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RE: How do I proceed? - 6/17/2007 2:11:02 PM

addicted2it

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ORIGINAL: freebird

I met a Domme here. She is an amazing woman in every since of the word! Confident, beautiful, very seductive, an excellent personality, and most intriguing!!! On our second meeting tonight...I took her to dinner which went well... after dinner she asked if i wanted to go with her to a ....dance place.... I wasn't feeling myself and my back was really bothering me....so I thought I wouldn't have been good company and let her down. I did not show up I know...I'm an idiot! I like this woman alot thus far...
Ok...specifically........
1) How should I recover from my stupid decision not to show up?
2) How can I find out how not to act in a way that would turn her off in a sesion ...or better yet...how to make her happy with me?
Thanks everyone for your help and support!

Well, besides that fact that you have successfully contributed to the mistrust that many dommes have felt over the years from either being stood up for a date, or from a possible relationship that could have happened but didn't, because the so-called sub decided to vanish from the face of the earth with no explanation of apology, have you learned anything from this experience? I mean, how old are yu, and did you think that this was a prom date?

Whether or not you have a back problem, or that you didn't think you could have been her dancing partner for the evening, did you not even consider that she might have just wanted you there because she liked you? Wouldn't a simple telephone call to her saying that you couldn't make it be better than to just stand her up? No one appreciates their date for the evening not showing up or at least calling to cancel, so where was your head that moment? I hesitate to express my opinion because of decorum, but I strongly suggest that you take a very serious look at what your behavior may have cost you, and to those of us who are seeking what you might possibly have thrown away by your selfish and insensitive actions.

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(in reply to freebird)