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what to do? - 6/7/2005 4:45:20 PM

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I have a sub bf he is 10 years younger than me he tells me he cares for me but does not love me. he says he thinks he is taking advantage of me. i am a novice in this way of life so i can not be his mistress yet until i have the experience what should i do. should i leave him or stay.

thanks for your advice
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RE: what to do? - 6/7/2005 5:20:23 PM

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First of all, if you only weigh 14 pounds you really should try to eat more.

But more importantly, why does he feel he is taking advantage of you?

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RE: what to do? - 6/7/2005 10:51:28 PM

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First of all, if you only weigh 14 pounds you really should try to eat more.

LOL something probably got lost in converting from stones.

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RE: what to do? - 6/7/2005 11:00:14 PM

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I have a sub bf he is 10 years younger than me he tells me he cares for me but does not love me. he says he thinks he is taking advantage of me. i am a novice in this way of life so i can not be his mistress yet until i have the experience what should i do. should i leave him or stay.
subboo

It sounds to me like he wants to play, but doesn't want to emotional involvement or commitment.
If you want to play without getting emotionally vulnerable with him, go for it as he's younger, it should be fun; but if you want more than that, I think he is telling you he's not open and so you will be risking an emotional fall (at the end of which you'll have nothing to say because he told you already he doesn't want more). So stay if you can handle it. Good luck, M

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RE: what to do? - 6/8/2005 10:20:13 AM

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i really do not understand this stone thing i weight 100kg thanks

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RE: what to do? - 6/8/2005 11:44:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: subboo

i really do not understand this stone thing i weight 100kg thanks

They were commenting on the weight listed on your profile...14lbs...and figuring it got listed as such due to a conversion error by collarme.

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RE: what to do? - 6/13/2005 12:14:51 AM

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it depends i guess on YOUR feelings.

myself personally..in my own d/s?

there is no..love romance.

i dedicate out of service...never ever has there been romance.

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