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RE: Profile trends - 6/20/2007 6:52:10 PM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		Well not doing bad, given out of the entire thread My profile only has ONE of the 'trends' in it (And given the length of My profile I don't think thats too bad *g*, the "Not looking for a doormat", but at least I go on to describe what I mean and what I AM looking for :)

The trend that usualy has Me moving onto the next profile rather than bothering to respond is the "I'm so submissive, but here is a whole shoppinglist of hoops I expect you to jump through"... as if!

At least I read part of those, which is more than anthing heavy on TXTSPK gets!


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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 10:22:57 AM   
Supernatural


Posts: 26
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Status: offline 		Good post. Some of these answers had me LMAO ... keep it up.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 10:32:35 AM   
darchChylde


Posts: 5279
Joined: 9/28/2006
From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco.
Status: offline 		after reading some of these posts mentioning "Nice Guys", i think perhaps i chose the wrong signature; lol... but i like it

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:04:47 AM   
submittous


Posts: 345
Joined: 6/12/2004
Status: offline 		We are always enamoured with profiles that tell us how a sub or slave will do anything to have a life of 24/7 M/s and when contact is made and a small request for things like preparing a bio or other writing assignment is made they never write back.... we assume the rush of masturbation is over and their interest wanes.

Bill and Iris

edited because even intelagant and edumacated folks sometimes make typos....

< Message edited by submittous -- 6/22/2007 11:08:18 AM >

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:15:44 AM   
LadyOpinx


Posts: 35
Joined: 5/30/2007
Status: offline 		What I can't handle is all the pictures of the "happy couples" who have found each other but still hang out to keep up with friends. 

That's fine....but find a room for the romantic kissy stuff. 

This is a site filled with people looking---sometimes Longing---to find companionship.  To see kissy couples just rubs in the loneliness.

(Or I guess I could try to look on the *bright side* and say that it should give us *Hope* that we can find that kind of happiness....hmmmm, am I feeling that Pollyanna today?)


*Bright Blessings*

Lady O.



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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:28:44 AM   
Aubre


Posts: 478
Joined: 12/9/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot

Submissive female profile; "My Dom sent me here to find another
female sub to join us."


Every time I see this, it makes me wonder. Sure seems like a lot of this is going on.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:36:07 AM   
NocturnalDeviant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cabernet

I always like to read the different profiles on Collarme, and since i'm a female sub, it's usually the Male Dominant ones that I look at the most.  Have you ever noticed that there are some things that lots of people will say, such as...

1.  "I'm not like other Doms.  I'm different."       or...

2.  "I'm a nice guy, but don't mistake it for weakness."


Well after reading this it seems that I have fallen into the trap of thinking that I had written a fairly unique profile but I have just recycled the same old shit thats been going round for ages. So such is life.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:42:42 AM   
fairerthanshe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aubre


quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot

Submissive female profile; "My Dom sent me here to find another
female sub to join us."


Every time I see this, it makes me wonder. Sure seems like a lot of this is going on.


You would be amazed the number of times I hear this in the course of a day.
Here is an example:

"Master asked this girl to search for a chain sister.  this girl has read many of your posts and has shown them to her Master.  W/we agree that you are the perfect person to contact about this.  Do you know any cute slave girls that would fit into our home?"

I make fun of every stereotype I could think of in my profile and now the only challenge for prospectives is to discern truth from fiction.

well wishes ~ fairer




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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 12:03:37 PM   
ForgeDesire


Posts: 30
Joined: 4/1/2007
Status: offline 		Some ppl have so many mis-spelling in their profile you can't even make out what some sentences mean. It's crazy. I feel like these people never even bothered to look over what they wrote. Ever. Never. It's crazy. Even some people have mis-spellings in their own friggin name. Worthless.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 1:52:07 PM   
addicted2it


Posts: 322
Joined: 5/31/2004
From: California
Status: offline
I just love the profiles that say that you must be local or able to relocate, and no LDRs, but they fail to give their location other than the state (and I don't mean state of mind) they are in.  It's my own person pet peeve, but I no longer own pets, so I guess I am just peeved.


