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RE: How do you get through something you don't want to do? - 6/12/2005 2:25:35 AM

ElektraUkM

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Thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions. The task is one that most people wouldn't have a problem with but i am an introvert (extremely introverted) and the task requires me to be extremely extroverted, in public. Worse is that He has given me a week to think about it (which makes it harder) because i do not have to do it until next Saturday. I will try some of the suggestions. Thank you everyone.

simple

In my first response to your question I said... don't think about the thing itself, think about how you will grow and change, and feel about yourself after you've done it. And now, knowing what it is you've been instructed/asked to do, I feel that's even more relevant.

Good luck, and try to enjoy the feelings you'll experience :) (try not to think about it too much!!!!!)

~ Elektra

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RE: How do you get through something you don't want to do? - 6/12/2005 5:22:35 AM

RandBcouple

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If it's something that will embarress the hell out of me (which many things do!) i will just focus on the fact that i am His property and i try to prioritize it that way, i remind myself that it's no longer about "me" and just try and get through whatever task without giving it too much thought. Also, if it's something i just do not like i just try getting through it by reminding myself that i have no other choice, that it's either that or facing His dissapointment, which is far worse than anything He sets me out to do.

no one said it was easy! : )
Best of luck to you
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RE: How do you get through something you don't want to do? - 6/12/2005 10:05:29 AM

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Elektra, thank you. At times it is easy to not think about it, at other times that is more difficult (i.e., getting ready to go out and actually do the task, the butterflies go crazy). Sometimes it is just so hard to enjoy those feelings when i have what seems like 500 butterflies in my stomach. All i can think about is gettting it over with as quickly as possible. Thank you.

RandB, most of what He asks me to do is embarressing to me. LOL. i try to get it over with as quickly as i can because i would rather do it quickly than not do it and have Him disappointed in me. That disappointment is worse than anything. i know that His setting these tasks is to make us better in the end but that doesn't make the task any easier. Thank you for your idea.

i need to stop thinking about it. i wish it was Saturday so i could just go do it.

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