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RE: Is there an actual label for this? - 5/19/2008 11:43:37 AM

gypsygrl

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Pain is very much an ego issue for me, the incredible satisfaction that i receive for going beyond the point that i thought i could surpass is a rush of exhilaration and joy that i can easily become positively addicted to.

But, the end point is "exhilaration and joy." So, you get something positive out of it. I would say that falls nicely under the masochist lable.

I think of masochism in terms of a pleasure/pain conversion process. I can convert a painful stimulus into a pleasurable experience via a variety of techniques I've learned, though sometimes this happens over a period of hours or days. Things I hated in the moment, make for happy memories. Its simplistic to say I get pleasure from pain, though it works for everyday purposes. But, as soon as I start to think about it a bit, I have to say, nah, thats not quite right.

ed: I didn't realize this was an old thread when I posted.

< Message edited by gypsygrl -- 5/19/2008 11:46:15 AM >

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RE: Is there an actual label for this? - 5/19/2008 11:59:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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Well, due to this scene and some casual play spanking and stuff over the last few weeks (mostly as a test ass for Her new "Impish Designs" custom paddles; i had come to some new conclusions...

i am a masochist, i love pain when it's Ma'am who is hurtting me!!! There really makes a difference when you love and feel safe enough to fully open up to the one who's beating you. i think that Ma'am might even be in danger of turning me into a painslut over time. LoL

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RE: Is there an actual label for this? - 5/19/2008 12:10:58 PM

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I'm so happy it was that kind of experience for you.

Any time you're ready, I'll happily allow you to tell Me I was right.

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RE: Is there an actual label for this? - 5/20/2008 7:48:38 AM

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