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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

. ...It is a straight forward honest approach that has worked for me. .....And the Domidong.

And where was the Domidong when i was on the cockworship thread?

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

. ...It is a straight forward honest approach that has worked for me. .....And the Domidong.

And where was the Domidong when i was on the cockworship thread?

I was meticulously overlooking the preparation of a robe, sash and Pope's mitre hat to don upon the Domidong...Unfortunaltely the thread lost steam before the final touches on the hat were made....Needless to say the Domidong was breathtaking in it's new digs and well deserving of all and every sub's worship.

Picture?

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956
First, look at the plethora of replies from intelligent submissive women who frequently post here who all say it doesn't work on THEM but "other girls" must give in-- why?  Where is your evidence? 

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Second, if she does respond then isn't she getting something she needs, too?  Who's the wanker, and the wankee?

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 Obviously there is a difference in degree of harm, but aren't you saying both women are to blame for the bad male behavior?  Considering 3 or 4 of the smartest women I read on here said they blame the "other girls" for the wankers...makes you go "hmmmmm".

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3.  Daring, Politically incorrect suggestion:  To the OP.  You tell us you had a rough week.  You apparently fly into rage at the drop of an (electronic) hat.  You are easily swayed by external events when you are feeling angry/depressed/down.  So why do you choose to rant, whine and otherwise curse and yell here in your un-self-flattering, attention-seeking manner?  Why not (gasp)  TURN OFF THE COMPUTER instead?

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty


Relax, their are plenty of trolls around, just ignore them.

It would be soooooo refreshing if you only could take your own advice.

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

3.  Daring, Politically incorrect suggestion:  To the OP.  You tell us you had a rough week.  You apparently fly into rage at the drop of an (electronic) hat.  You are easily swayed by external events when you are feeling angry/depressed/down.  So why do you choose to rant, whine and otherwise curse and yell here in your un-self-flattering, attention-seeking manner?  Why not (gasp)  TURN OFF THE COMPUTER instead?

but then again, that's just me.

E. 

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

[I would have tried that tactic as well, but her personal history suggests it being very unlikely for her to understand or follow through on that advice so I went the other route.

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
... They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump.

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ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
... They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump.

True,
This is because during their last (and likely only) visit with a Pro-Domme she demanded and boy did they jump. Now they believe if they put on the "Dom" title you will do the same.

I would suggest you limit your Cam time to simply providing evidence that you are really who you claim to be and if anyone needs to see you remove clothing on cam then ignore them. Nakedness should be reserved for face to face experiences.

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Who ever told them that every sub should drop down and do what is demmanded because he THINKS he's all mighty powerful dom asshole? I'm serious.... someone had to tell them these things. Not all doms do this... so apparently someone told them they aren't suppose to. So where do these other idiots get their information from? Is there a club out there for wanna be idiot doms? Is there a book out there that illustrates how to be the biggest asshole you can be in the BDSM community?

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
LOL LA... about 9 months ago.. that would of bothered me... and you would of been right.... but people change... except you... glad to see you still know me all so well....

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ORIGINAL: akisha

I agree with LA. I kow of more then a few subs online over the years that said "Well he's a dom and he said I had too."

Sadly, common sense is not that common

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Clearly one takes the time to read a profile. They even question you about it when talking to you. But then they just dive right in. They see you state... no cam... but then demmand you turn on cam for pussy looking. They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump.

Yeah I know there have been numerous threads on Dom barking and sub dropping.  I get a great laugh out of these assholes. But sometimes it just hits ya wrong and it gets ya in a pissy mood.

Of course when he demmanded I turn on my cam because he wanted to see pussy... I laughed.. told him to fuck off...and then clicked ignore.  But I didn't feel better after that. I actually got angery. And it got me to thinking.... What modivates these assholes?

Who ever told them that every sub should drop down and do what is demmanded because he THINKS he's all mighty powerful dom asshole? I'm serious.... someone had to tell them these things. Not all doms do this... so apparently someone told them they aren't suppose to. So where do these other idiots get their information from? Is there a club out there for wanna be idiot doms? Is there a book out there that illustrates how to be the biggest asshole you can be in the BDSM community?

It seems the more you say No... the more you say no can do..the more they try to pressure you. (And that's before they start chatting with you.) It's like they see that in a profile and zoom right in and go for a fresh kill or something. I don't understand the modivation behind it.

All it makes me do is try to come up with the most degrading comment I can at the time and slam them with it.  Is this what gets them their jollies? Being degraded by a submissive? How in the hell can a dom find jolly in that? Wait... just answered my own question there... they're not a dom. THEY"RE WANKERSSSSSSSSSSSS.....

Sorry for the rant.. been a rough week for me. But I still wonder what modivates these assholes.

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2.  Politically incorrect thought #1:  In assuming that "it works because of what the other girls do" aren't you ladies blaming the victim?  How is the silly newbie who responds to "Show Me Your PUSSY NOW, Bitch" by turning on her cam and showing her naughty bits (and therefore it is her fault that she encourages the wank) any different that the woman who is raped walking home from a club on a late night dressed in provocative clothing?  Obviously there is a difference in degree of harm, but aren't you saying both women are to blame for the bad male behavior?  Considering 3 or 4 of the smartest women I read on here said they blame the "other girls" for the wankers...makes you go "hmmmmm".

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
LOL LA... about 9 months ago.. that would of bothered me... and you would of been right.... but people change... except you... glad to see you still know me all so well....

Well it's funny that when you were with that guy, your profile had something in it to the effect of "What they said about me before was true, even though I denied it.  Now I'm learning to relax and be better at not sniping."

I guess that disappeared along with the relationship.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

When the internet was first emerging it was hailed as this amazing vehicle for education and communication. The reality is that it has become a super highway for porn. Most porn sites charge - big time. The smart wankers have discovered that on BDSM sites they can get it for free. It's not rocket science. And it's certainly not BDSM. 
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LH