sabis
Posts: 136
Joined: 6/29/2005 From: Midwest, USA Status: offline
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how do the subs feel when given oral by the Doms? my Dominant does not perform oral sex, because to us, it is a submissive act. The one time it happened, i assure you, it was not for **my** pleasure. It brought new meaning to the phrase 'eaten out' and was painful. Deliberately so. quote:
or do Y/you exchange oral freely with no D/s associations? no. for me, oral sex is a very submissive act, and it's extremely rare that a day goes by that i don't have Him in my mouth. i'm also exceedingly orally fixated, and have been since ... well... forever. Oral sex is very important to me. when i came into His service, i found that my one sexual skill i was the most proud of... really wasn't up to His standards. In the four years since, i've gotten a lot better, as well as conquored what was once a fairly strong gag reflex (Doc Johnson dildos and a kitchen timer, bowl to catch anything, and a towel to wipe your face: go to work, start off at 5 minutes, then 10, etc..) i only choke these days if i've been serving Him orally for more than 30 minutes or so, or i get a groin-hair wrapped around my tonsils. with our dynamic, oral sex is what helps me get through the pain that it is His perogative to give. i'm not a masochist, however He is a sadist. if i'm granted to priviledge of sucking Him while He flogs my pussy, i can take the pain much easier. we build the connection between us with sexual energy. sorry, i'm usually more eloquent, but it's morning and i'm not quite awake... hope that perspective helped, subversiveone. (*edited for clarity) -sabis
< Message edited by sabis -- 7/9/2005 4:00:39 AM >
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