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Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 12:01:58 PM   
trainedobedients


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Status: offline 		Lately I am wondering about being caged like a dog.

Master even suggests that I choose my own cage. But I wonder if fantasy is nicer than reality. How does it feel to be caged, how long can you be caged without phyiscal damage, what size should the cage be, can i sleep in it, is it only used for punishment or do you feel safe in it.

I would like to hear experiences and advice from others.

Thank you.

note: how do i get the vanilla cone off that is bothering me

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 12:10:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Master purchased a very large dog cage for me.  i do enjoy being in it.  It feels like a safe place for me.  Long term, would be hard due to not being able to stretch out fully.  So, i don't think i could sleep in it for the night.  i have taken naps in it.  A few hours is not bad.  He has not used it for punishment per se, but just as a time out and focusing period.  Focus can be hard for me, and when i am in the cage, there is not much else i can do but focus.  It does tend to make me very aware of what my place is.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 12:17:13 PM   
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I like hard bondage, chains, cages, manacles, etc. The strength of them makes me feel secure, the coolness of them delights my senses and the knowledge that I can't just wiggle out of them makes me feel very vulnerable.

Cages themselves are nice in that you can feel confined and yet not confined. They can be big enough to stay in, sleep in, walk in, even live in if you have the right set up. That sort of direct obvious control can be pretty awesome.

I also find in public spaces that cages have what I call the Fishbowl Effect. You are visible to others outside the cage, you can have limited interaction with them, but you are always in the "bowl" and you can't change it. You are on display.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 12:19:04 PM   
trainedobedients


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Status: offline 		thank you, please allow me to ask you one more question.

Do you ask to go in or is on initiative of your Master?

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 4:01:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: trainedobedients
note: how do i get the vanilla cone off that is bothering me


You have to keep posting.  everyone has had the vanilla cones before.  Just keep posting... it will go away.
 
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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 6:11:13 PM   
annare


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Status: offline 		i just wanted to thank you for putting up this topic. Cages have been of interest to me for quite some time so, its nice to read what others with experience have to say.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/19/2007 6:28:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		For some people a cage represents security, for others it brings up claustrophobia issues. If you have a tendency to be claustrophobic, it might not be for you. A nice warmly padded pet cage can feel wonderfully protective, like an extension of your Master. Take away the rugs and your clothes, and it might be a punishment. But whatever you do, think about the safety issues. You must have some sort of Out in an emergency. Fires happen. Burglars happen. Don't let it happen to you. My Master uses psychological keys rather than physical ones. The door is shut firmly and he tells me not to come out on pain of his Displeasure. It's as effective for me as a huge padlock, but if the huge padlock is important, then look into the ones that have some sort of fail safe.
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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/20/2007 8:58:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't been in the cage much yet but so far i really don't like it!!!

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/21/2007 4:36:47 PM   
HaveRopeWillBind


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Status: offline 		One cage solution that works well for long term is commercially available security cages or cells for industry or law enforcement. Something like what is available here:
http://www.cisco-eagle.com/storage/Barriers/Wire%20Barriers%20and%20Partions/prisoner-holding-cells.htm

This particular supplier is dealing in law enforcement, but very similar if not identical cages can be found through industrial supply companies and usually for less. These are not cheap and must be assembled and anchored down, but they work very well if you seek something for long term restraint / confinement. Sometimes you can find one being sold off very cheap when an industry closes down or moves.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/21/2007 5:18:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Cages....   a strange subject to me.
Emotionally I could never be in a physical cage.  I think I would have a melt down.
 
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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/21/2007 7:04:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: shyinini

Cages....   a strange subject to me.
Emotionally I could never be in a physical cage.  I think I would have a melt down.
 
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I used to feel the same way, but once I was in one I found that it had a rather theraputic effect. The door was unlocked the first time in, so I could have exited if I wanted to. However, all I did was snuggle in the comfy blankets and peek at his feet under the desk.  I'm not sure how I would feel for punishment.

