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Areflectionofyou -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/9/2007 4:18:51 AM)

i met my Master two weeks after we started talking and had a l/d relationship for about 8 months we have been lving together for 2 months now....it happens..but isn't compatibility more important than distance?????



chasteslave -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/9/2007 8:28:31 AM)

No, i really don't like meeting Dommes far away.  It really takes away from the relationship.  i'd much rather meet a Domme who was near me.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/9/2007 10:46:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?

that word should be banned  - cannot generlize that every single of one us prefer to meet Doms long distance.  many prefer from their area or within distance meanwhile others like myself  have met their Dom from another state. Daddy and i met on another site and we have a successful, happy ldr (long distance relationship). plus i have met my secondary from here who is local. so it's a matter of preference from the submissive how near and/or far where she meets her Dom.




adoracat -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/9/2007 12:32:54 PM)

i would have rathered to find someone that was in my city, yes.  Sir is about 100 miles away.

and up till last night he's said i was worth every drop of gas to get here

kitten, who was forced to Dishonor Him



suboregano -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/11/2007 4:23:19 PM)

Hello,

People who live in small towns with no scene to speak of are sometimes forced to look more than 100 miles away for partners. Such people tend to look online and it is easy to get attracted to some one who unfortunately lives much further away than they meant to look ( i speak from personal experience). That might be one reason.

Also, You might consider that many new submissives are ironically afraid to meet Doms in the local scene (even though it is probably safer than meeting them online) and feel more comfortable with the barrier of the internet, and likely several hundred miles, between them.

All the best of luck in Your search,
oregano



LadyIce -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/11/2007 4:32:08 PM)

Most of the submissives that I have been attracted to tend to live hundreds of miles away.
That tends to be how it works.



littleone35 -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/12/2007 12:59:52 PM)

I did not want to meet anyone to far away so before i met my Master my profile said NYC or long island please my master lives 2 or 3 towns away it worked out perfect for us.  I needed to see any Master I consereded once a week or twice a month at the least(i see Master every day) so a LDR would not work for me.

Matt's littleonme



freyjasdottir -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/12/2007 1:09:41 PM)

I knew mine for many years before we got involved and those 30 miles or so we are apart now are horrible.



Politesub53 -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/12/2007 1:15:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou

i met my Master two weeks after we started talking and had a l/d relationship for about 8 months we have been lving together for 2 months now....it happens..but isn't compatibility more important than distance?????


Hi Areflection ofYou... What a nice post, if you are compatibile then while its difficult, distance can be overcome.
Thank you. [;)]



subinsouth -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/12/2007 9:13:01 PM)

No ~ certainly not. 

It's just that *ALL* Dominants choose to live a hundred or so miles away.  



Areflectionofyou -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 4:44:29 AM)

Hello, and thankyou. Distance can easily be overcome , both partners need set goals and it can work.
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou

i met my Master two weeks after we started talking and had a l/d relationship for about 8 months we have been lving together for 2 months now....it happens..but isn't compatibility more important than distance?????


Hi Areflection ofYou... What a nice post, if you are compatibile then while its difficult, distance can be overcome.
Thank you. [;)]



Aswad -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 5:27:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

No.  The word "all" is completely inclusive and absolute.  When you find something that is absolute, let me know.


If it weren't for the fact that it'd be disruptive, it would be tempting to make an automated program that scanned for threads that ask "Do all X ...?" and replied with a big, fat, red "NO" center-aligned. Then again, I can be childish at times (or, more euphemistically, in touch with my inner child), so it's probably just me who's tempted.



GeekyGirl -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 5:02:11 PM)

For me, if they don't live within an hours drive, I'm not interested.



cjenny -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 5:07:57 PM)

<hijack>

Hey GeekyGirl [:)] where've ya been? Where'd your pic go?
Welcome back too lol.



GeekyGirl -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 6:12:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Areflectionofyou

i met my Master two weeks after we started talking and had a l/d relationship for about 8 months we have been lving together for 2 months now....it happens..but isn't compatibility more important than distance?????


After numerous LDRs with compatible people, I'll say "no". Compatibility is NOT more important. Most of us have lives that we can't just up and leave...so you end up meeting a wonderful person and then dealing with the tragedy of not being able to be together.



GeekyGirl -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 6:14:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

<hijack>

Hey GeekyGirl [:)] where've ya been? Where'd your pic go?
Welcome back too lol.


I've been taking some time away...I was getting really frustrated and bitter and cynical, so I went off on my own and spent lots of time with my family, friends, and horses...just trying to remember all the things that make life great even if you never find a man to share your life with.

Now I'm back, and my attitude is fresher I think...and I realize that even if I never find anyone, I've still got a great life.

I took the pics down. They were attracting way too many wankers.

Thank you for the welcome :) I'm glad to be back.



Servemeyourass -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 6:33:56 PM)

Personally, I  very strongly prefer extremely local subs.  But, that is my need and personality talking.  I need to touch and look into the eyes of the one I am interested in.  Of course, I live in a major city, so that helps the situation.  Even so, it is so hard to meet THE ONE.  I frequently think about responding to those far flung from me.  ~sigh~

It's just hard when you are looking for keeps and not just for play.



Lordandmaster -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 6:42:40 PM)

You're having some trouble meeting someone local, so for you that means subs must not want to find a local dom?  That's a pretty irrational inference.  The world doesn't revolve around you.

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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them? Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away. Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle? Ever notice this at all ladies?



darchChylde -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 6:44:53 PM)

i had my Dominant before i even found this site... met Her local and live



hardbodysub -> RE: DO all Submissives.................... (6/13/2007 9:26:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives ...


As soon as I saw the first three words of your question, I knew that the answer was NO.



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