Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance end?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance end? Page: <<   < prev  10 11 [12] 13 14   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:31:19 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Wow domi did you piss in someone's wheaties or what?


Katy,

As much as you like to put your nose in the business of how people live their private lives....Your help is not needed...All you are witnessing is a harmless little  lover's spat.

Some people need to mind their own fucking business....

_____________________________



(in reply to KatyLied)
Profile   Post #: 221
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:33:33 PM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Well not all girls like peepee wheaties games, you should know that.

_____________________________

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”
- Albert Einstein

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 222
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:36:03 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Well not all girls like peepee wheaties games, you should know that.


True...I forgot of the time we spent together...If I recall you are more of the piss on my croissant type of gal.

_____________________________



(in reply to KatyLied)
Profile   Post #: 223
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:37:16 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		Do you think that the drunk guys abused those two girls when they got home?  At least angelic made sure they all got home safely...It really was kind of a sweet gesture when you think about it.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 6/19/2007 12:38:28 PM >

_____________________________



(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 224
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:40:59 PM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Well not all girls like peepee wheaties games, you should know that.


True...I forgot of the time we spent together...If I recall you are more of the piss on my croissant type of gal.


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 225
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:41:43 PM   
philosophy


Posts: 5284
Joined: 2/15/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.


...betches can't be gay?

(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 226
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:43:11 PM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: philosophy

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.


...betches can't be gay?


I tried.  I really did.  But kittensol shot me down sooo quickly.
I think I've lost my taste for the tang.

(in reply to philosophy)
Profile   Post #: 227
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:44:38 PM   
philosophy


Posts: 5284
Joined: 2/15/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: philosophy

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.


...betches can't be gay?


I tried.  I really did.  But kittensol shot me down sooo quickly.
I think I've lost my taste for the tang.


try, try and try again.......after all, it would cheer Domiguy up......

(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 228
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:44:50 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Well not all girls like peepee wheaties games, you should know that.


True...I forgot of the time we spent together...If I recall you are more of the piss on my croissant type of gal.


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.


Nothing like a warm and moist croissant in the morning.... We woke up....refreshed from an evening of anal...our view overlooking beautiful New Jersey....

_____________________________



(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 229
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:47:23 PM   
kittinSol


Posts: 16926
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: philosophy

try, try and try again.......after all, it would cheer Domiguy up......


Ah... alright then, seeing as it's for a good cause :-)

_____________________________



(in reply to philosophy)
Profile   Post #: 230
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:51:55 PM   
kittinSol


Posts: 16926
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: philosophy

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68


No, that was me.  Keep your betches straight.


...betches can't be gay?


I tried.  I really did.  But kittensol shot me down sooo quickly.
I think I've lost my taste for the tang.


Ah, you see... I never meant to 'shoot you down' like that... Sorry, it's domiguy's fault. Oh well, another missed opportunity!

_____________________________



(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 231
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 12:52:10 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


Posts: 2431
Joined: 11/29/2004
From: Indiana
Status: offline 		The realm of "this is for your own good" is a sticky one, especially when it crosses the line of a person's willingness to change and the activity is a consensual one.  When the person is obviously damaging themselves it makes that line a little easier to cross.  However, that line isn't very obvious in this lifestyle.  We do need to strive to be tolerant, but we need to strive to be safe as well.  There really aren't any right answers.  We just have to give it a good dose of thought and do what we feel is best in any given situation.  It's all we can do.

_____________________________

"Oh, it's torture, but I'm almost there."
~The Cure

"I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say, and I will be your slave."
~The Labyrinth

(in reply to angelic)
Profile   Post #: 232
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 1:39:45 PM   
velvetears


Posts: 2933
Joined: 6/19/2006
Status: offline 		i gave an example as everyone seemed to be demanding one to explain more clearly what the op meant in her first post. i didn't mean for it to become a debate on morals/ethics/ etc about that particular example i gave. A  lot of assumptions were made about what i said. i never said i saw them withness scening, they witnessed seeing impact toys and conversation regarding what their parents did. Their parents talked about them being exposed to everything, they were sitting right there when these things were said.  This happened 10 years ago, i chose to leave, if it happened tomorrow i would probably handle it quite differently.  

Also, i wasn't comparing that incident to rape. i was responding to what dark said she  basically stated something to the effect everyone should live life the way they feel like.  The rape example was in reference to that, to give an example of how we cannot simply live life the way we want, there are boundaries and constraints all around us so we all can live relatively safely. 

If consent is a huge concern in wiitwd i would ask the question - if these um's were not of the age of consent, and if they and their parents were telling the truth, were the parents consenting for them?  If it's acceptable for them to witness events as long as their parents say it's ok why don't fetish clubs have  family night, maybe they could even hand out flyers or play computer games in the corner of the club?  Heck maybe if they are at least 12 they could set up a movie night and they can watch Secretary? How cool would that be!

_____________________________

Religion is for people who are scared of hell, Spirituality is for people who have been there

(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 233
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 2:25:58 PM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline 		The only reason people are making such 'assumptions' is because of the way you portrayed it.  A picnic is totally different to a barbeque - really velvet - and places a hugely different scenario.  I am not saying you meant to portray it that way, but at least accept that is how some read your words... just as I have to accept that I am 'condecending' to some people.  It's not your responsibility how we read your words, but accepting that is how it reads to others is part and parcel of thread writing.
 
