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Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:06:55 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		i'm told that i have to maintain.  It's difficult.  i spend a lot of time apart from my Master.  Any suggestions?  sometimes i get really down.  please help!  Thank you!  christine
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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:13:14 PM   
Rover


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Status: offline 		I presume that you're in a long distance relationship, and will reply accordingly...

Sometimes it helps to imagine that he's there with you, to your side, just out of your line of vision, watching over you.
 
John

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:18:28 PM   
beltainefaerie


Posts: 610
Joined: 4/15/2006
Status: offline 		What a sweet idea, Rover.  I have to be apart from my Master for this month while i do some job training.  I think that may help quite a bit.

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:19:32 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		http://www.collarchat.com/m_688989/mpage_3/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#689642
LDRs and you

http://www.collarchat.com/m_555442/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#555476
How do you cope?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_399208/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#399230
Long distance relationships...how do you all make them work and overcome the obstacles that arise?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_358232/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#358330
When the Master is away

http://www.collarchat.com/m_243191/mpage_2/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#243396
Online or Distance relationships

http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#207957
Long Distance Relationships

http://www.collarchat.com/m_214831/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#214831
Long distance d/s

http://www.collarchat.com/m_210165/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#210165
Pleasing my master long distance

http://www.collarchat.com/m_131170/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#131170
In Between Visits

http://www.collarchat.com/m_124826/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#124826
LDR and sickness or death

http://www.collarchat.com/m_89834/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#89834
Long distance punishment ideas

http://www.collarchat.com/m_22973/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#22973
Long Distance Relationship (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#5502
Long Distance Relationships (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3521/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#3521
Long Distance

http://www.collarchat.com/m_272610/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#272610
LDR D/s ideas

http://www.collarchat.com/m_108560/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#108560
Long Distance Relationships????



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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:25:56 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		i am a seconary relationship.  he lives an hour from me and with his job we are apart a lot.  thank you so much for your suggestion!  i try to write to him a lot.  i'm a communication whore.  i need to be in touch.  last month Master tattooed me and that helped a lot.  i just feel so down sometimes and think that i'm alone.  Thank you very much for your reply.  christine

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 2:27:03 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		Thank you, LuckyAlbatross!  i will check them all out.  i really appreciate it!  christine

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 3:47:35 PM   
Rover


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Status: offline 		I travel a fair bit, so I've had to manage with some of the same issues over the years.  When I'm away, I've also found it helpful to call with a daily message (such as "Master misses you") which she'll write on a piece of masking tape and place in her shoe, or panties.  You'll be able to feel that tape throughout the day, and be reminded of the message.  It can help to feel a bit "closer".
 
John

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 6:12:19 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		What an awesome suggestion!  i thank YOU so much!  christine

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 6:24:34 PM   
skaterboy


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Joined: 6/27/2006
Status: offline 		I miss him too, and I don't even know him....which tells me he is an awesome Master.
chill!    which has such a broad meaning, but you know what I mean..don't you?
Sir KC

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 7:40:48 PM   
skaterboy


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Status: offline 		Didn't mean to be cold and I do know what you mean. I'm really sorry that your Master is not holding you now. Please forgive me for trying to be funny, as I do sympathize with you.

Sir KC (Kevin Clark)

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/1/2007 9:30:57 PM   
cadavera


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Joined: 7/1/2007
Status: offline 		i am in a ldr with my One too, i find that by talking to Him before i retire for the night, that i can slumber with His warm voice still in my ear, and i also post Him every morning beofre i go to work tolet Him know that i am always thinking of Him

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/2/2007 3:48:21 AM   
subitodolce


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Status: offline 		Cell phone plans with free nights/weekends make it bearable for me. We'll occasionally have a nice chat during the day via phone, but with the both of us working slightly different schedules, our paths really don't cross until after 9:00. After that time, we can talk until we both get too tired to stay up any later, and then we don't have to worry about either of us racking up a huge phone bill.

Emailing is nice...but hearing his voice is so much nicer.

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/2/2007 3:57:35 AM   
heavenleigh


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Status: offline 		Master and I  were apart for nearly a year while he was deployed.  All of our contact was online, via IM or email, with only 2 telephone calls the entire time.  It's hard.

Write a LOT.  Master liked it when he found 5, 10, or even more emails from me daily.  Anytime something came up, no matter how insignificant, if it was something that I would share with him if he were in the next room, I would put into an email. Some of them were one-liners, things like 'I just burned the roast, I'm ordering a pizza now.' (okay, I never actually sent that, I prefer chinese takeout to pizza!)

Keep a journal, an online blog, something.  You can write daily or almost daily, and he can read at his leisure.  Ask him for assignments.  Researching topics, writing stories or essays for his amusement, Master used to send me self-bondage assignments and make me report back to him, in detail, what I did to follow his instructions and how it made me feel.

Don't know if your relationships, with your Master and with others would allow, but Master would even get in touch via email with other Doms we know, and ask them to pay me a visit, and give them a list of things to do to me, with instructions to bring a camera so he could see how things went.  We called it 'Domming by remote'.


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RE: Missing my Master - 7/2/2007 4:58:35 AM   
cadavera


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Status: offline 		ACHERONSflame

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/2/2007 12:09:35 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		OMG!  YOU are so right!  i do know what you mean!  That's exactly what He would say.  Thank you so much Sir KC!  i think that's great advice!!

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RE: Missing my Master - 7/2/2007 12:13:10 PM   
theslavechris


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Status: offline 		Thank you, heavenleigh!  i write to Master a lot!  it does help.  Thanks so much for sharing with me.

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