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Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 5:33:09 PM

RealDom69

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Hi,

I have a slave that I wish to learn the art of deepthroating my cock, and really i'm not sure where to begin. Is it something that has to be done slowly to get past the gag reflex, or should it be forced past that, anyone have experience of this I would like to hear from you, and basically would be interested in any information pertaining to safety, and any other tips you might have.

Thank you in advance for your wonderful replies

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 5:40:30 PM

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not sure you can be taught except by your Master my advice is slow not forced that only leads to gagging,puking,and sore throats if done right it can be enjoyable for both parties i used popsicles,bananas and things like that to practice on

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 5:48:45 PM

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i would highly suggest that you ease into it. forcing something like a cock into one's throat could result in unwanted damage... not to mention possibly the one could develop a phobia of it

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 5:50:38 PM

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lay her on the bed and hang her head over the edge. It gets the throat straight.

For me, I started out putting the cock as far back as I could handle w/out gagging, then sitting there and pressing deeper. If he pushed I gagged, but if I controlled how fast I went I got to where I could swallow him. Once I had it down, it got to where he could fuck my throat.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 6:08:30 PM

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lay her on the bed and hang her head over the edge. It gets the throat straight.

This also worked for me. I just wanted to add, i think you're breathing pattern plays a huge part in it, too.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 6:18:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RealDom69

Hi,

I have a slave that I wish to learn the art of deepthroating my cock, and really i'm not sure where to begin. Is it something that has to be done slowly to get past the gag reflex, or should it be forced past that, anyone have experience of this I would like to hear from you, and basically would be interested in any information pertaining to safety, and any other tips you might have.

Thank you in advance for your wonderful replies

:))

Johnny Reble

Very very slow. She should try lots of positions, she will probably discover that some are much easier than others. She may be afraid it will hurt, if she is relaxed and taking her time and just relaxing her throat and her body it won't hurt. It will be a strange sensation, but it certainly doesn't have to hurt. Go slow, be patient, let her try and keep trying. She can practice on you, she can practice on toys. Her being able to relax and yeild her throat is key. Be kind to her if she loses her lunch, and for goodness sake don't practice right after she has eaten.

Happy practicing!

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 7:05:51 PM

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I'm not trying to be facetious here, but I would suggest you attempt it on yourself with a dildo or long object (zucchini, hot dog etc). This way you would know the sensation and how to correct any obstacles so you can coach your submissive.

They always say to experiencing something new on yourself first.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 7:24:28 PM

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These threads might help you:
Deep throating issues?

Problems with deep throating?

Deep throating

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 7:39:21 PM

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~grinning~ You'll hate this advice, I just know it.

Practice. A lot.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 7:47:50 PM

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FR...

I agree with the advice given. Going slow, figuring out a breathing pattern (otherwise its to easy to freak out at not really being able to breathe and then starting to choke), and oddly enough I've also found that the more saliva and in particularly slimy saliva is on the head of his cock, the easier it is to get it into my throat.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 8:33:53 PM

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To those who are suggesting using food, please stop. Its DANGERIOUS, it can break and the person can choke to death. Use some common sence, food can and does break, I remember being told to use a banana or a hotdog, I did some research and found out the that a LOT of people choke on those things. Lets be honest, if worst case senario happened and the OP DID choke on on of the food suggestions, then those who suggested that, would be morally responsible. I'm not saying that I hope the OP does, I'm just throwing out karma and common sence.

A dildoe or viberator or even the real thing is MUCH safer. I'm petrified of deepthroating, I have panick attacks when I try, so I don't yet, I do want to eventually be able to it to some extent, but practicing with food, thats just plain stupid and dangerious.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 8:38:23 PM

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That's a good point. Practice on a dildo instead.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 8:47:43 PM

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i feel i should point out that the person performing the act is not the only one who can get seriously hurt if this is not done properly and carefully... it may be more damaging to the person performing, but it certainly hurts like a bitch when someone ends up bending you... that and stomach acid on the head of a penis is no fun either

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 8:55:43 PM

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Please...that's nothing compared to having the head come out the other side through her ass crack. God DAMN it took me a long time to straighten my cock out after that one. Fucking small intestines...

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that and stomach acid on the head of a penis is no fun either

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/23/2007 9:45:46 PM

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Hey! Someone other than LA posted a string of links to old discussions on this board.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/24/2007 5:48:15 AM

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i am petite. even an average sized penis is going to cut off my airway. The throat doesn't stretch like other orifaces so there may be some who can accomodate throat fucking with one penis but not all. Some can not accomodate this at all. Some men actually LIKE the gagging, retching, struggle and others think women should all be able to perform this with ease...after all if you've seen it done in a porn movie it stands to reason that it's something all women can and should do.

patience...patience...patience and acceptance of what can and cannot be done based on the individuals involved.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/24/2007 6:11:39 AM

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That's a good point. Practice on a dildo instead.

And make a video. Or better yet, do it on webcam!

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/24/2007 6:33:01 AM

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Indeed practice makes perfect... but if there's a size discrepancy of any sort, it will never happen, although the practicing is indeed fun. In ann modesty, I have never been deep-throated, but certainly not due to a lack of trying on My partners' parts. b has come the absolute closest, and even though she's a big girl (stands at an even 6' tall), her throat simply isn't wide enough. I refuse to "force" the issue because I know that can lead to severe damage, and the last thing I want is to have to call 911 in the middle sex.. especially if W/we are playing... (although back boards anbd spider strap are wonderful immobilization devices...) lol

If the cock in question has a curve to it, definitely start out with that bend always pointing down the throat, which could produce interesting positions.. :-)

W/we shared a vanilla couple last month (oral only) and the him in the couple had an below-average-length cock with above-average girth, but shaped like the "curve ahead" roadsigns. I can control my gag reflex fairly well and throat a cock up to about 7" of average girth if it's straight, but due to the curve of his cock, it nailed my gag reflex every time.

I also agree.. never practice using food.. not only because it can be dangerous, but because it's simply unrealistic. During "down time", use a smaller dildo, perfect breathing and technique on that, and work your way up to something slightly larger than yourself. "If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball." :-)

The oropharynx is capable of a certain degree of stretching, as is the esophagus, but neither are really designed to stretch very much. Take your time and have fun with it.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/24/2007 6:49:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RealDom69

Hi,

I have a slave that I wish to learn the art of deepthroating my cock, and really i'm not sure where to begin. Is it something that has to be done slowly to get past the gag reflex, or should it be forced past that, anyone have experience of this I would like to hear from you, and basically would be interested in any information pertaining to safety, and any other tips you might have.

Thank you in advance for your wonderful replies

:))

Johnny Reble

I always wonder if these posts are those manly chest beaters: " heh heh Mine is so big it will tickle her innards"

puhleez, why would you come here to ask that question unless to impress us that you MIGHT have a sizeable schlong--puhleesz--so here is the 411--common sense hellooo---there is a gag reflex and if she doenst like your cock she will never get past that-----and if she has a strong gag reflex, it aint going to happen---and if it hasnt happened by now naturally, Im betting it won't.

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RE: Deepthroating .. - 6/24/2007 6:58:26 AM

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I tend to believe it's a combination of throat size, dick size, and gag reflex.

I have a very small mouth and throat...and it's just not possible for me if the guy is above average in thickness. It just won't fit. I've been with some guys who were so big, they could hardly get the first few inches in my mouth...let alone the whole thing...and if they had, it would have choked me. I have a sensitive gag reflex on top of that and get panic attacks....so yeah, just not happening for me. Thankfully I found guys who were more than willing to just sit there and let me worship their cock in the ways that work for me...

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