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RE: Too Old? - 6/29/2007 2:19:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

From reading the posts on CM for quite awhile, it appears many of the dominant women do not view sub/slave profiles. Those that do might have there age limits, that you fly under the radar, or in this case over it. My search range is usually 50-99.(I'm 61).

Waves to liks2plzlf!
Smiling at the "99" parameter! As I am 99, since that is the oldest age I can put on this site! I am really 100, on My last birthday! *Wink*
I prefer an older boy, since he has a tendency to be more settled and more self-aware. At least some of the time! *Smile* 63 is not tool old, but age is always dependant on health etc.
And, yes, I am one who does not browse profiles. So you should be a bit active and not wait for emails to come to you. Start looking for what you want, and then write a thougthful letter and hope for the best. It may not work out, and you may not even get a response, but you have to try!
Also, stay on these boards, and get yourself known, both here and in your local community. Go to munches and other lifestyle events. Make yourself useful. You would be surprised how rare it is to see a good submissive boy who is consistent in showing up at events, and being respectful and helpful. It will stand you in very good stead.
Good luck!, and I add My own "welcome to the boards".

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 6/29/2007 2:20:43 PM >

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RE: Too Old? - 6/30/2007 9:17:47 PM

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Yes you have heard this befour i posted the question last year i got a some good replys and a lot of flack over my spelling it is a problem i have .

But it was all help full i hade a bad profile so some one sed to chang it i did and now i get about as meny replys as befour but thay pr more excpting now and some even have worked out

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RE: Too Old? - 6/30/2007 10:15:32 PM

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Dear jerbedo, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eyes I see--age is not as much as a factor as it is the ability to perform serving functions more than bedroom fantasy lust in the guise of 'slavery' or 'submission.'

From my point of view as a lady, I do not wish to waste my time or attention on those who focus on sex and or their abilities to have sex or not. I wish for no 'slut' or 'whore' as it is self gratification. I prefer a gentleman that has dignity left and not putting their value so cheap as to be treated like a doormat. It is the quality of submission over quantity of sub-standard efforts to meet another's wishes, needs and wants of having a slave/submissive and or servant gentleman in their company for a long period of time.

It is my personal belief, that men that have a more senior score on their age, create an expectation -- perhaps too often an assumption; that more mature men would act with maturity and charm, with a gentle hint of flirtation but, not smell foul or overly ripe with their sexual lust and or self gratification in all regards.

Serving a Dominant, is not all about sex -- it is all about the total person and how they fit as a glove to the other's hand.

The more gentleman a man servant can be for me, the more it allows me to be a lady. Act as a slut/whore --be aware that one invites said treatment as well as opening one's self to abuse, misuse and easily removed to the rubbish can when a better man can empower a woman into the heights of being more than a woman--into being a lady and a Dominant.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: Too Old? - 11/19/2007 6:40:55 PM

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I can say from personal experience that I've had strong masochistic and submissive tendencies since very young, around age 5. I am now in my 60's, and those feelings have not waned one bit.

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