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I'm waiting for the "Why do women fake orgasms" thread to start soon.
I'll just sit here in the mean time and ponder the universe and the meaning of life.  




Good idea Whip! LOL! We have a better chance of discovering the meaning of life than "why" there are fakes inhabiting the planet with us! Sheeeeez, i can't believe as many as times as these questions "Why are there fakes" get asked, that they STILL get asked. Good grief, i have only been here for a little while and even i won't ask such a question!! It is because they can and want to!

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:28:44 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Your post is not well thought out....Have you ever noticed all of the profiles where the sub/slave is out trolling for their Dom/Master for some more gash?  You are searching for a very elusive quarry....Why are you complaining? Didn't you have to go through the same shit to find kali? I just don't get all of these complaints....Has anyone ever really dated without the use of the net?  Christ! You meet people all day long in the real world....Some you see eye to eye with others you don't! It doesn't make them fake it just makes them not exactly your cup o' tea.....Yes, there are profiles out here that are not legit...Big deal!  If you want to know what these women have to endure try setting up your own "fake" profile and you will be blown away by all the "idiot fake" Doms that will hit you up.

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:29:12 AM   
redsky


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

ah the week of the whine

for the OP,  sheeeeeeeeesh - you have found the "one" for you so why do you care about the many "fake" profiles hitting your inbox?   you could respond back or ignore/block/delete ...simple as that.

my advice - get over it and move on ...have a happy relationship with your "one".





well said!!

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:30:42 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		And THAT is why we need "collars of protection" ROFL!!!!!

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:34:42 AM   
ELUSIVE1


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Status: offline 		I agree with someof the above posters...what exactly are you calling a 'fake'??Someone who sends or posts a sexy picture and isn't actually that person at all, then sends you invites to her paysites?? I call that a bot, not sure what that stands for, but that is what I was taught to call them...is a fake someone who had one email interaction with you and decides without further contact, that you and yours are not people she cares to be with?
Or do you consider a 'fake'one that has dipped her toes into this dark water, and found she needs to retreat and re-group for awhile, so has disappeared from the web...Yes I do know there are attention hounds out there posting pics of beautiful women, when they are indeed pot=belly-stove-beer-drinking old men...shit happens, weed through the hundreds of undesireables until you find the 'jewel'


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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:54:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		GREAT REPLY! BUT THIS NOT ABOUT ME!!

I have NO PROBLEM with a girl not liking me for whatever reason. As a dom, few offer what I can do, I have unlimited time, am very polished in my skills (and constantly working on bettering rhem !), desire to dominate 24/7/365 ( remember I do have a REAL 24/7 property PLUS a girl that we use as I desire, who also lives with us fulltime), thousands of dallors of tools and toys , can say as FACT I have NEVER had a girl who I have been with ( and nolonger with for whatever reason. say ANYTHING bad about me, other than I was nolonger interested in her), consistant in my structure, and ALWAYS HAPPY.

As for them being FAKE, this is NOT about what level they are or their desire to be dominated. I live this ALWAYS, this is no part-time event that I need to turn on or off, I am a dom always and always have been. The fact that they might ONLY want sex, or live out some form of fantasy is not a determination of real or fake. Fake is just that fake..........you either get it or not........  

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:55:53 AM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		THANKS........ :)

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 5:58:35 AM   
drawntothedark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

GREAT REPLY! BUT THIS NOT ABOUT ME!!

Sure it's not

I have NO PROBLEM with a girl not liking me for whatever reason. As a dom, few offer what I can do, I have unlimited time, am very polished in my skills (and constantly working on bettering rhem !), desire to dominate 24/7/365 ( remember I do have a REAL 24/7 property PLUS a girl that we use as I desire, who also lives with us fulltime), thousands of dallors of tools and toys , can say as FACT I have NEVER had a girl who I have been with ( and nolonger with for whatever reason. say ANYTHING bad about me, other than I was nolonger interested in her), consistant in my structure, and ALWAYS HAPPY.

yeah...........I think I'm seeing the big picture now.


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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 6:03:13 AM   
IrishMist


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How do you separate the good from the bad, without missing the real one.

Patience.
A good attitude
Don't expect much from online; then you are pleasantly surprised when something DOES come out of it
A very specific goal of meeting in RL within a realistic time period

I am not a fan of using web cams; I have one but absolutly refuse to put it on for anyone, especially if they demand it for the reasons of weeding out fakes. I will however, take a snapshot, with something that has the date clearly seen in it, and me, and send that to them.

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 6:14:52 AM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		I , and  I am not that special chosen one :), get many emails from here and other places from girls who sent me fake pics, and will not corroberate with new ones or will not call me even after a few chats. I have a toll free number, they can block theirs, to facilitate a better understanding of who I am and my abilities that make me stand out from the masses .I aslo utilize my property to chat with them . I can say 100% of the time that after a single phone call  I get positive results and ALWAYS get a face to face meeting fast. I am not here for fast and or easy sex, or BDSM, I simply do not waste time mine or theirs. BUT do not say that if they do not call, I call them fake.

. WE are poly and it is stated, I have property and it is stated also in my profile. I have reffererences from REAL living slaves that I have been with,  not some cyber slave or girl who at one time in her life was tied up or spanked.

Again, it is one thing to send a email to someone, and NOT get a reply..................it is totally different when they have sent something to me first, especially with pic(s) and then become a fake or flake  

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 6:16:44 AM   
dogobedience


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Status: offline 		A strong minded dom I am, a STUPID DOM I am not..........too many here already,.maybe you

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RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES - 6/7/2007 6:18:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

GREAT REPLY! BUT THIS NOT ABOUT ME!!

I have NO PROBLEM with a girl not liking me for whatever reason. As a dom, few offer what I can do, I have unlimited time, am very polished in my skills (and constantly working on bettering rhem !), desire to dominate 24/7/365 ( remember I do have a REAL 24/7 property PLUS a girl that we use as I desire, who also lives with us fulltime), thousands of dallors of tools and toys , can say as FACT I have NEVER had a girl who I have been with ( and nolonger with for whatever reason. say ANYTHING bad about me, other than I was nolonger interested in her), consistant in my structure, and ALWAYS HAPPY.

As for them being FAKE, this is NOT about what level they are or their desire to be dominated. I live this ALWAYS, this is no part-time event that I need to turn on or off, I am a dom always and always have been. The fact that they might ONLY want sex, or live out some form of fantasy is not a determination of real or fake. Fake is just that fake..........you either get it or not........  


(Domiguy raises his right arm makes his right hand into a circle, with the thumb on my right hand slightly going over the top of my index as well as my middle finger...Twists hand slightly so that my fingers are facing my chest....proceeds to rhythmically move hand and forearm from left to right).. In response to this post.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 6/7/2007 6:20:26 AM >

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