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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 My point: Those of you pontificating about the importance of CBCs don't have an effing clue what you are talking about. {rofl} YOU haven't a clue as to what you are talking about; you might want to keep your mouth shut, unless you know a bit more, more fact, less speculation and judgement. I run CBCs as you call them, I can get a LOT of information, besides criminal if I asked for it, I don't because, I know exactly what I want and what I need to know. I don't want to be intrusive, but, I want to keep my job AND be safe. As I said in the other threads my JOB is at risk if I associate with people with felonies, etc, so I do have access to background checks that the general public does not; ALL LEGAL. I set my criteria to a few fields and if neccesary make a few calls {military records are blocked unless any criminal investigation or charges were/are present}. Emperor1956, if an I were potential partners and we were preparing to meet, I would run a check on you, no second thoughts. Not only would my job be at risk IF you had something in your past [I am NOT saying you do] but also my saftey among other things. If that bothered you, then I would tell you 'good bye.' If me keeping my job and being safe is an issue, then we have no business associating on that level or meeting face-to-face and being friends off of on-line. I have ran into men on cm {and a few other sites} that are pediphiles, registered sex offenders, violent felons, have restraining orders and orders of protection against them among other things. I am a single mother, and their is NO WAY in hell that I would want people like that around my child or myself. How did I find that out, I ran a background check; a few of the guys had skipped out on parole or had not registered with their respective counties, my inquiries set off flags [in the computer system] and a few bad guys are back in prision. I don't want to think of what may have happened if I had not. I do trust my instincts, if something seems 'amiss' I run a more through check, I also talk to potential partners as much as I can. I ran a check on MJ {work said I had too - one of my co-workers is on this site and called me on not having run a check on Him}, and everything was clear; He told me about His military background and a few tickets, nobigdeal. I trusted Him as a friend, and now, I trust Him s a Master and a close friend. He knows I did it, He was fine with it. He can run one on me, I don't have a problem, heck, I will give Him my maden name if He wanted to run a check on my parents, I don't have anything to hide. I'm not paranoid; I like my job and I want to keep myself and my son safe. If someone doesn't like it, then oh well. They have to be hiding something. Once I get te report, I look at it for a few things, then I destroy it. I don't keep it. No reason too. I'm just curious...do you run checks on everyone you meet, or just the ones you meet online?
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