Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Sissy Maids


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Sissy Maids Page: [1]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 5:22:13 PM   
LadyHeart


Posts: 561
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		I have had a number of emails from sissy maids wanting to offer me their services. I have always shied away from them in the past, because I suspected that they might be more trouble than they were worth, expecting constant micro management and validation. Am I being unfair or wrong in my assessment? Allowing for the fact that all generalisations are going to be somewhat sweeping - what are other Mistresses' experiences of playing with sissy maids, and of course, if sissy maids want to chime in with their side of the story (their expectations and mindset) I'd be open to hearing more, as I've had no first hand experience of this kind of play.
:))
LH

_____________________________

"BDSM is not an excuse for bad manners."
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 5:28:36 PM   
MsKatHouston


Posts: 1909
Joined: 6/7/2006
From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		I adore sissy maids when they adore me. 

Like I mentioned in the fetish thread a second ago, it's not the activity in and of itself that is the issue but whether or not there is a connection and a concentration more on me than the fetish.  If someone is a sissy maid, likes to dress up but also has a genuine desire to serve me whether dressed or not, then I love it.  I will indulge them completely and have a lot of fun with it.  But if they half heartedly serve me but get very into it when we are doing some walking around in the heels...that's a problem.

There are some wonderful sissy maids and for those, I think you would have a great and rewarding time.

There are also some really iffy people and you might find yourself putting in more work than they are.  Choose carefully and make sure you are both realistic and honest with your expectations up front. 

_____________________________

-Kat

~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~

(in reply to LadyHeart)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 5:30:42 PM   
planomaid


Posts: 77
Joined: 10/4/2004
Status: offline 		I think I can answer this one... :)

My experience has been that you will find some that are good, some that aren't, and some that are simply wonderful. In short, sissy maids will be just like any other person in the lifestyle. 

Personally I enjoy being a maid, and I find it difficult to be micromanaged (I get that at work!).  I prefer having the tasks laid out, any special instructions given, then to be allowed to complete my duties to gain the approval of the person I am maiding for.  Of course, if there is a scene going on that involved micromanagment, or something similar, that is different.  But basic maid service should be done as a real maid does it - as best as you can, do the job right, and if you need special attention, be upfront about it BEFORE you start.  It's always frustrating to get done with something and then have an issue arise that could have easily been avoided if a discussion occured prior to service.

I'd say give them a shot and see who works out for you.

(in reply to LadyHeart)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 6:45:18 PM   
Trampler


Posts: 580
Joined: 12/31/2006
Status: offline 		just my 0.02 worth.

While I like the idea of dressing my sub in a girly outfit once in while, especially to go to a play party,(mostly for the amusement and humiliation factor.)  I am not at all interested in having a sissymaid for a sub. 

_____________________________

I want to step ALL over you!

Our Community may be openminded as a whole, BUT it is made up of indivduals who bring in their own baggage,perceptions and agendas

(in reply to planomaid)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 10:53:59 PM   
GoddessinDallas


Posts: 57
Joined: 11/25/2006
Status: offline 		Sissies are unique and different in their own way.
Grouping them all together isn't fair.

(in reply to Trampler)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/25/2007 10:56:29 PM   
TaraSterling


Posts: 4
Joined: 1/28/2007
Status: offline 		I completely agree Goddess in Dallas!

(in reply to GoddessinDallas)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/26/2007 12:12:49 AM   
LadyHeart


Posts: 561
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		It would be nice if those who jumped in with "it's not fair" had read the original post properly.
:))
LH

_____________________________

"BDSM is not an excuse for bad manners."

(in reply to TaraSterling)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/26/2007 5:18:55 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


Posts: 777
Joined: 2/15/2007
Status: offline 		I had a live in (non-sexual) sissy maid for 4 years.  S/he wasn't narcissistic and definitely did not require micro-management.  S/he was however steadfastly not submissive.   Nor was s/he a masochist. Sissies are cross dressers.  Its a different kink altogether. If cross dressers are not your kink, getting a maid is a bad idea. 

Quite  a few of the pro-dommes in Melbourne keep a sissy maid to act as "lady in waiting" (about 10 - 20% I would estimate).  Perth may be similar

But be warned: IME most dommes find any "slave" - sissy maid or not - is more trouble than they are worth. 

< Message edited by MsCfromMelbourne -- 6/26/2007 5:20:06 AM >

_____________________________

<----- Corset, mask and collar designed and manufactured by metalsmith Karl H, chromed and lined in black suede. Masks and collars available from http://www.lucreziadesade.com.au/default.html. Corsets custom made only

(in reply to LadyHeart)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/26/2007 6:48:21 AM   
GoddessinDallas


Posts: 57
Joined: 11/25/2006
Status: offline 		I did.

(in reply to LadyHeart)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/26/2007 8:25:27 AM   
DiannaVesta


Posts: 1087
Joined: 2/6/2006
From: Mid-Atlantic area
Status: offline 		Ok I don’t agree that sissies are cross dressers entirely. Again I suspect that would depend on the sissy. I train a lot of sissies and have for years. I enjoy them because I love humiliation, being attended to and proper training can make a very loyal sissy. The trick is finding one that is not all full of him/herself. First of all I would only be interested in a sissy that was submissive and enjoyed complete control. I will not tolerate any drama or passive aggressive BS. Breaking a sissy down to respect the alpha female (me) needs to happen right from the git go.

I have always felt that with any aspect of female domination you study your potential sub carefully and find the buttons that invoke passion, fear, deep submission, etc. You build and create a bond that sissy learns to trust in and you with them. I also think that there’s a time and place for him being a sissy and he needs to also learn how to balance this.

_____________________________



(in reply to GoddessinDallas)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/26/2007 5:23:36 PM   
LadyHeart


Posts: 561
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		Thanks to those who have made useful contributions to this thread. I now have a much better idea of what to look for and how to frame my questions.
:))
LH

_____________________________

"BDSM is not an excuse for bad manners."

(in reply to DiannaVesta)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/29/2007 3:49:31 AM   
iwearpanties


Posts: 509
Joined: 7/21/2005
Status: offline 		hello MIstresses  i just had too say thank you to those of you who understand and like and or enjoy the company of we panty bois / crossdressers  ..... thank you for being there for us ....

(in reply to LadyHeart)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/29/2007 5:50:26 PM   
YesMistressIrish


Posts: 1135
Joined: 5/1/2007
From: Calif
Status: offline 		* sends a smile to iwearpanties

(in reply to iwearpanties)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Sissy Maids - 6/29/2007 9:21:17 PM   
iwearpanties


Posts: 509
Joined: 7/21/2005
Status: offline 		  Mistress Irish

hello and thnak you very much . for the smile not many have come my way  so thnak you so much

(in reply to YesMistressIrish)
Profile   Post #: 14
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Sissy Maids Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.082