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TitillateMyMind -> RE: Rituals (1/18/2004 5:38:17 AM)

I am new to this site but not to common decency. It seems to me the few topics I have read here,have turned into more of a pixel pissing contest,than an open forum of voicing opinions.
A lovely day to all
Anita



MistressDREAD -> RE: Rituals (1/18/2004 6:09:32 AM)

[i]Ahhhh Rituals, Proticals, Kinks and Kwirks, gotta love em!
We as Alternate Lifestylers All have Our items that We practice
inside Our Domains or outside in Society. Be it that We are only
a closet Top who has the ritual of always mounting from the side
of a bed with a hand of hair pulled tight to the full fledged Lord
or Lady whom has His or Her slaves walk one step behind and
to the right of Him or Her in public with slave collar on and their
eyes to the floor and hands securely cupped behind their back
in suplication with out peeping a word. In todays society We
have never been more free in what We whom show tolerance
in what Society deems unnatural practices to do as We all
damn well please and I for one take every chance afforded
Me to show ALL that I am Proud and Honored to be Who and
What I am. There is no doubt in anyones mind when I am
either in My Home or out in the Public eye what My Lifestyle is
by the actions that both Me and My slaves take in both My
Dominance and their suplication. Now that all said sum of My
Rituals and Proticals expected are: a bow and beg to enter
My Home, slaves always lower then I am be it I am standing
or sitting or laying down My slaves are always to be aware
of what I am doing and be sure to be doing what they are
below Me and this protical is practiced out in public as well
as in the Home. wearing of a collar 24/7 regardless of at
Home or in Public and all My slaves carry their leases in hand
in public to remind them that they are My Property. My slaves
always walk behind Me and to the right one pace and in order
of their Ownership with hands cupped behind them with leash
in hand leaving the left side open for the Dominant whom I
might once again find to Dominate beside Me in My Poly Home
since the passing of My first belovid Master in Dominance. My
slaves sleep on slaves rugs bound in chain or in cage when
We all retire. I am never with out My slaves with in eye shot
and around Me unless a income slave and they have attire
thats to be worn doing certain chores as well as while relaxing
that shows not only what they do but their status with in the
Home. None of My slaves wear underwear in public and must
always dress sexuall arousing to attract attention to thier selfs,
such as shirts not buttoned and left open in a tasteful manner
with their collars showing regardless if male or female. This
is My way of showing off My Posessions and My choice of Lifestyle.
They open doors for Me, put on My clothes for Me, fix My meals
for Me, and tend to daily chores that I have mapped out for each
in the day. all of this done with specific rituals that I have trained
for each to do including how things are done and where things are
put and in what order they are to be done with out fail. Each day
is has spacific things to be done in and around Our Home and We
have Our times out mapped as well. Every aspect of Our life
is Dominanted and controlled or lived in suplication. Being in a
free society We have the ability to All serve in what ever capacity
We feel most comfortable in be it as slave who chooses to serve
or to practice the Art of Dominance and control. I do have one
Ritual that is sumwhat not of the practice either in Society nor
in Our Lifestyle and that is none of My slaves are allowed to
shave and must grow out all of their hair on their bodies naturally
as I have a hair fetish that I feed with thier bodies. Now you know
a kinkie ritual about Me and Mine.


Pic below is a refection of the personna role I
play online as a Free Woman in Gor and BDSM
Poly Sadist Dominant.

[image]local://upfiles/9526/Nl283860761.jpg[/image]



masokissed -> RE: Rituals (1/18/2004 5:43:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Erusvi



ErusVI: "I almost feel kinda bad about it sometimes".

MistressX: "But you don't feel bad for long, I bet :)".

ErusVI: "Well, I don't lose sleep over it ;o) "

subX: "Well, why would she open the door for you? Shouldn't you be opening the door for her?"

I'm unclear as to if this "Domme" became a sub or if it was a chat with multi participants.

I think i'm still amazed at the ability of people to look down their noses at anothers way of life that doesn't effect them in the slightest..

l.



Estring -> RE: Rituals (1/20/2004 3:22:57 PM)

There are some great thoughts about this subject of rituals stated here. I have to agree that rituals should and do play an important part in my relationship with my slave.
One thing I would add is that each Dom or Domme has their own preferences, and the slave or sub needs to learn and adapt to them. I open doors for all women, including my slave, and if she has a problem with that, she better get over it. What I want is all that matters. Some do things differently. The slave or sub will learn and adapt.



