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RE: Coping with my Master's depression - 6/23/2007 8:08:15 PM

grlneedstolearn

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Coming from a sub/s standpoint of view, i've had times where i've been depressed and not talked to anyone. But i at least left my Dom a im saying that i don't want to talk right now. But that's how i cope, as others have said. i do put up a wall and shut myself in it for days.

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RE: Coping with my Master's depression - 6/23/2007 9:13:55 PM

WillowRain

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
Rather than make it all about YOUR needs, perhaps step up to the plate as a fellow human being and a supposed submissive and do some of that submissive shit. Oh like put his needs first and simply tell him how wonderful he is, how special he is, how magical he makes you feel and that you just might be submissive enough to wait oh, a couple of weeks without whining about your own fucking needs.
They guy may well be an asshole, maybe is dumping her, or perhaps he is surfing CM because nobody on the screen is whining to him about how many things her submission needs. For some I swear "submission" is about like "free checking" it sounds cool till you read the fine print and then you realize how fucking expensive it is.

....sings the "Hallelujah" chorus.....hilariously astute observation, Michael. Sad but true..........slave luci

Who knows what is happening for this man and this woman. It's hard to guess all the dynamics that might be going on. I would however like to say that a frightening number of Dominants aproach D&s as if it's a free cookie and benefit jar where they have utterly no responsibilities. Nobody said being a good Dominant or a good submissive was easy. Like all relationships, vanilla and kink, it's a butt load of work and if someone doesn't have the stomache for consistant work, they should probably just get a hamster instead.

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