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RE: Testing - 8/22/2008 10:56:44 AM

rexfernnell

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Test them back:? thats like someone that says their Mate cheated so now they will cheat.if I test them back then I"m No better then them.playing games,I better then that.

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RE: Testing - 8/22/2008 1:09:00 PM

FlamingRedhead

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I have chatted with a kajira whose Master has commanded that she test him every so often to keep him on his toes and not let things get too routine. She may get away with something. She may get brought to her knees quickly. She may think she's gotten away with something and get bolder, only to discover that her Master was playing cat and mouse.

As a little girl type, I enjoyed being playful to provoke a spanking with my previous dominant. However, with Daddy, I don't have much of an urge to do that, probably because I can "sense" that he's not one to mess with. That being said, he has expressed some disappointment that I haven't "done anything." *ggls* I've been a good girl, but if Daddy doesn't want me to be good all the time....who's to say that I'm topping from the bottom or being manipulative? To me, it's just a game people play and has no bearing on whether someone is a "twue" submissive/slave.

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RE: Testing - 10/24/2008 2:22:26 PM

rexfernnell

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so flaming redhead you belive everyone test peroid? thats sad to Me because if everyones is always where is the trust or how can you trust the words and actions.if your slave is told to do something and she says she had a long day can it wait until tomorrow. did she have a long day and is just asking for some kindness or is she testing just to see if you will stick to your guns?.you see once you bring testing in to it any and everything can be a test.

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RE: Testing - 10/24/2008 5:13:55 PM

velvetslave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rexfernnell

Do all subs test? and if so why?

i do not "test" my Master. i have never felt the need to do this. If i needed to test Him then we would not be a good match. i trust Him in His abilities, if i didn't then we would not be together. Also, if i continuously tested Him i would find myself released so fast i wouldn't know what hit me.

i wanted a Master who i could "hand over the reigns" to without having to constantly test them. He wanted a slave who would give themselves to Him without constantly "tugging on the leash". He leads, i follow....it works for us.

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