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This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 12:29:00 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Do any of you have a blowjob schedule? For example wake up your master with an alarm BJ...breakfast Bj, Lunch bj, etc. I specify this to women as I'm a straight Dom, so I'm trying to deduce whether or not to make a schedule for mine.                            
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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 12:38:17 PM   
shyinini


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Status: offline 		I am to make it my daily honor to wake him up with one
 
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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 12:50:50 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		I think that works for most couples as well, but i'll keep it in mind Shy....

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 12:57:59 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		You won't schedule BJs unless others schedule them?  

Ask yourself if you want daily scheduled BJs.  If you do, there is nothing in The Dom Handbook that forbids you from doing so.  However don't feel that you must make a schedule because some do.

To answer your question, no,  we don't schedule BJs.  

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:03:35 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Schedual bj's  tht does not sound like a good idea to me.  What if you want one and it is not on the schedual for 2 hours yet, does that mean you have to wait 2 hours for one?  Master and i are spontantous (bad speller) whenever he wants one all he has to do is ask.  If i want to give him one i ask.  I don;t want to think oh i want to give him one but i can't its not on the schedual until tonight.  It's not something we will do.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:04:48 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		I'm still new in some areas, and to do with this, its not the fact that I feel I should do so because other doms do but I'm more asking is it the regular fashion to do so. I realize that there is no specific handbook to how a Dom/Sub relationship should work other than the obvious, but some subs might find it annoying to follow a schedule, therefore causing displeasure every time its done, which in turn would affect the blowjob itself. I'm really just curious when all is said and done. If you feel the need to question my motives thats fine.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:06:29 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Thanks little one that was more along the lines of what I was looking for in an answer

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:07:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I did with my ex.

But otherwise no.  Life's too busy and I'd find it too stressful to have to give blowjobs on a schedule.  And frankly, if I were talking to a dom and one of the first things he wanted to talk about was how often I'd blow him- well the conversation wouldn't last much longer.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:09:37 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Thats actually very helpful LA, it gives me an insight into what subs resent in converstation as well as duties during the day. This is what I was looking for

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:36:17 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: DominantJim
Do any of you have a blowjob schedule? 

Yep.  Anytime Master wants one.........slave luci    


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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:41:52 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Yeah I think i'll go along with that one luci. See what the idea behind my thought was whenever I need to be woken up, and when I come home from work having her or them ready to give me some much needed stress relief.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:46:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Part A is- will you ensure that things are done so that doing this does not ADD stress to her/your life?

Part B is- what will you put into place so that SHE is able to relieve her stress from a hard day?

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:48:42 PM   
pashun8flame


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Status: offline 		i have to agree with slv-luci
who needs a schedule for giving blow jobs?
the schedule is simple, whenever Master wants one...

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:49:51 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		That would all depend on how she feels she would like to relieve stress LA, I see you as a more assertive sub, whereas some of the ladies here are compelled to do nothing but serve serve serve. So I suppose if you want a give and take relationship than your way of relieving HER stress from the day would differ from if you were in a Master/Slave situation.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:58:39 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Actually, I am a switch.

And if you think those ladies who just serve, serve, serve, would choose to be in a long term stable relationship with a man who doesn't think that they should have a way to relieve their stress- well, good luck looking for that unicorn.

I didn't suggest that you have to "give" them that relief- simply that part of your responsibility as a dominant is to ensure that they are kept in a healthy state of being as much as possible.  Whether you do this yourself directly, teach the sub how to do it or foist it onto someone else is up to you. 

Relationships, even Ms, require two people working together.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 1:58:53 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Pashun gives a very good example of this, she says that whenever the master wants it. That says to me that her form or relief is relieving her master. Its the way she wants it. And everyone is different even in this world. Thats why I ask the question

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 2:00:20 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		LA you're right I completely agree with that part, it is a two way relationship and I will always make sure that my girl is fully looked after, fed well, clean and healthy. My number one concern is always the person who takes care of me.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 2:08:34 PM   
pashun8flame


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Status: offline 		to me Sir, i receive my pleasure knowing i am pleasing my Master.
my favorite way to relieve Master's stress is with an aromatherapy massage (sensual scented massage oils). Master works hard and deserves to be pampered.

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 2:12:00 PM   
DominantJim


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Status: offline 		Thank you pashun you make an excellent arguement towards my opinion of things haha

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RE: This ones for the ladies - 6/29/2007 2:17:29 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantJim

Do any of you have a blowjob schedule? For example wake up your master with an alarm BJ...breakfast Bj, Lunch bj, etc. I specify this to women as I'm a straight Dom, so I'm trying to deduce whether or not to make a schedule for mine.                            


Valyraen would get bored so fast... I probably would too since I prefer him to just decide when he wants a BJ, but most importantly, he would get bored.

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