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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 6:03:11 AM

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oooo I like the locket idea, (of course I am an incurable romantic, and to me a locket is a perfect example of that.) Your boy sounds really sweet.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 6:29:59 AM

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I love the idea of jewelry for Your Mistress to wear as a reminder of you and your relationship. I have never received that type of gift from a submissive. I have recieved a bracelet etc for Christmas or BD .. but this seems totally different and would certainly win a very special place in my heart.

. I have given all my submissives jewelry for one reason or another and also have given some of them sterling silver keychains engraved with their name on one side and property of and my name on the other. The engraving is very unobtursive yet is there for the 2 of you to KNOW and caress from time to time.

I think the engraved key chain would work for your Mistress until you can research more and find out somethign special she would wear all the time .

Good luck. You sound like the thoughtful submissive so many of us seek!!

PS ... I didnt know about the Domina left ankle bracelet either .. I always thought it was a sign of submission ... but Im never in the " loop " LOL.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 7:03:39 AM

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hi,

I'm really stumped. I wanna get something for my domme ( we're both new to all this, long time relationship and this has really become a huge part of our relationship). She's gotten me a pewter pendant w/ the bdsm emblem, I wear it 24/7.

I wanna get her something simmilar, but i dunno what's...appropreate. I mean to me a nice jewled chain bracelt seems more like something a sub would wear....she has tons on pendants and such, but she's not comfotable outing that side of her, so i need to find something that's fitting.

sorry, i've never really posted before, so I'll cut this before i ramble too much more.

Something very romantic... Go to Eve's Addiction or the like. Get a chain with a silver lock. You can have it engaved "Property" and then get her a necklace with a key. They have some that are old fashion with or without rhinestones.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 7:09:16 AM

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Why not talk to your dominant about this issue?

Take her shopping, see what things she likes, note a few of them and then choose one.

That's what Tom did for my engagments ring. We went shopping at several stores. At each I found 1-2 I liked, he literally wrote them down then later went and bought one and proposed.

I felt great about the fact that he took the time to really consider what I wanted, get my opinions, and then balanced that with his income ability.

This was my thoughts exactly. I am verrrrrrry picky about jewelry and rarely does someone "get" what I like. It's better to let her choose I think.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 7:29:24 AM

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Try this link. They have some really nice stuff.

http://cuffme.com/product_info.php?cPath=2&products_id=127

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 8:07:01 AM

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This is a very nice gesture on your part. You've gotten some good ideas. The locket is an excellent one, especially if you would like to put a picture of yourself, or something else meaningful inside. Another thought that I had was a symbolic key. Something that could be put on Her keychain as ownership of you.

My method may not work for you, because My situation is a bit different, but I always have a ring, which is worn on My right hand. No, it is not traditional, but there are reasons for the symbol. Being married already, I wear My wedding band on My left hand, so I put the ring I wear for My submissive on the right. For Me, it connects with the old concept of flagging. Being worn on the right means that I have a submissive and am not looking.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 12:56:37 PM

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Hello,

I was going to suggest earrings, but of course... I am big on lockets!

Another thing I was thinking is making a CD for her... consisting of music that says something you would like to say to her. I got one like that once and to this day it is a reminder and a fav of mine. The cost is minimal, but the effect can be major!

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 1:16:13 PM

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the Locket idea is great, years ago i gave her a pendent i found in mexioc, and she wears it almost 24/7, bu that was long before this part of our relationship evolved, and now...it's become such a core part.

I might di the locket thing, the key and lock idea is perfect, if only i could fine a nice lock...like one of them one ones that lock in the from with a skeleton key, I've seen some on the net but ordering 1 lock always seems like such a waste.

again, i just wanted to say thanks for all the help, it's nice to find a place where i can ask questions like this.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 4:46:51 PM

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I found a ring that is silver with black hills gold leaves on it that has a heart shaped lock and an old fashioned key. For me it reminds me of all that is in the lifestyle that I can't wear just anywhere and no one questions.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 6:32:07 PM

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A nice ankle bracelet worn on the left ankle is the secret sign of a Domina--I think that would be very nice.

Dang, I knew I shoulda read that Secret Domina's Handbook they gave me when I joined. Instead, I sold it on ebay in unused condition! ;)

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 7:35:43 PM

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A nice ankle bracelet worn on the left ankle is the secret sign of a Domina--I think that would be very nice.

Dang, I knew I shoulda read that Secret Domina's Handbook they gave me when I joined. Instead, I sold it on ebay in unused condition! ;)

I bid on it and I missed out. Sob. Where's the website to this secret society so I can pay by PayPal to join up and get the Handbook and the instructions for the secret handshake?
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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 7:45:55 PM

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Quite to the contrary, in the 40's and 50's when ankle bracelets were making their rebirth---Dominas wanted a secret way to be known, most ankle bracelets are worn on the right, Dominas started wearing them on the left---

This does not ring true for me. For most people the dominant side is the right (apologies to you lefties) so a Dominant would not wear such a sign on their non Dominant side.
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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/13/2007 11:44:18 PM

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cursed small town. I hate living in the middle of nowhere. I went out to try and find a nice padlock that locks at the front, cause they tend to use skeleton keys and such, and are pretty, and everywhere i went said there's no such thing, except for this antique store that had rusty iron locks and keys

...i wish i could find a pretty, shiny (oh she LOVES shiny) skeleton key, that i could mabey put on a keyring or a nice chain or something.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/14/2007 3:55:56 AM

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Quite to the contrary, in the 40's and 50's when ankle bracelets were making their rebirth---Dominas wanted a secret way to be known, most ankle bracelets are worn on the right, Dominas started wearing them on the left---

This does not ring true for me. For most people the dominant side is the right (apologies to you lefties) so a Dominant would not wear such a sign on their non Dominant side.
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Remember, it was to be secretly recognized as such----hence the difference.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/14/2007 11:48:39 AM

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I am allergic to nickel so I have to be very careful about jewelry. I can't wear gold or silver even because they contain some nickel. Because of that, my slave has gotten very creative about metals and even had a necklace designed for me. I would suggest paying attention first and foremost. What does she like? What does she own? Take her shopping and observe where she is drawn. Does she like simple, ornate, stones, metals?

I like the idea of keeping it a surprise but to do so may take some time and effort on your part.

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/14/2007 11:58:31 AM

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I went throught the exact same thing. This is what I did.....I asked Mistress exactly what type of jewelry She likes. I also thought that many of jewelry items were more geared toward submissives. As Mistress explained, some of the jewelry, like chokers that would make some think of a collar, it's the intent. Mistress loves the chokers, she has a long lovely elegant neck, and the choker would look fantastic on Her.

Don't be afraid to ask. I asked Mistress. Even knowing what She likes, if I gave Her something not suited to Her taste, then no worries there either. Exchange time! Plus a shopping trip with Mistress....win win situation all around!!

Good luck!!!

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RE: Jewlery for a Domme? - 6/15/2007 3:50:37 PM

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so i talked with her, she was really happy that i was putting so much effort into finding her something, she liked the lock/key idea alot, as it's full of symbolism and meaning, while not being obvious. She's very self-concious when it comes to displaying her domme side, or he association to bdsm around her folks and at work and such. And since we're apart for a few months...it making things rough, she's pleased my romantic streak is comming out.

Any ideas on where i can find a reallt nice lock and key set, hopefully with a pretty, shiny skeleton key and one of the old fashoined locks where the key goes in the front?

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