I also understand that your rape comment was made in relation to my comment.  However you took that comment out of context again, because I wasn't speaking of rape, or any other action.  I was speaking specifically of 'cheating' - a question you asked me and I respected by answering.  I didn't expect you to take my words and turn them into an answer for something else.  Ask me the question again and insert the word 'rape' and I will answer you on that if you wish.  But don't assume that one answer fits all scenarios.

quote:

Heck maybe if they are at least 12 they could set up a movie night and they can watch Secretary. How cool would that be!


That wouldn't be cool - that would be a crime - that film is dire.

Peace
the.dark.

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to velvetears)
Profile   Post #: 234
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 2:34:08 PM   
Sinergy


Posts: 9383
Joined: 4/26/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

Julia : Pixelslave!


I wonder what Sinergy will think up when he reads this...



I gave up thinking for Lent.

In 1973.

Sinergy

_____________________________

"There is a fine line between clever and stupid"
David St. Hubbins "This Is Spinal Tap"

"Every so often you let a word or phrase out and you want to catch it and bring it back. You cant do that, it is gone, gone forever." J. Danforth Quayle


(in reply to KatyLied)
Profile   Post #: 235
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 2:48:42 PM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

Julia : Pixelslave!


I wonder what Sinergy will think up when he reads this...



I gave up thinking for Lent.

In 1973.

Sinergy


That explains a lot. 

(in reply to Sinergy)
Profile   Post #: 236
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 2:58:48 PM   
velvetears


Posts: 2933
Joined: 6/19/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

The only reason people are making such 'assumptions' is because of the way you portrayed it.  A picnic is totally different to a barbeque - really velvet - and places a hugely different scenario. 

 
You were the only one to mention it and after that i cleared it up by admitting i should have used the word bbq rather than picnic.  Either bbq or picnic can be in a public place, so i don't see this as the big misleading error that you are making it out to be.  i never alluded in my op that any of this was done in a public venue. At any rate you always seem to make grand sweeping statements and when anyone gives a specific example to challenge it you always have the out to say - oh but thats not what i was talking about, you have it all wrong. 
 
At any rate this whole nit picking is just getting the whole original op way off track..... why not try to use my original example given (with all it's alleged flaws) as it was intended instead of picking apart every aspect of it... that to me would seem more beneficial at least to the thread angelic started.

_____________________________

Religion is for people who are scared of hell, Spirituality is for people who have been there

(in reply to RCdc)
Profile   Post #: 237
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 3:06:06 PM   
mistoferin


Posts: 8284
Joined: 10/27/2004
Status: offline 		Just to be a smartass....

.............we usually barbeque AT our picnics!



_____________________________

Peace and light,
~erin~

There are no victims here...only volunteers.

When you make a habit of playing on the tracks, you thereby forfeit the right to bitch when you get hit by a train.

"I did it! I admit it and I'm gonna do it again!"

(in reply to velvetears)
Profile   Post #: 238
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 3:08:37 PM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline 		 - nit picker..!
*btw on the discussion of breasts - prefere yours any day erin...
 
Peace
the.dark.

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to mistoferin)
Profile   Post #: 239
RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance... - 6/19/2007 3:24:27 PM   
RCdc


Posts: 8674
Status: offline 		Velvet - there isn't any nit picking - just discussion.  If someone says picnic to me - that makes me think public(as I explained to you - changes scenario in my mind).  I don't have picnics of mass peoples in my back garden, I have lunchs, or barbeques, or gatherings.... whatever.  Barbeque indicates to me that it could be a private event.  (Also bear in mind that this isn't just a US board - in the UK we just don't 'do' public barbies - apart from the fact its illegal here in alot of places - same as I was trying to work out what your 'difference' is).  What other people thought it meant isnt what I said, I simply told you that I thought it was misleading to me.  And if you did get what I said wrong, yeah I will tell you.  Thats how you get to know people.  Like you telling me it was a bbq and not a picnic.  You are explaining so I/we can gain the best idea and perspective.  Whats the difference in you doing it to me, by taking my words and putting it on a different scenario(rape vs. cheating)?  I am not the only person who read your words and took it in a way you 'didn't mean'.  But shit happens -  it happens to me too on other threads.  It happens all over the board.  Just chill and don't take it on such a personal level.  Some people just asked you why and where you drew the line (which is and was in line with the OP) - no ones attacking but asking.  If you don't want to respond, don't - but blaming someone else (ie me) for asking upfront questions on something you wrote incoherently is just trashy. (And noooooo thats not a personal 'jab' nor meant to be 'condecending' - it's just how I 'speak' you dig?)
 
Peace
the.dark.

< Message edited by Darcyandthedark -- 6/19/2007 3:35:13 PM >

_____________________________
RC&dc


love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to velvetears)
Profile   Post #: 240
Page:   <<   < prev  10 11 [12] 13 14   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: When is enough, enough…..or where does acceptance end? Page: <<   < prev  10 11 [12] 13 14   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094