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meticulousgirl -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/24/2007 5:11:07 PM)
being hung up on and then ignored, i cry until the next call comes through and usually keep crying for awhile. It's just mentally draining to know that you havn't been pleasing, that at that point in time you feel worthless and know that you just have to submit to the punnishment.

andreaC -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/24/2007 6:28:48 PM)
For me is to be ignored, to tell me you disappointed me slut, or prevent me from talking at all........yeah i am a yacking girl!

Mystique567 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/24/2007 8:33:42 PM)
Denial of attention, that drives me insane. I am a masochist so that is the only way for me.

littleone35 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 8:38:56 AM)
The very worst and only real punishment was the strap i do not like pain at all so that was an effective punishment for me. I would not be bratty to get it i hated it. I learned my lesson. Matt's littleone

RaynaSub -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 8:41:57 AM)
I have to agree being totally ignored is the worst punishment.

angelicslaveMDF -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 10:22:49 AM)
well a punishment for me definitely is hearing "I am disappointed in you"...that tears me up inside... but having a conversation with Master...i kept bringing up that i thought i "deserved to be released" .... well He proceeded to take me inside and get the key to my collar and take it off...wanting to know how i felt...well that was absolute agony...which i was honest in that case...He told me that if that was the case...then that option and phrase of "release" better be stricken from my vocabulary...did i feel it was harsh at the time...YES!!....but later He admitted He did as well..and it was hard for Him to do that as well...but He thought that was the only way for it to get through to me...which it did...and i did learn my lesson... a good friend and sister....told me..."the hardest lessons are usually the ones W/we never forget"...to me that is absolutely right...i will never forget it. angelicslaveMDF

Domspaintoy -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 10:41:05 AM)
Luckily Master has never ignored me, if however He said there will be no comms for 24/48 hours that would be devastating but at least i would know what, why, how and when and that it was just that a punishment and it would be forgotton once served. Also having once being told 'i am very disappointed in you slave', only made me ensure he never says it to me again, its soul destroying.

onegoodgirl -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 9:30:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bisubsexme12 hey fellow subbies!! im very new to this life style and very curious i love dicussing personal expierences current question? slaves/subs... whats the worst punishment you went through and how did you handle it? thanks lvoe allll I was 1 hour late arriving to a party.. My Dominant tied me to a pole and ordered me not to speak to anybody.. and nobody was allowed to touch me. Spending the majority of the party watching, completely unable to play was very hard for me!!!... But I was late, for no good reason..... and being his desire, I accepted it.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 9:35:37 PM)
Angel's one and only punishment since I have had him. He mouthed off to me, and as punshment he was made to put on panties, go out to his car (while we were on the phone) and masturbate until he came in his panties. Then, he had to go grocery shopping, wearing the soiled clothes. He has a humilation fetish, and this played into that greatly, but the hard part was that he knew i wasnt happy, and wasnt enjoying it with him. He has never mouthed off to me on the phone since, and in a year, one punishment is pretty good, I think. Kitten hasnt gotten punished yet, I think hes a little afraid t find out what Imight do if I am angry, being that when I am happy with him I am fairly rough. DV

Viciousbabe -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/25/2007 10:03:19 PM)
I agree that being ignored is the worst for me! I also hate sleeping on the floor b/c of my back, so that came into play a couple of times. Neither of which do I hope to ever see happen again!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/26/2007 10:16:25 AM)
Top two answers: Being ignored Knowing I've disappointed You handle it by accepting what's going on, understand the cause and purpose of the punishment, discussing what's expected in the future and working together to reach that goal. And FYI, a LOT of people dislike the term "subbie" http://www.collarchat.com/m_800482/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#800522 Punishment and how you choose to apply it http://www.collarchat.com/m_611292/mpage_2/key_punishment/tm.htm#611778 Punishment is Deceptive http://www.collarchat.com/m_597685/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#597689 Talking Vs Corporal Punishment http://www.collarchat.com/m_572243/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#572280 Question for female subs on punishment http://www.collarchat.com/m_18608/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#18608 Punishment and Discipline http://www.collarchat.com/m_74162/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#74162 Training? Punishment? http://www.collarchat.com/m_84734/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#84734 Punishment vs Play http://www.collarchat.com/m_146151/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#146151 What is the difference between punishment and discipline? http://www.collarchat.com/m_374557/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#374557 Testing, being broken, regular punishment, etc, etc.... http://www.collarchat.com/m_523257/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#523257 Discipline & Punishment http://www.collarchat.com/m_495126/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#495126 On punishment

