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writing dirty emails - 6/27/2007 11:50:10 PM

submissivebbw322

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Does anyone have any advice for me on writing dirty emails to my Master?
He's away at camp and I know for a fact he loves recieving them, but i myself have never sent one to him. Not anyone really. Any chance i could get some pointers, or examples? please, help me out.

~ruby

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 12:58:13 AM

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How about writing him a story in several episodes about a guy who goes to camp and lusts after one of the other counsellors, or better yet, one of the campers, Lolita type scenario....
Do some blow by blow (pardon the pun) descriptions of his first reaction to her, sitting across the other side of the room, how he undresses her with his eyes and what he "sees" beneath the clothes, and his own reactions to it as he thinks about what he'd like to do to her .... if you put it into context he'll really dig it. Make it dirty by implication as much as by the rude words .. if you want some pointers, have a look at the story on Aakasha's profile and website. The best smut is in the mind, and you could leave him in suspense waiting for the next episode...
:)))
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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 12:59:31 AM

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Okay, firstly.. Camp?! Hmm, not going to go there. Second, this feels like a fishing expedition, considering your profile says you're currently looking for someone in your area. Just my opinion, though.

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 1:07:12 AM

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Hmmm...some pointers....ok got it!....#1 think of something naughty...#2 write it in an email....#3 click send

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 2:54:36 AM

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Well, thank you to the first reply =]
but the second, to answer the camp issue, he's a counselor.
the third...funny, but not much help

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 2:56:11 AM

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Write down your thoughts as you masturbate. That should do it.

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 3:00:15 AM

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With all those skimpily dressed girlies running about, maybe he wont have time to read your email..... just a thought

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 5:32:46 AM

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I know you are 'trying' to be funny - however you have no idea the age of those 'skimpily dressed girlies' so I'd call that insensitive and bad taste.

To the OP... try googling 'erotica online' and it should throw up a few sites for some info for you.

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 6:09:15 AM

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Because it is better to have information, and because I have helped folks with things of this sort before:

1) What sort of camp is it?
2) Are they male or female?
3) What age range for the campers?
4) What ecological zone is it in? (Forested plains, mountains, stream-side)

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 7:12:15 AM

RCdc

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Does it really matter what camp/age etc? The man just wants dirty mails whilst he is away from her ie erotic literature? What does it matter where he is and who he is with? Unless of course there is a risk that his mail could be intercepted and that could cause him problems depending on his position (we all know how picky some can be and letters can be misunderstood) - so writing him something about the camp itself could be a little risky -

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 7:31:56 AM

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I don't know about you Darcy, but setting means a bit to me. If she can work something in about the camp itself, it gives a slice of something extra. You never know what facet of the written story will correspond to a physical location and resonate in his mind, causing the memory to surface at odd moments. Not being able to explain why he is grinning like an idiot, at some point in the day, is a piquant bit of spice.

It also helps to know if the help she receives in the writing should steer clear of certain things/themes.

So, while I do not particularly enjoy receiving erotica (I know, I'm odd), I've written a smidge here or there. I'm a gamer. :)

Master Darkmoon

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 7:39:20 AM

RCdc

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I am not a great erotica lover myself... it's all too badly written - give me shakespere anyday! Now thats erotic writing!

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 10:35:07 AM

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......and its obvious that you are 'trying' to sound intelligent - I guess we all f*ck up sometimes

peace and whatever

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 10:41:32 AM

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Do you want to write a dirty email about yourself to him? Or just an erotic story that can be completely fiction? Are you looking for pretty erotica, or raunchy?
There a lot more wed need to know about what sort of mail you are looking to write before you can actually get advice.

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 10:42:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: givemyall

- I guess we all f*ck up sometimes

peace and whatever

Yup, that we do... that we do. And, your claws are showing...

Peace (and it's 'Rapture')
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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/28/2007 2:18:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: givemyall

With all those skimpily dressed girlies running about, maybe he wont have time to read your email..... just a thought

LOL...thats what i was thinking...

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/29/2007 1:08:28 AM

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Do Not write anything about anyone under 18 -- camper or not -- whille he is at camp.

SERIOSULY.

The law on internet use "at work" is clear: They own it and can view it. At camp, you are tecnically "at work" all the time and generally are using camp computers.
I can not even begin to tell you how "not off limits" anything is at camp so don't even.
Asside from getting him in trouble work-wise, it could seriously embarase or disgust him.

I also SERIOSULY Seriosuly doubt if he has chosen to work at a children's camp he would appreciate any type of porn or even suggestion of attraction involving a camper. Any counselor I know [male or female] would be more likely to dump you and be upset than think it hot.
He works at a camp because he respects and likes kids and wants the best for them-- not b/c he wants to jerk off to them.... or think about anyone else jerking off to them either.

As a side note: You need to work on being yourself.
He chose to date/see You for a reason. I bet he misses *you* more than he misses or pines for any other type of porn/story/etc. You don't need to impress him, proove, or convince him to like you-- You just need to show and share yourself with him.

I think writing scenes and things you think about when you masterbate is a great idea because it is sharing yourself. Sharing what you have been up to in the time he has been gone and what you are doing in your life will make you seem interesting and capable rather than clingy and pining away for him all summer [that is generally a weird feeling for people to feel someone else has nothing going on other than them and will generally end in a good dumping]
Clinginess and devotion run a fine, fine line and At 18 it may be hard for a male to find either attractive...

You can also do a simple or a few simple google searches for "erotic stories" "bondage erotic stories" or whatever your kink is, there are stories out there and just say-- hey, I found this and masterbated to it, wanted to give you the same gift! or whatever.
If you can find collarme, by god you can find some freeking stories.....

When "writing a dirty email" it doesn't have to be anything big, you're not writing a novel, just give yourself a break and relax he obviously already likes you. :) A simple "so I saw this car/boat/corner of the mall/girl the other day and thought of you.... I was thinking about us doing ___ arround ___ whille I ____ ." There. dirty email 80% written. ;)

Just: Relax. Be yourself. Share your thoughts/feelings/kinks, that's all he wants, not a novel [he does not have time to read it anyway]

**** AND NO SUGGESTIVE STORIES OR ANYTHING INVOLVING CAMPERS!! ****
EVEN IF NOT FOUND OUT, FOR SOMEONE WORKING AT A CHILDREN'S CAMP IT WOULD BE DISGUSTING.

Beeeee Yourself. Best Wishes. :)

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/29/2007 1:33:30 AM

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Oooo, take Richard's advice. When I suggested writing about the other campers I didn't realize it was a children's camp and he was a counsellor, I was thinking tennis camp or military camp, and people in their late teens, not anything icky, shudder
:))
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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/29/2007 2:36:32 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissivebbw322

Does anyone have any advice for me on writing dirty emails to my Master?
He's away at camp and I know for a fact he loves recieving them, but i myself have never sent one to him. Not anyone really. Any chance i could get some pointers, or examples? please, help me out.

~ruby

I wrote a quite a few to Master and all i did was to use my imagination, just letting it go wild wild wild........it has no limit

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RE: writing dirty emails - 6/29/2007 5:42:49 AM

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Definantly follow Rchmd's advice.

Alot of times "Dirty" emails dont have to be long and drawn out and complicated. I don't know about your guy.,..but in my experiance, most guys dont do long pretty eritica anyway, thats really a womens thing...men prefer pictures. no words...just pictures...mental thing..anyway (no offense guys, but on a whole its true)

So, if you are looking for a way to get him worked up, just tell him how much you missed him and everytime you think about him you want to masterbate...and then, maybe a few days later write and say you actually did and tell him what you did...

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