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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/13/2005 5:26:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		It does not mean anything special to Me. It just adds two more interesting things W/we can do during the course of having fun. Works for U/us.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/13/2005 7:15:42 PM   
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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/13/2005 8:03:49 PM   
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Smile...sometimes it feels good to be allowed to.


I allow my boy to cum on my breasts or my tummy... sometimes in my mouth because he is yummy like that. I don't see it as such a Domly thing. But then again, for me it's so much more about energies and intent then actions.

On the otherhand, I always make sure I cum all over his face... well I've been known to soak him from head to toe actually <weg>

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Just out of curiocity, how do you manage that? the cumming all over him?

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/13/2005 8:16:47 PM   
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Right Kenin! Isn't sodomy fun? <weg>


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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 5:25:02 AM   
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On the otherhand, I always make sure I cum all over his face... well I've been known to soak him from head to toe actually <weg>

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Just out of curiocity, how do you manage that? the cumming all over him?


I often ejaculate when I orgasm. It comes out like a fountain of water. For more info on this, this is a great article - http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 5:25:23 AM   
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You're incorrigible.

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Right Kenin! Isn't sodomy fun? <weg>




That's what everyone keeps telling me!

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 8:01:51 AM   
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You're incorrigible.

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Right Kenin! Isn't sodomy fun? <weg>




I second that,,,she has a wonderful memory too, smiles....

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 3:18:23 PM   
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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 3:25:43 PM   
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On the otherhand, I always make sure I cum all over his face... well I've been known to soak him from head to toe actually <weg>

- LA


Just out of curiocity, how do you manage that? the cumming all over him?


I often ejaculate when I orgasm. It comes out like a fountain of water. For more info on this, this is a great article - http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

- LA


Oh, I never thought of that lol.


I've only been able to get Mistress to do that once, and it kinda freaked her out, so she's been kinda spooked out of it so to speak.

(Sorry bout the post above, Mistress had logged herself in on my computer)

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 6:22:31 PM   
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I often ejaculate when I orgasm. It comes out like a fountain of water. For more info on this, this is a great article - http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

- LA


Oh, I never thought of that lol.

I've only been able to get Mistress to do that once, and it kinda freaked her out, so she's been kinda spooked out of it so to speak.


Why did it freak her out? Do you know? It's a completely naturally occuring thing in women. In fact, every woman technically should be able to ejaculate, I mean we are all wired for it.

I can understand the freaking out part. I was 17 when I first discovered that I could ejaculate. I was masturbating and all of a sudden, wooosh! I was very perturbed because I had absolutely no idea what had happened. I wasn't until a few months later when I saw a porn movie with some friends and a girl ejaculated and one guy said "whoa man! she squirted!" (can I tell you how much I hate when people call it squirting!!!) and then I asked them if this was normal. A big debate about whether this was a trick or for real ensued and the next thing you know, I was checking out "The G Spot" out of the library and reading every thing I could about it.

Now I have totally mastered it. I can, in most cases, control if I ejaculate when I orgasm or not as well as how much I do. It is a completely different kind of orgasm when a woman releases via ejaculation.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 7:45:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well its kinda funny, we were having sex, trying out a new position, and she started "squirting" as you so delicately put it.
This kind of freaked her out because she hadn't heard of it yet, and well first assumptions she assumed it was well, urine.
After a trip to the doctor, the doctor actually had the nerve to tell her that there was no such thing as female ejaculation.

Anyways, since then, we've done a ton of research and finally she came to grips with what it was, it was a shocker, it came out ALOT, like gushes of water. Kinda freaked her out, but I guess ever since then, she's been kinda freaked out about it, and I think her body is too scared to go through it again.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/14/2005 10:53:43 PM   
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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 5:00:43 AM   
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Well its kinda funny, we were having sex, trying out a new position, and she started "squirting" as you so delicately put it.


Ack!! I can't stand that word!

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This kind of freaked her out because she hadn't heard of it yet, and well first assumptions she assumed it was well, urine.
After a trip to the doctor, the doctor actually had the nerve to tell her that there was no such thing as female ejaculation.


Methinks it's time for a new doctor! Seriously, what is he going to misdiagnose next? When I was 19 I asked my doctor if it was normal and he had a long talk with me about how it was and it was a sign of healthy sexuality and that I knew my body, then asked me questions to make sure I was having safe sex.

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Anyways, since then, we've done a ton of research and finally she came to grips with what it was, it was a shocker, it came out ALOT, like gushes of water. Kinda freaked her out, but I guess ever since then, she's been kinda freaked out about it, and I think her body is too scared to go through it again.