SAMANTHALYNNE -> RE: Rituals (4/9/2004 7:46:24 AM)

hello my log in name is samanthalynne,i am a 30 year old bisexual man who is a little womanish,i definitely need a good Master who is patient to work with me and discipline me,i am submissive but if i ran into any mean Masters i would resisit them and ranaway from them as soon i was able to,but for a good Master i would submit to him completely and do whatever i could to please him,i have ran into some very mean Maters on other websites they scare me so much that i was physically shaking,because i was not into them candle burning me and torturing me,as soon as i told them that was not into that,they exploded at me in their e-mails that they left in my inbox at my e-mail address,are there any good and gentle,loving,nice,sweet,kind,affectionate Masters out there anywhere who want me?
i was not even going to saying anything out fear of saying the wrong thing,because i did not want to make any of the Masters mad at me,but i figure the only way to find out is to ask,i hope that i am saying it right because i cannot see what is on my computer screen without using all caps but someone told me if i do that?
people will consider me yelling and i do not want to do that,i want to be trained and discipline to be a sissy slave but in some ways i am scared to go through it,because i know that some of the other Masters on the other websites want to de-humanize me and degrade me and try to destroy me as a person and i do not see why they have to that to someone just because are submissive?
any information and help that you could offer to me,i would be so very thankful for it.thank you so much Master and have a good day.
sincerely
samanthalynne



SAMANTHALYNNE -> RE: Rituals (4/9/2004 7:51:26 AM)

i am sorry you feel that way.



Checkers -> RE: Rituals (4/9/2004 11:25:59 AM)



I would love to hear more rituals that people do!
This may not be ritual per se, as it's not done routinely or regularly, but when we are going out somewhere I enjoy going through my sub's closet and bureaus, picking out all her clothing, asking her about each piece, and then letting her put them on.
I like to dress her, and going through her closets and drawers has a symbolic significance that I also enjoy.

Checkers







TalN -> RE: Rituals (4/9/2004 2:03:40 PM)

pinkdiamond.
Since you stated the reason for your opinion that a female slave should not be expected to open doors for her Master is that it is the social norm for men to open doors for women, I have a question.

What is the Master is female and the slave is also female? What if both Master and slave are male?

What of the custom regarding opening and holding doors for those older than ourselves? Is this also to negate a Master's perogative?

It is my contention that in today's society, despite what the customs of etiquette are in western culture, we are diverse and pragmatic enough that most observers would dismiss it as being done for a reason they are not privy to, if they noticed it at all.

If you are living a M/s lifestyle, you accept the rituals and/or etiquette commanded by your Master. And barring tangible danger, there are no expceptions to that rule unless you void your contract (written, implied, inferred or otherwise conveyed).

Mme. TalN



TalN -> RE: Rituals (4/9/2004 2:22:44 PM)

Here are two of my more general rituals, Erusvi, which includes one that varies from the customary tradition in our community.

My slave is never without collar. Depending on the occassion there are subtle jewelry to serve the purpose, more significant leather chokers, up to and including the padlocked 2" wide bit of leather and steel for formal events. Once my preferences for what is appropriate are understood, then slave is allowed to change out the collar as deemed necessary.

Slave moves through doors, crowds and any other unfamiliar territory ahead of me. Then is expected to shift immediately behind and to one side, staying within concealed reach. If this sounds like a bodyguard, it is because it is slave's duty to physically protect me in public whether that be from physical harm or simply unwanted intrusion on my thoughts.
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And here's an example where mainstream habit of courtesy caused a problem.

On one memorable occasion, slave's hands were full and a vendor attempted to hand her something to examine. She passed a small box of handouts for our presentation to me, to which I had no objection.
However, a few minutes later the vendor turned to me and instructed me to carry the purchases. [>:] Wisely, slave immediately set everything on the floor and retrieved the box from me with a short bow and "Sorry, Madame. Thank you for your assistance." The vendor seeing my look of disdain focused on him suddenly remembered that this dignitary he was dealing with was a slave - my slave. He looked at me in horror and seemed to devoutly wish the floor would swallow him whole. Through his overflowing apologies, I chuckled and told him to calm himself. [:D] Ever since then JT has continued to have my business. Everyone has to learn etiquette as they move through new situations.

Madame TalN



MistressDREAD -> RE: Rituals (12/24/2004 9:36:12 PM)

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