twistedkytten -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/26/2007 3:38:48 PM)
Punishment, can come in so many forms, depending on the intended response one seeks.. it is essentially a teaching aid - punishment and pain do not go hand in hand, however some are more tactile than others. I have been punished once, that was all I will ever need because not only was it physically painful beyond all I had ever known, I had failed Him, become in that moment a disappointment, which had an even greater effect.

asiandoll27 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/27/2007 8:28:35 AM)
While I think first of some instances of mental worsts - the physical one just kind of pushes that to the side. For me, the worst was nothing more than just a handful of sand put into my pantyhose, which in two hours was extremely painful as my then Mistress took me shopping in the mall after i had made a comment i should never have made and was two minutes late.

maledave7 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/27/2007 2:54:02 PM)
I would agree with being ignored would probably be the worst.

tangldupinblue -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (6/27/2007 2:59:30 PM)
silence

mastersgirl82 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (7/17/2007 11:51:27 AM)
i don't mind pain for short times, eg spanking or whipping but my worst punishment was when i was cheeky to my first master and he tied me up inside my cage with my legs spread wide and applied toothpaste to my pussy and left me there for 24 hours where i had to wet myself if i needed the toilet, he occaionally giving me a drink but that was the only contact i got

needsherdaddy -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (7/18/2007 3:27:13 PM)
The worst punishment for me is knowing that my Master is disappointed, and He takes away my ability to serve Him and has me watch as He does everything Himself. Sure, some may think that it would be a nice break to not do anything..or how is that punishment, but it's in ways that you absolutely love to serve Him and you know that He takes the most pleasure that kills the most.

welshwmn3 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (7/18/2007 6:49:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: litleone8620 quote: ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati Most Doms wont use physical punishment, because often subs become bratty and try to do things just to get the punishment. Being a masochist, pain as punishment doesn't really do anything for me. But there have been a few times, while I was being punished, I cried. He had that punishment mentality added to it, and had kept up a commentary ("I'm so disappointed in you"; "you know better" stuff like that) But the worst punishment he ever gave me was denying me contact with him. Add that to "I'm so disappointed in you" or "You've disappointed me" and I'm a puddle of remorse and tears. I'm a masochist also, but when Sir has to punish me, he uses the 3 foot single tail or the cane. It's a different kind of feeling than even that hard a whack when we are scening. It's much worse for me, because I know how much I've let him down that he had to actually punish me. I try not to get punishments.

welshwmn3 -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (7/18/2007 6:55:41 PM)
The very worst punishment for me is just knowing I've let him down. Whatever the physical componant is comes secondary (although it hurts bad, because I know it's a punishment thing, and so doesn't get me into the 'good mind space'). And I deal with it by doing my best to not let him down again.

OrrisKitten -> RE: slaves worst punishment? (7/19/2007 8:43:43 AM)
The worst punishment I have had was one that never quite happened... My dom had me in a scene for quite some time and I was pretty close to being exhausted and reaching my limits when he whispered to me "Now for your punishment." I broke down completely, started to cry and beg him not to. He let me stay in that state of mind for a little while, nearly jumping out of my skin at every sound I heard. Unintentionally, it was perfectly timed so that while I was in this state of being, the bells at a nearby church started ringing in a very low, droning sound. I think he almost giggled in delight. But after a while, no more physical punishment came, and instead he petted me and helped relax me. The punishment was not the getting hit, but the mind fu-k of the thought that I was going to be pushed beyond what I could take (which I know would never happen). The mind is the most powerful tool that can be used on me as a sub and what I imagine can be worse than any other punishment.

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