Well I won't impose myself. She has to come to terms with her body and it's functions and fluids at her own pace. But if ever she wants to talk to another woman who has about 15 years experience with researching and understanding this, tell her to send me a note.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 5:05:42 AM   
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don't klnow where I hit this thread, but in checkboxes..................subs don't get genitalia attachment options in any manner..........For fucks sake, think about it........what is the question


I don't really understand the point of your post? I don't think anyone ever said anything to contradict your statement.

We are having a discussion on the power dynamics of oral sex and how it is perceived by many. I know many Dom/mes that use oral sex on their subs as a reward, others who do it anytime they please. I know many Dom/mes who enforce the power dynamics by having their sub perform oral sex on them. And then again, some people don't like giving and/or receiving oral sex.

Oral sex is an act. The act itself has no power. It is the the energy and intent behind the act that conducts the power.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 12:16:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		how do the subs feel when given oral by the Doms?
do you feel you have to earn it? does it seem a little too submissive having your Dom between your legs?
does He have to 'take' it in your mind to make it more Domly?
or do Y/you exchange oral freely with no D/s associations?

for me personally, to make it more subversive, i have to think of it as though im not supposed to like it, not supposed to come... or that perhaps ive been 'good' and it's a reward... but my mind likes to stray to the taboo so i find myself getting off on the fact that big strong powerful DaddyMstr is eating his littleone out... ;)

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 12:52:44 PM   
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how do the subs feel when given oral by the Doms?

Surprised lol but happy
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do you feel you have to earn it?

Hmmm what pleasure DONT I have to earn?

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does it seem a little too submissive having your Dom between your legs?

No, pleasing isn't submitting, neither is serving.
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does He have to 'take' it in your mind to make it more Domly?
or do Y/you exchange oral freely with no D/s associations?

With this Owner, he enjoys denial as a form of humiliation. With my other partners, we enjoy sexual acts as we enjoy them, with no associations of one type of act being for doms and another being for subs.


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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 1:41:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Its all in the mindset... If I allow a sub to go down on me I control it... how long etc. If I go down on a sub of mine I also control it ... he is at my mercy and I enjoy teasing him.
The sub going down does it with service or pleasing in mind.

I enjoy what I enjoy.... not going to be put off by someone telling me it isn't Domly. lol

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 1:44:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		not to get all into your sexlife but do you actually perform specific acts in order to deserve it or do you just trust that if you're getting pleasure you've earned it?
with my partner there is no denial yet, there is more of what i described as free exchange of pleasure.
however... He has to really work at it to get me off sometimes... bless His heart ;)
im trying to come up with ways of enjoying it more mentally, and viewing it as more Dominant and aggressive.

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/15/2005 8:49:42 PM   
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I was ask in a forum I was in the other day, why us guys love to see a woman who is in front of us giving us oral take “us” in the face or mouth.
I tried to give my explanation as I though and equate it to acceptance. Taking us completely and unconditionally.

For me at least (and I’m sure many men) it is such a turn on to look down see our lady sucking us and to take “us” in the face or down the throat, well what more can they offer.

I would love to hear what others think of this and what it means to them. Anyone care to share with me. I’d love to forward this thread to her.





like my namesake, i simply love a cock in my face, down my throat...forced, rough...whatever...many woman do not....my surrrender is more complete when doing so....
if you paddle my ass, flog me, suspend me, fuck my pussy, tethor me to a wall... it will give me NO pleasure, nor will you find me orgasming.....

all of us girls do WIITWD for differ reasons.

looking up into His eyes as he watches me is the biggest turn on for me....
but then...........
to each his own

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RE: Opinons on oral - 6/16/2005 7:37:48 AM   
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Well its kinda funny, we were having sex, trying out a new position, and she started "squirting" as you so delicately put it.


Ack!! I can't stand that word!

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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy
This kind of freaked her out because she hadn't heard of it yet, and well first assumptions she assumed it was well, urine.
After a trip to the doctor, the doctor actually had the nerve to tell her that there was no such thing as female ejaculation.


Methinks it's time for a new doctor! Seriously, what is he going to misdiagnose next? When I was 19 I asked my doctor if it was normal and he had a long talk with me about how it was and it was a sign of healthy sexuality and that I knew my body, then asked me questions to make sure I was having safe sex.

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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy
Anyways, since then, we've done a ton of research and finally she came to grips with what it was, it was a shocker, it came out ALOT, like gushes of water. Kinda freaked her out, but I guess ever since then, she's been kinda freaked out about it, and I think her body is too scared to go through it again.


Well I won't impose myself. She has to come to terms with her body and it's functions and fluids at her own pace. But if ever she wants to talk to another woman who has about 15 years experience with researching and understanding this, tell her to send me a note.

- LA



Thanks for the information, and I will point her in your direction if she's looking to talk to someone about it.

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