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Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 9:59:35 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		So its like this.  A dom contacted me here we chatted.  He asked me to do a few things on cam.  I declined because Im not comfortable showing nawty bits on cam to anyone.  This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

I am of the opinion that since he is NOT my Dom, I can say no as much as I please and it shouldnt matter.  Im not collared and I dont have to answer to anyone but myself.  Apparently this fruitcake thinks otherwise.

Why do some Doms feel that because they are labelled as such, that all subs/slaves must fall to their lil knees and what not. 

Or am I just a cranky bitch? lmao...

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:19:54 AM   
FreeSpiritSpero


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Status: offline 		no you are completely right.  you don't have to do anything u don't want to online!

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:20:33 AM   
santalia


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Status: offline 		Greetings

No, you're not "just a cranky bitch"

you're looking after you, and that is exactly what you should be doing. He is not your Master and has no right to expect anything of you that you do not wish to allow Him. If it were me in your shoes, i'd probably block Him from the moment He asked me to go on cam with Him. i think (just my opinion, not say it's anybody else's) that nobody should ask for a pic or cam of another until they've begun getting to know the other person and if the other person says no when asked, then back off and give them some space. It's about respect. It's about allowing time to get to know each other. Without that, the relationship is not likely to last long...though that is my opinion and not necessarily anybody else's. ;)

i wish you well.

-santalia{JR}

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:27:26 AM   
YourShyPet


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Status: offline 		I always associate with boys asking or <laughs> trying to order/demand me to show them my cam... and show them my naughty bits on cam as... boys looking for a free porn cam show... and my standard response to them is I'm not free porn..... and direct them to the hundreds of thousands of free porn sites they can find on the internet.

kittin

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:28:28 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

So its like this.  A dom contacted me here we chatted.  He asked me to do a few things on cam.  I declined because Im not comfortable showing nawty bits on cam to anyone.  This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

I am of the opinion that since he is NOT my Dom, I can say no as much as I please and it shouldnt matter.  Im not collared and I dont have to answer to anyone but myself.  Apparently this fruitcake thinks otherwise.

Why do some Doms feel that because they are labelled as such, that all subs/slaves must fall to their lil knees and what not. 

Or am I just a cranky bitch? lmao...


any online directions for testing need not be camming-- that shit is for fools, and little pudpounders--- if I see your naughty bits you can better belive I am gonna wanna turn them dials on you to  Radio Free Europe, and snatch that ass off the face of the earth.  And my dick is not thousands of miles of reach.  (well ok, I could do a couple hundred maybe, but I ain't the man I was 20 years ago....)

You can't hug a cam.

That's an important bit, that last part.


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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:33:49 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:

This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

Respond that he's correct.  Things won't work out.  Because he's a ....... wanker


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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:38:40 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		If you aren't owned, you don't have to obey anybody.

Perhaps the better question: Do you want to be owned by someone who feels entitled to things that are not his?

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:45:54 AM   
silvermuse


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Status: offline 		Hm, sounds like an insta-dom to me.

What he needs is a box of WonderSub.

Take one box of this wonderful substance, add a cup of milk stir for five minutes and in no time at all you have a fully fledged, no limits, obedient to your slightest whim, submissive. Comes in small, medium, large and x-large!

muse

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:47:49 AM   
mnottertail


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< Message edited by mnottertail -- 6/16/2007 10:48:52 AM >

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 10:49:57 AM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		Yep...its STILL the sub types decision...i dont understand why its always some big revolution  that there are men who think they are "Dom the magnificent"

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:11:47 AM   
lilacs


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Status: offline 		Egads.  Dodged a bullet with that one, I think you did.  ::nodsnodsnods::  I'm sorry you wasted your time with him - he wasn't worth even the time it took you to reply to his emails.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:12:19 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		Haha Thanks for the responses yall.  He sent me another message a bit ago saying that he pities the poor soul who takes interest in me.  I just retorted that I pitty the blow up doll he falls asleep with every night...

oh well.  asses like him make the world go round...

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The next time you think I give a fuck, remember the 3 F's... Unless you are Feeding me, Financing me, or Fucking me, I don't give a fuck!!

"Kyttyn: The Other White Meat!" - DRH

10 Miles of Hot Chocolate Lovin'.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:13:59 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		Lilacs, Im kinda sorry I wasted time responding to him too.  But I see it this way, he allowed to get my "im outta caffeine and cigs until i get some clothes on and get outta bed" frustration out.  And now Im all smiles!

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Hibbie's Hottie

The next time you think I give a fuck, remember the 3 F's... Unless you are Feeding me, Financing me, or Fucking me, I don't give a fuck!!

"Kyttyn: The Other White Meat!" - DRH

10 Miles of Hot Chocolate Lovin'.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:27:32 AM   
MsLadySue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Haha Thanks for the responses yall.  He sent me another message a bit ago saying that he pities the poor soul who takes interest in me.  I just retorted that I pitty the blow up doll he falls asleep with every night...



Fantastic response. You made my day.

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I love it when someone insults me. That means I don't have to be nice anymore.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:30:13 AM   
szobras


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Status: offline 		Why do some Doms feel that because they are labelled as such, that all subs/slaves must fall to their lil knees and what not. 
I don't know if it's as much that some feel so because they label themselves, as much as it is in hopes because they have labeled themselves so.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 11:31:53 AM   
lilacs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Lilacs, Im kinda sorry I wasted time responding to him too.  But I see it this way, he allowed to get my "im outta caffeine and cigs until i get some clothes on and get outta bed" frustration out.  And now Im all smiles!


You go girl!  You're worth better!


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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 12:02:22 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

Im kinda sorry I wasted time responding to him too. 


It's okay.  Sometimes people are just begging to be played with.


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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 1:13:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		They do it because it often works.  Lots of guys will try and shame a newbie into doing what they want- and it often works.  The sub wants so hard to impress and show what a good girl they are that they completely let go of any boundary they have and dance along.

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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 2:01:13 PM   
MrrPete


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Status: offline 		Because that's what thos type Doms do and there's nothing anyone can do to change them. All you can do is delete their message and block them.

If they violate CM's TOS you can report them to CM


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RE: Just A Question... - 6/16/2007 3:58:50 PM   
Quivver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

You can't hug a cam.

That's an important bit, that last part.



Awe..... Sending Hugs to Ron. 


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