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RE: Success Factors for Being subs - 6/21/2007 2:55:15 PM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra
So, in the end, my advice remains the same. Be selfish. Be yourself.

juliet
 
And yes, there may be people naive and inexperienced as adults to not know, or to somehow have ignored the general state of reality to know there are assholes and liars in the world- and it will be harder.



Someone may know which end of the gun is the part you put against your shoulder and which end of the gun the bullet comes out of, but it doesn't mean they know how to use that gun in such a way as to be able to hit the target.

Simply being aware of the general state of reality means nothing when trying to actually navigate that reality - especially when THEIR reality never included all those games and lies and predators. To them, the people sound sincere, the lies sound like truth. They're not stupid. They never ignored a thing. They simply don't have the experience. Inferring that they're somehow idiots who willfully ignore the obvious doesn't do much other than put them down. That really wasn't your intent, was it?

juliet

< Message edited by julietsierra -- 6/21/2007 2:58:58 PM >

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RE: Success Factors for Being subs - 6/21/2007 4:43:14 PM   
shyinini


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Looking at your profile pj, maybe ya oughta look in the Good Book?
 
 
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I hate to say this... but she has a point.  You are only looking for a Christian Dom.  What a mature Christian Dom wants may be in contrast with what a young Pagan Dom wants.  Sorry, there just isn't a blanket answer to your question. 
 
1st girl Phoenix


I thought after I posted this, what a smartass I am.  And realized, if someone calls themself a Christian, it doesnt mean they really even know what the Good Book says.  For example, does pj even know the Fruit of the Spirit?  Or where they are found? 
I am gonna take a big stab in the dark and say, probably not.
 
Sir and I were talking about some "issues" I am having after reading some forum on another website, and he said.....
your ARE submissive and the other characeter traits that you have some will never go away; some will continue to evolve,but no one will ever change the ones you were born with.  Like empathy. He said its a part of me, like its woven into my character.  Punctuality is a horrible issue...but he said that sort of character trait can be worked on .....
 
He also said that dominants and submissives in relationship (what we call D/s) may not be meant for each other altho they initially click.  Why?  Because as they get to know each other, like in vanilla relationships, character traits appear that might or might not cause conflict.  A relationship is built on many factors not just being submissive and dominant. Just some more things I was thinking about.
 
If ya'll want to read the Fruit of the Spirit ... or google it.
 
http://www.allaboutgod.com/fruit-of-the-spirit.htm
http://www.swapmeetdave.com/Bible/Gal8Q.htm

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