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juliaoceania -> RE: Begging/asking (6/11/2007 11:12:07 PM)

My Daddy dislikes begging in any form. I do not beg. I can ask for things, but if the answer is no, it is no. There are very few things he demands I ask for.

Some doms not only do not expect you to beg, they would be turned off by it.




WhiplashSmile -> RE: Begging/asking (6/12/2007 1:06:48 AM)

I'm going to make a serious post about begging. 
  1. There are times when I've made or should I say enticed a sub/slave to beg.
  2. They clearly knew that I was wanting to hear them beg.
  3. Yes, it is and can be very difficult getting somebody to be for the first few times.
  4. No, I do not enjoy having somebody beg all the time.  Again, it was clear when I desired this.  Mainly because of the smile on my face, and not giving a yes/no answer.  However, I would ask them how badly do they want X, with a smile on my face.  I would avoid giving them an answer to their request, I find by not saying Yes/No/Maybe that it tends to bring out the begger.   Meaning they see me contemplating things in thought with a smile, knowing that if they Beg hard enough, they will recieve what they are begging for.   If they refuse to beg, I refuse to give them an answer, which means it's an automatic no go, unless they beg.  He he he...
  5. I will often laugh and smile a little during the whole begging process.  Perhaps inject some smart ass remarks or questions in a humorous tone, just to help intensify the begging a little bit more.
  6. About the time when the sub/slave is ready to mentally snap in half from begging, I wave my magic wand with the magic Yes answer.
  7. It's important to not cross the line to the point a sub/slave becomes too upset/angry.  There is a point where the begging routine can turn ugly.  A Dom/Master should know his sub/slave well and their begging limits!  Yes, I said Begging limits.  There is a limit to how far to take this.
  8. This is not something I do all the time, just on occasions where the opportunity presents itself.  There is a time for begging and not.  Begging has it's own proper place.  Not something to do all the time.

I may have missed something or not in this post.  I think I've coughed up enough information for a general idea here.  I don't know how well this information stacks up to published material on the subject.  Like anything else there is always more information on the subject, along with more advanced tips, different styles and approaches. 




MissyRane -> RE: Begging/asking (6/12/2007 11:20:41 AM)

ohh I can beg if I'm teased to do it but if I'm supposed to beg very seriously then no that's my limit lol

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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
7. It's important to not cross the line to the point a sub/slave becomes too upset/angry.  There is a point where the begging routine can turn ugly.  A Dom/Master should know his sub/slave well and their begging limits!  Yes, I said Begging limits.  There is a limit to how far to take this.

8. This is not something I do all the time, just on occasions where the opportunity presents itself.  There is a time for begging and not.  Begging has it's own proper place.  Not something to do all the time.


I suppose begging limits is when I rush out and slam the door behind me[:D]
or is it maybe the point where i jump you n hug n squeeze n uhhhhhh I'm not gonna go into details[:)]

but ya the begging you described sounds the kinda beg I think is doable...in a relaxed/joyful atmosphere..know what I mean




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