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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 2:16:01 PM   
CirclMastr


Posts: 25
Joined: 5/31/2007
Status: offline 		So given everything coming out in this thread (and coupled with the fact that I'm both very new to all this and haven't gotten any interest from my profile), any chance I could ask that it be critiqued?

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 4:48:43 PM   
Mystique567


Posts: 273
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		"i want a sub to have and to obay me we will set the rales and thay will be keeped"

I think spelling has to be my what pushes my buttons, this one was my favorite, and yes it was a real profile.

Also the "real Doms"

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 4:51:22 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		I'm a great speller.  Too bad I'm not in Wisconsin though.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 4:54:19 PM   
addicted2it


Posts: 322
Joined: 5/31/2004
From: California
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mystique567

"i want a sub to have and to obay me we will set the rales and thay will be keeped"

I think spelling has to be my what pushes my buttons, this one was my favorite, and yes it was a real profile.

Also the "real Doms"


I am certain that your quote was taken directly from the Bible.


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RE: Profile trends - 6/22/2007 11:50:47 PM   
obis


Posts: 412
Joined: 9/9/2005
From: Austin, TX, USA
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quote:

ORIGINAL: addicted2it

I just love the profiles that say that you must be local or able to relocate, and no LDRs, but they fail to give their location other than the state (and I don't mean state of mind) they are in.




Oh, jeez, I see you're in California -- same thing down here in TX. I realize many people never leave their hometown, but they still should know from 7th grade geography that these states are larger than many countries!

My favorite was one recently here in TX that had nothing but the state and she even said in her profile that she'd immediately delete any messages asking where in TX she lived, since she was trying to be safe. We don't need your street address, but it would sure be handy if you could narrow it down to a couple thousand square miles!

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RE: Profile trends - 6/23/2007 4:35:11 AM   
NocturnalDeviant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: obis
My favorite was one recently here in TX that had nothing but the state and she even said in her profile that she'd immediately delete any messages asking where in TX she lived, since she was trying to be safe. We don't need your street address, but it would sure be handy if you could narrow it down to a couple thousand square miles!


I even find that with people from the UK as well.  I don't want to know their exact address just wnat county thery are in and maybe the town or city.  Its just so I don't waste my time getting to know somone and then find that hey live at the other end of the country.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/23/2007 6:25:21 AM   
addicted2it


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From: California
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quote:

ORIGINAL: obis

quote:

ORIGINAL: addicted2it

I just love the profiles that say that you must be local or able to relocate, and no LDRs, but they fail to give their location other than the state (and I don't mean state of mind) they are in.




Oh, jeez, I see you're in California -- same thing down here in TX. I realize many people never leave their hometown, but they still should know from 7th grade geography that these states are larger than many countries!

My favorite was one recently here in TX that had nothing but the state and she even said in her profile that she'd immediately delete any messages asking where in TX she lived, since she was trying to be safe. We don't need your street address, but it would sure be handy if you could narrow it down to a couple thousand square miles!


Yeah, I've ranted about the same thing before, and 'ya know what I usually get?  Women who say that they have been harassed and stalked, so they are being very careful not to give out their location.  But then there is no photo of them, and of course their sceen name isn't their real name.

Texas is the largest state per square mile than any other, and California my come in second or third.  But even if we had an idea her general location, it would help us to decide whether it was even practical to make the trip to wherever they are.


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RE: Profile trends - 6/23/2007 6:30:08 AM   
GeekyGirl


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Joined: 8/21/2006
Status: offline 		Ditto on the texas thing! People don't seem to realize that it takes 8 fricking hours to drive across the state! If Person A is in Houston and person B is in Gainesville, that's one hellacious drive.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/23/2007 7:26:45 AM   
asubmissiveheart


Posts: 462
Joined: 11/20/2006
Status: offline 		True, but at least you are in the same state.
You can always meet half way.

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RE: Profile trends - 6/23/2007 7:28:59 AM   
addicted2it


Posts: 322
Joined: 5/31/2004
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: asubmissiveheart

True, but at least you are in the same state.
You can always meet half way.


Never knew a domme who would meet half way.


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