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RE: Strap on's - 6/28/2007 4:19:57 PM

Unrepentant1

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: EarthGoddess52

How do you know they're "vanilla" couples?? I'm just curious. I don't generally wear my leathers into Pleasure Chest......or is that a whole new thread?

I've asked some of the couples that were looking at strapons if they were into
BDSM. Most said no, they are straight and never tried anything like this before.
They also look very uneasy when looking around the store.

Diane

Ah yes, but I bet none of them were buying strap ons in the built like shetland pony section like you, lol.

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RE: Strap on's - 6/28/2007 6:14:50 PM

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Because the wish they were a man.....OF courses as always just the opinion of this ol' master.smiles

Ha! But a woman with a strap-on doesn't actually 'think' with the rubber penis she wears. Being a woman does have its advantages... <smiles>

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RE: Strap on's - 6/28/2007 6:26:06 PM

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Waves to Mistress Lorelei, and tries to work out what a Mistress thinks with

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RE: Strap on's - 6/28/2007 6:31:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

Because the wish they were a man.....OF courses as always just the opinion of this ol' master.smiles

Ha! But a woman with a strap-on doesn't actually 'think' with the rubber penis she wears. Being a woman does have its advantages... <smiles>

LMAO! Now that's a good one!!!!!

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RE: Strap on's - 6/28/2007 8:14:55 PM

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Waves to Mistress Lorelei, and tries to work out what a Mistress thinks with

<Waves back to polite sub> Hmmm... did I detect a hint of brattiness there?

A Mistress thinks with her mind, her heart... and of course- her killer thigh-high Domme boots.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/1/2007 1:59:40 PM

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The mental angle is what's the kick for me....

Having HER say all those naughty things to me

...in such a demanding TONE

and if i give her any hesitation

BOOM BOOM out go the lights...

very VULNERABLE in those POSITIONS

....dxr

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RE: Strap on's - 7/1/2007 4:39:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Waves to Mistress Lorelei, and tries to work out what a Mistress thinks with

<Waves back to polite sub> Hmmm... did I detect a hint of brattiness there?

A Mistress thinks with her mind, her heart... and of course- her killer thigh-high Domme boots.

Brattiness Ma`am ? moi ? Surely not !
Ok well maybe a tad

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RE: Strap on's - 7/2/2007 5:25:25 AM

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PaleMale2000, I like your explanation. Just thought I'd say that.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/8/2007 7:06:50 PM

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It can be a sign of submission,power trip, penis envy,or pussy envy. I'm sure its different for each guy that receives it and each woman that gives it.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/9/2007 7:54:59 PM

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It's a shame the strapon is viewed as so humiliating.

Are women humiliated when a man sticks his penis in her?

I know it all has to do with societal conditioning. The anus is dirty. Men are not allowed to be penetrated. They're supposed to be on top. Being on the bottom is against the silent male code.

The thing is, women have two errogenous zones - the clitoris and the g-spot, and men do too, the penis and the prostate. Yet due to societal taboos the prostate is off limits. It's like saying, you're not allowed to use half of your brain. Stay out of there! Or like telling women, "Don't play with your g-spot! It's dirty!"

Would be wonderful if this taboo went away and men were allowed the freedom to enjoy their own bodies. But it's not very likely. Especially with our current Supreme Court.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/9/2007 7:58:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: DSwriter

It's a shame the strapon is viewed as so humiliating.

Are women humiliated when a man sticks his penis in her?

I know it all has to do with societal conditioning. The anus is dirty. Men are not allowed to be penetrated. They're supposed to be on top. Being on the bottom is against the silent male code.

The thing is, women have two errogenous zones - the clitoris and the g-spot, and men do too, the penis and the prostate. Yet due to societal taboos the prostate is off limits. It's like saying, you're not allowed to use half of your brain. Stay out of there! Or like telling women, "Don't play with your g-spot! It's dirty!"

Would be wonderful if this taboo went away and men were allowed the freedom to enjoy their own bodies. But it's not very likely. Especially with our current Supreme Court.

