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RE: Why rush into a D/s relationship? - 6/23/2007 9:01:06 PM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

yeah...damn right...where the hell do people get off not doing exactly what i think they should do?

lets start a club and not let them in.

ROFL!!!

Hate to break it to ya - I already started it...but didn't tell anyone about it :)

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RE: Why rush into a D/s relationship? - 6/24/2007 1:21:09 AM

chellekitty

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if you do a search on sub frenzy you will find this topic discussed over and over...but i am not as talented as LA in posting them...

it is not exlusive to BDSM either...and certainly not anything new...i have known people that have been married for over 40 years and got married within a month of meeting...i think it just goes to promote the co-dependent theme of needing someone else to make you complete or real or true or whatever...sometimes it works out, most of the time, its just lust...however, if you can build a relationship while you're still in lust it can work...i guess

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RE: Why rush into a D/s relationship? - 6/24/2007 1:45:26 AM

SexyCazzy

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

You took the words right out of my mouth Tempting... You hit the nail on the head... That is what has happened to us as a society. Nobody has any patience any more. You take the time and effort to find the right One. Everybody is worried about me, me, me any more. People need to slow down and enjoy themselves and other people. People need to connect with others and not use a computer or phone as their main way of meeting people. I go to munches and come on here to see what people write and to also learn. I also learn from people at the munches. The more i learn the better off i am.. That is why i am really taking it slow to learn and get to know people.

I actually have to agree with winterlight here. I am the same. I have posted an personal ad on here, saying I am looking for an online D/s relationship. But then I looked at the message boards on here and at Literotica.com (the BDSM boards) and I have came to realise that what I am exactly looking for is friendships at first and then possibly developing into an online D/s relationship then maybe later down the road, a real life relationship, but who knows?

If I am actually honest, I was a bit naive to think that I could cope with a D/s online relationship almost straight away but then I came to realise that I have quite a lot to learn about the BDSM lifestyle that I have decided to put a handbrake on my search and taking my time, talking to people and sharing experiences and learning about the lifestyle. :)

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