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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 6/15/2007 12:19:36 AM   
DragonNphoenix


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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them? Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away. Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle? Ever notice this at all ladies?



I do understand what you are saying.  We looked for a slave in our state for a 2 years, but we didnt find one that 'fit' with us.  We met our wildflower on this site.. and low and behold... she lives in southern Cali and we are in Wa state.  But hay... we found her.  We are now working on her relocation.
 
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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 6/15/2007 6:55:28 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		My first Dom was seven hours away.  A brilliant experience for me, but distance defeated the relationship (neither of us could relocate).  After that I made it a personal rule to search closer to home - and I've been very successful.  There's good ones everywhere, you just have to take the time to find them.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 6/15/2007 7:01:02 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I don't. I refuse to consider any one who's not local, or with in 2 hours away, but  i am seriously rethinking the 2 hour part, if I ever have to seek again. Which I am hoping I won't ever need to.
quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?



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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 6/17/2007 10:19:09 PM   
joiduvie


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Status: offline 		Sorry, but the submissive of your dreams may be right beneath your nose.  If you limit your world to those you find on line, you have limited yourself to all those not on line in your own back yard.  Master found me in the grocery line, he had been on CM for years, but the local market is where we met and started a friendship.  Open your eyes, lift up your head and look around, you may be surprised at what you find.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 6/17/2007 10:37:02 PM   
sexypet


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ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

Last I looked, CT had a very active scene.  Particularly with your inexperience, you may want to start going to local munches and educational type stuff - it's a better way to meet people and a better way to learn than on your own.

Good luck to you.


Hartford (rather Springfield Ma) has an active scene.  Period.  Unless i wanted to drive 90 mins in any direction, CT offered NOTHING as far as a scene goes.  (Unless something has happened that i am unaware of in the last 18 months)

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 5:26:25 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		I'm trying to grow one in my back yard. Grow 'im tall and hide him in a cornfield like pot.

so, yes, would prefer to find one in my back yard, but the likelyhood is nil to nil. Foreign countries are a negative.  So back to gardening.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 5:48:05 AM   
Dreamz423


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Status: offline 		I think a lot depends on ones particular geographical kink-level, When I was in Florida, plenty of kink-aware/friendly types on the local level, with a more sexually-express general population (not to mention shear numbers). Now, living in the proverbial buckle of the bible belt, it's a much more reserved culture, hense, far less local kinksters. But it only takes the one special one for most, so I live in hope.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 6:23:16 AM   
MasterDennyslave


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Status: offline 		Master had been trying to get me interested in meeting him since January of this year. I had a lot of different reasons that I didnt want to meet him, but i finally did. And the rest is as they say "history". I am in Masters own backyard so to speak, only 4 miles away from each other.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 9:46:07 AM   
shyinini


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Status: offline 		ALL
 
ALL
 
ALL
 
ALL
 
There is something a miss with that  word !!
 
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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 9:53:25 AM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		I would prefer to meet someone in my own home town...but that will probably not happen.

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 11:21:32 AM   
lonlyrossInNeed


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Status: offline 		i dont care far or close if we meet that means they are true and real
and i hope for the best
 
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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 12:08:34 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?

The answer to a "do all" question is almost always no.
quote:



Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away.

Because the universe is evil and not all the funny and interesting people are located within 50 miles of a given person?
quote:



Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle?

Well, a smart person knows a good thing when they see it and makes an effort to keep it.
quote:


Ever notice this at all ladies?



Considering that I'm not actively looking for submissive women... no. I can't say I have. Why would I?

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 2:09:56 PM   
charmdpetKeira


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Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?


God knows I do, that way if I want to go out for the night and he wants a session; I can put on my lapsed tape and we can both be happy….

“Okay, now open your mouth like your sucking my cock… good girl… wider… Wider…WIDER”

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Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away. Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle?


Dude; it’s a conspiracy!!

quote:

Ever notice this at all ladies?


No actually, I haven’t met any collared Doms. Have you?

k

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 4:18:04 PM   
mbes


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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

No. The word "all" is completely inclusive and absolute. When you find something that is absolute, let me know.


I only opened this thread to see who would be the first to point out that "all" makes for a really bad question. Thanks, earthycouple!

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/5/2007 4:19:23 PM   
earthycouple


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mbes


quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

No. The word "all" is completely inclusive and absolute. When you find something that is absolute, let me know.


I only opened this thread to see who would be the first to point out that "all" makes for a really bad question. Thanks, earthycouple!


LOL always good to be good for something.  *S*

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/6/2007 1:39:58 AM   
wandersalone


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ORIGINAL: BIllCT
Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?


I am not sure where you got the idea that ‘all’ submissives do this.  I set my search parameters so that only local people show up.

quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT
Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away.


I rarely go into chat rooms so I do not run into the problem of talking with people who live far away.  Once again may I suggest setting your search parameters on CM so that only people who live near you will show.

quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT
Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle?


I suggest meeting at a munch or going for a coffee somewhere and haven’t had any problems …this includes situations where I am approached or I approach others.  Are you contacting women who tell you that they are not looking or possibly are not interested in you and are unsure how to tell you this?  Could you look more closely at your approach and set up your search criteria again if you are finding that ‘all’ of the submissives you contact are for whatever reason unavailable.

quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT
Ever notice this at all ladies?


I bet you know my answer… once again I will say that my experience is different to yours and that my answer is no…however you may find that you receive different answers if you address this question to males.

From reading your posts on CM for the past few weeks it sounds like you have some other difficulties in your life and it may be helpful to focus on those for the moment. It sounds like you are quite frustrated in your search for a submissive, maybe having some time out will give you a chance to focus on what you are looking for and the qualities that you have to offer.


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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/6/2007 5:20:51 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Do all submissives prefer to meet Doms a distance from them?


No.

quote:

Why is it it seems when you do find someone to chat with that you like or have something in common with on Collar Me or Bondage.com or another chat program they are always hundreds of miles away.


Karma?  Murphy's Law?  Bad judgement?

quote:

 Or if you do run into someone you like and they happen to be in your area, they are collared, taken, or scared to meet because they are new to the lifestyle?


Because some people come with baggage.  Suck it up and deal.

quote:

Ever notice this at all ladies?


Nope.
 
Seriously - my suggestion is go find your local group or munch and meet real people and stop making benign assumptions. 

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/6/2007 5:30:02 AM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		alright, i am just gonna answer, last time i did this it bit me in the butt. i cant answer for ALL s type personages, just myself. i would adore to meet someone in my own backyard. it would really lessen the chance of me hauling back across the country. shoot i do all i can to not go to miami, but imagine, they rarely wanna come this way. no clue why? think it is a domly thing. notice i didnt say all.

biggest reason i notice for not meeting is the lack of compatibility. the sooner the meet happens, the better off things are, well normally.

lee

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RE: DO all Submissives.................... - 8/6/2007 8:46:46 AM   
hejira92


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Status: offline 		Stupid "all" questions.............
 
I found Master here (as you all must be tired of hearing) and He lives 30 miles from me. I see Him at least twice a week AND we are compatible vanilla-wise as well. So, to the "all" asking OP- Naa-naa-na-naa-naa.
 
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