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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 2:12:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

what makes any person special?

i hate when people act like this is a different planet from other types of dating.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 5:39:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

Personally, the only thing that makes ANYONE special is themselves and / or the person they are with.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 6:06:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

I make myself special

If I have to rely on another to feel that I am special; then I need serious help.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 7:13:29 PM

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Honesty in the need to be dominated/controlled/owned/managed/abused/used. My property kali is that way.

I look for those who are in this lifestyle because a deep down need exists in them. Not a sex fantasy, or some form weekend kinky play.

A girl who lives to be dominated, and feels unfullfilled when not, is vital to me. I look for a reflection of myself, one who lives this lifestyle as much as I do on a daily basis.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 7:22:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

Perhaps I miss something here, but as I read it perhaps the OP is aaking not onluy what makes them special but what the difference is between sub and slave?

For me a slave is someone who gives up their will and accepts that of the Master. A person who likes and needs control and order in their lives. Someone who, at least for me, is a heavy duty masochist and will find pleasure in serving even if it is humiliating and degrading.

A sub, as I see it, is a player and one who remains in control of the relationship setting limits, etc.

Now having said that if you identify as a slave and you have a Master who considers you a slave then of course you ARE a slave. Each of us has their own definitions.

For me what makes them special is that they need what we do...after that first thing, one must look deeply (sometimes not so deeply) for it is my experience that each and every person set upon the earth has been given something exceptional. Sometimes it is a smile, other times a mind, a sense of humor, or legs that don't stop or perhaps a mind that is as perverse as mine.. one need only look and they will find that special thing within each and every one of us

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/25/2007 5:52:45 PM

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Hello winterlight. Art. RL.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/25/2007 5:58:30 PM

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The big blue light flashing above their head.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/25/2007 6:22:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlND3R3LLA

The big blue light flashing above their head.

Hello SIND3R3LLA. I gather you are replying to my post? RL.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/25/2007 6:25:51 PM

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the same thing you would look for in a vanilla relationship. that undefinable character that makes it unlike anything else, the unforgettable fire.

Ditto from the sub side !!

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/12/2010 10:02:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

Most of time, asub/slave becomes special with her showing respect for all situation.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/12/2010 10:13:09 PM

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You are new, but the moderators frown on resurrecting old threads, especially from 2007. Usually anything more than a few months old is frowned upon. Just a little friendly info

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/12/2010 10:59:36 PM

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compliments you or complements you?

I don't know, I can't spell.
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Complement means to match or accent, be the yin to another's yang, in geometry it means to be the angle added to another angle to equal 90 degrees.

Compliment means to tell someone they're pretty, or whatnot.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/13/2010 6:12:17 AM

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Alert! 3 year old thread. Expect it to be locked immediately.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/13/2010 6:16:00 AM

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"What do you look for?"

A heartbeat is a good start

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/13/2010 11:33:19 AM

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It is like a big pot boiled down into these elements: intelligence, honesty, loyality, flexability in the mind, inner strength, self worth. That is what makes a slave special. A slave is nothing if they have no pride in what they do and are not honest with themself first. Character traits that match the Master does not hurt, but they can be changed.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 12/13/2010 1:17:29 PM

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It is customary to start a new thread, if an older one of the same topic you wish to discuss is over three months old. This thread will now be locked.

Thank you

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