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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 3:40:25 PM

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when master says it it makes me want to please him more try, harder . when sister said it it was like a tickle.

the couple times i have heard it, it also sounded a lot like i love you to me..*s*
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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 3:44:14 PM

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When my Master says it to me it makes me melt. Love it love it love it. Along with any variation He comes up with.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 3:48:55 PM

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Slaves/subbies/bottom/etc, what do you do to trigger a "good girl" from the dom/top.

For me, my property kali goes that extra mile to please me.

i don't "do" anything per se, to "trigger" any kind of praise, but the praise that He gives when i have done something well in His eyes certainly does encourage me to work even harder to please Him even more next time...

i don't look a His praise as an incentive...i look at it as a gift from Him given when it pleases Him to do so. i'm just thankful that it pleases Him to give it often. :)

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 4:00:01 PM

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Slaves/subbies/bottom/etc, what do you do to trigger a "good girl" from the dom/top.

For me, my property kali goes that extra mile to please me.

As others have said, I don't do things specifically for praise, I do my best at all times, if praise is forthcoming, that's great, but it's not something I expect or set my sights on. In my eyes that would be manipulative, which is something I go out of my way to avoid.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 4:06:11 PM

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In the case of "Good boy", it makes me feel all tingly, in a good way. The dog comparison does nothing for me, but being treated as a pet and approved of by a Dom/me are both positive feelings.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 4:08:57 PM

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For Angel, good girl is a bost, especialy when he has been worreid he wasnt making me happy. It also kicks him into subspace even when he wasnt quite there.

For Kitten, its good boy. Its a comfort for him, positive reinforcement is something that has been sorely mising from his life and even the smallest positive comment means a lot to him. He usualy hears it when we are playing and I have pushed him farther than average.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 4:27:32 PM

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I'm in the praise-junkie category...I adore getting 'good girl' just about anytime, anywhere, from anyone, for anything...so long as it's sincere. There's other sorta similar things that I'd only feel right if they came from Master, but that's because there is a possessive element to them and I only belong to him.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 4:35:57 PM

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No one but my Daddy has ever called me a "good girl". When he says it I am instantly aroused, humbled, shy, and pushed into (or deeper into) subspace. It makes me feel kind of giddy inside.

The first time he said it to me during puppy play I got almost completely mute (which happens to me often when I'm deep). All I could do was rub my face against his leg and cry as he patted my head.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:00:53 PM

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I should include "good boy" also.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:02:26 PM

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When I find a slave the thing I will always say to her is beautiful one.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:02:37 PM

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it makes me feel like i am floating on a cloud...

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:10:24 PM

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Good girl are two of the sweetest words my Master can say to me, sometimes almost making me cry (in a good way). Hearing them makes me feel fulfilled.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:13:19 PM

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I am still a girl really ...though I have to live an adults life with house and job and taxes, when it comes down to it I am still a girl.

I adore hearing "good girl" ... am a total slut for approval .. if "good girl" is joined with a hair ruffle, a kiss to the temple, or a swat to the butt - well there will be all kinds of moist going on for me

amen to this I couldnt have said it better.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:14:01 PM

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Hmmm. Sometimes, its said in the condescending manner, and thats annoying.

but, there are few things sweeter to be said to me after cumming. :-)

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:26:27 PM

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From the right person, it turns my knees to Jell-O. I'm not sure how well I'll be able to articulate it beyond that, but I'll try.

Someone, I think it was Macy (forgive me for not checking), said it gets her hackles up because it's something that's said to children and dogs. That's partly why I like it, I think. I do associate it with children and puppies, not grown women. And that's why it can put me straight into the submissive mindset. When he uses it and I buy into it, in my head, it puts him in a position of power--trainer, teacher, dominant, owner, whatever. While it makes me feel protected, safe and cherished, it also makes me feel a bit weak (not in a bad way) and vulnerable in contrast to him.

I'm a complete glutton for praise, and "good girl" hits that spot, too.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:31:42 PM

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When Himself says those 2 most beautiful words to me .......im just speechless......
To me it means i have made him most happy. No one on earth can make me feel that way.....No one else ever will....

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:40:09 PM

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The beauty of two simple words.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 6:40:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

I say good girl often, I know what is does to my property and how it makes me feel when I say it to her. Bottom's how does it make you feel when you hear it.
Also, from a top's perspective what makes you say it.

It makes me feel... SQQQUUEEEEE!!!

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 10:02:40 PM

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I have to agree, it is a great feeling. Recently minxy and I were told we made him proud... that was also most wonderful.

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RE: How does hearing "good girl" make you feel? - 6/27/2007 10:32:02 PM

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lol love it ... and as to it being a term used on dogs ... well when things were rough between him and I and words of praise became non-existant I was actually jealous of when he told his dog she was a good girl ... now that is sad lol

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