If you are curious about a cage, try it! Get one big enough for you to lay down/kneel/sit comfortably in. You could tell your Dom that you are interested in trying it out, but tell him if you are wary. Hopefully he knows you well enough to know how to take it from there.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/21/2007 11:40:08 PM   
Evanesce


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Status: offline 		Cages.  I love them.  In cages I am safe.  In cages I have no pressures, duties or responsibilities.  In cages, I never know how long I'm to stay there, but I always know it's as much for my own pleasure as it is for the Kaptin's.
 
We've got several cages, and each is used for a different purpose. 
1.  The dog crate, which is actually a bit too small for sleeping comfortably, doesn't get used much, but I can sit or lie curled up in it.  That one, when used, feels more like punishment than pleasure - perhaps because it is so extremely uncomfortable for me - even though it's never been used for that purpose. 
2.  The birdcage, which is a suspended cage about 3' in diameter that hangs from chains which taper to a single hook at the top.  While I'm in this cage, the Kaptin may or may not assign me certain tasks to complete, or hand me a book to read.
3.  The vertical suspended cage is about 15" in diameter, and the only thing one can do in this cage is stand there.  The chains are about 5-6" apart all the way up and around.  I should note that both suspended cages will pivot, allowing the Kaptin to position them as He pleases.
4.  The isolation box.  This is a 4' padded cube the Kaptin and I built together many years ago.  It locks from the outside and, more often than not, when He puts me in this one, I fall asleep.  Of course, it's usually after a fairly intense scene that He puts me in there, so I'm usually exhausted. 
 
I've got a couple ideas for some collapsable corner cages for the living room, too.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/22/2007 4:01:31 AM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		i love cages......i have spent as little as a hour or as much as a weekend in one

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/22/2007 4:19:20 AM   
MissOchistic


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Status: offline 		Mmm, I love them. Even until my late teens, I loved to pad the bottom of my closet floor (a space about 5'x3'), hooked up a light, shut the door and would stay in there all the time, reading or napping or on the phone, or just thinking. In a comfy small space, I feel very safe and nice. Of course, this is with me being permitted to leave as I wished. The idea of being forced to stay in as a punishment is quite appealing too.

I would suggest one of the lasrgest plastic dog kennels, the kind that can house a great dane or mastiff. They have a metal cage door that latches form the outsite, but can be opened from the inside with human fingers. This would permit you exit in case of  emergency, but still feels like a secure cage. Also, they're quite large enough to curl up in or sit back in comfortably and with a few blankets or a doggy bed, they're lovely. I'm rather envious of my dog as this is what he has!


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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/22/2007 9:50:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		The first man that I ever hotlisted here let me know that he had a cage.  I just about melted when he told me.  He had a knack for knowing what mental buttons to push on me.  His scenario included that cage, a permanent Sharpie Marker and a lot of humiliation and objectification.  Unfortunately, I never got to see that cage, but I did get to experience shibari and my first bruises with him.  I get very turned on by the thought of spending time in a cage.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/22/2007 9:54:26 AM   
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quote:

Is a cage for me?


well, i don't know...is your name on it...LOL

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/22/2007 4:19:55 PM   
smilingjaguar


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Status: offline 		We've been talking about putting a double-keyed lock on the closet and using that as my cage in the concept of being able to "put me away" when I'm not needed.  He is also planning to move the light controls out of the closet so I have no say there either.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/23/2007 12:13:28 AM   
charlotte12


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Status: offline 		Mmmmm. I have never been in a cage but this thread has gotten me all tingly.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/23/2007 1:19:21 PM   
BoundDragon


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Status: offline 		I have on the odd occasion thought about cages... the thought of it does stike a cord with me but I'm not sure if its in the safe secure way or for my man to use me kinda way (or punishment).

I'm reading this thread with a lot of interest.

From what I can tell for most of you its a safe secure place.

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RE: Is a cage for me? - 6/23/2007 10:47:04 PM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		Do you ever get claustrophobic in a cage?  I think I'd start to panic.

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