I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

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RE: Strap on's - 7/9/2007 8:16:16 PM

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Another fun way to use a strap-on: tape his shaved cock and balls to his stomach-duct tape works nicely, put the strap-on on him and put him in immobilizing bondage. Don't let him move a muscle and laugh as you get off using him as a dildo, while his pathetic cock squirms to break free with the raging hard on he gets watching you-or even better, blindfold him and make him listen to the squish squish

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RE: Strap on's - 7/9/2007 8:50:54 PM

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I just joined Straponwithdiane. love the group. I think that this a very modern way of having great sex. I've been reading that men have a g-spot. And if women can get a great orgasim from their G-spot, then why cant men enjoy the same. I am looking for a woman who would be willing to exlpore this experience with me.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/9/2007 8:59:15 PM

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once a week isnt enough for me ...think im hooked

will gladly bendover for my mistress anytime she wants to take my ass with her strapons and then her fist

boy she got me good today and im still smiling

definitely got that afterglow thing working

cant wait until thursday thats our next get together ..have fun

mal

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 2:44:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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It's a shame the strapon is viewed as so humiliating.

Are women humiliated when a man sticks his penis in her?

I know it all has to do with societal conditioning. The anus is dirty. Men are not allowed to be penetrated. They're supposed to be on top. Being on the bottom is against the silent male code.

The thing is, women have two errogenous zones - the clitoris and the g-spot, and men do too, the penis and the prostate. Yet due to societal taboos the prostate is off limits. It's like saying, you're not allowed to use half of your brain. Stay out of there! Or like telling women, "Don't play with your g-spot! It's dirty!"

Would be wonderful if this taboo went away and men were allowed the freedom to enjoy their own bodies. But it's not very likely. Especially with our current Supreme Court.

I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

I wish more women thought like you. the ones i've met usually make some derrogatory remark about a man that would lean towards any type of this behavior. In the past, i just had to keep my mouth shut. recently, i started to date two different beautiful women and as soon as they started making negative comments along these lines, i broke things off. sorry, but i didn't feel like explaining to them why either. too boring and i don't care to waste my time or energy with them.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 3:00:08 AM

Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: DSwriter

It's a shame the strapon is viewed as so humiliating.

Some lateral thinking going on here. Could it be, male Gspot aside, that because it is seen as humiliating it`s the exact thing that makes it exciting for both parties ?

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 3:03:28 AM

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I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

i am starting to think this way myself Ma`am

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 3:46:31 AM

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I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

i am starting to think this way myself Ma`am

I agree with Diane and Politesub. I just found out my new harness is ready. This is the best harness! HeavenOnEarth designed it and I got to use hers on a great sub. It feels completely joined at the hip. Total control. Shazaam! lol

*Going to check out Diane's site.

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 4:59:39 AM

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I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

i am starting to think this way myself Ma`am

I agree with Diane and Politesub. I just found out my new harness is ready. This is the best harness! HeavenOnEarth designed it and I got to use hers on a great sub. It feels completely joined at the hip. Total control. Shazaam! lol

*Going to check out Diane's site.

Could you send me a link and a pic of your new harness?

Thanks

Diane

PS; I also told my #1 sub to buy a chin harness.
http://www.stormyleather.com/product.asp?0=289&1=311&3=260

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RE: Strap on's - 7/10/2007 5:00:59 AM

submissiveguy69

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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It's a shame the strapon is viewed as so humiliating.

Are women humiliated when a man sticks his penis in her?

I know it all has to do with societal conditioning. The anus is dirty. Men are not allowed to be penetrated. They're supposed to be on top. Being on the bottom is against the silent male code.

The thing is, women have two errogenous zones - the clitoris and the g-spot, and men do too, the penis and the prostate. Yet due to societal taboos the prostate is off limits. It's like saying, you're not allowed to use half of your brain. Stay out of there! Or like telling women, "Don't play with your g-spot! It's dirty!"

Would be wonderful if this taboo went away and men were allowed the freedom to enjoy their own bodies. But it's not very likely. Especially with our current Supreme Court.

I think every guy should have his ass humped at least once in his life time.

Diane

I couldn't agree with you more Diane! I truly believe that every man should have to know what it feels like at least once as well. I think if men gave this a chance at least once, they'd probably like it & want more but they defiinitely would learn to have a new respect for women.

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