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Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 3:49:38 AM

subversiveone

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in celebration of my 50th post, id like to ask for Your favorite non sexual punishments please?

ps)edited to say instead
"what is Your most effective, most used, punishment that has no sexual pleasure for the sub?"
this could be something like nipple clamps if the sub really hates it, but im looking for the 'in the corner/essays/cleaning' type punishments please ;) thanx

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 5:26:07 AM

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That's really a non sequiter "favorite punishment"?

However, the Owner prefers the cane, pretty much with ANYTHING he does.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 5:38:06 AM

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My favorite punishment is NO punishment...due to no NEED for it. Not trying to sound excessively lenient here; I just don't have a fave non-sexual punishment. Don't really like them. I admit to liking spanking, but that is sexual. Then again...a real hard punishment spanking is less sexual....ah...blurry lines...never mind.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 7:50:39 AM

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Strong chain. Secure lock. Cold, hard kitchen floor. See you in the morning.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 10:09:37 AM

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Favorite? 's an oxymoron to me :)

All of my punishments are non-sexual though.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 11:09:37 AM

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lol, an oxymoron for sure.

my punishments are never sexual, if they were, i would be misbehaving left and right

The ones that are most effective in getting my attention, and making sure i learn my lesson is being completley ignored (total silent treatment) or kneeling on uncooked rice.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 2:26:00 PM

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quote:

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Favorite? 's an oxymoron to me :)

All of my punishments are non-sexual though.

May i ask what they are?

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/14/2005 3:05:25 PM

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Largely having priviledges taken away.

No TV, no computer, no dessert, no orgasm, no doing something I wanted to do.

It's effective both because I loose something and because it makes me feel like I'm about 10 years old.

For "punishment" I get hit a lot, but that's fun :)

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/25/2005 4:59:52 PM

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It depends what you mean by the word punishment. Are we talking behavior modification? Or love-play? My wife/sub enjoys several forms of "punishments" that are, for her, foreplay. I'm listing the behavior modification ones below.

Behavior Modification:
-Sit in corner, don't speak until spoken to
-Shopping time cancelled
-Researching topic and writing essay/report
-Lockup toys & sexy clothes, cancel sex/scenes for a specific time
-Useless labor with assignment to think (dig deep hole in garden, then, if she needs more, have her fill it in. Otherwise it sits there, waiting for her next mistake.
-Real punishments (she calls it torture) where the pain is MORE than she enjoys
-"Proving" she has learned (she HATES this one... she has to behave according to some standard that matches the behavior I want her to change until I deem she has learned her lesson, then it's back to normal). This one can take days!

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/25/2005 5:38:23 PM

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Interesting question. As with most responders, I feel that the best punishments are non sexual. Some of my personal favorites have been mentioned such as kneeling on uncooked rice. However I believe that the punishment should fit the crime (so to speak). I always try to find the things that cause sufficent discomfort but still make the sub/slave think and reflect. For example, I knew a sub/slave who had a thing about shaving. So ... I took her razor away for a couple of weeks (along with all the cream rinse type products in the house). I was told that the resulting itch was hell to bear with no scratching allowed. So who was it who said "home is where you can scratch where it itches? LOL Not I !!

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/25/2005 6:51:58 PM

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Jesus, I thought I lived a decent life..........
So, why do you deserve nonsexualpunishment...............
So; Why do you think..........
apparently you you did not understand the discussion?
Or What?

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/25/2005 11:21:41 PM

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Through hypnosis I have trained my slave to feel " a thousand needles" sticking into wherever I touch her when I say "bad girl". Needless to say, she hates it and immediately behaves.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/29/2005 5:28:29 AM

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The punishment of ignor is my worst puishment also not to punish when punishment is expected Personaly all puishments should be none sexual and should be pure punishments to administer pain puishment sexualy leads to pleasure not the result a Dom'/Master wants also it depends on what the punisment is for But as I said punisment is punishment and should not be looked forward to.
<it says Vanilla!? I am not

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/29/2005 5:44:48 AM

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Since I play with different people I sort of tailor my punishments both to the crime and to the person involved.

The thing about punishing someone is that it has to be a punishment, fit the crime, and more importantly, it has to be something that is effective in achieving the goals of the relationship.

Talking back in a playfull or casual scene gets a "punishment". Just more instense stimulation.

With my primary, if she has an orgasm without permission, she is both denied an orgasm, but also penetration of any kind (anal, oral, even french-kissing). I one time tied her down and made her watch me masturbate until I was finished. The whole I told her how mad I was that I couldn't use her, because she was being punishment. She has not made the mistake since.

If she forgets to say "Sir", I simply check in with her to see if it was the AAD or not. But usualy it just means a slap and correction. I make her repeat the whole last sentence in the correct manner

The fact of the matter is that she is generally a very good girl and rarely needs correction.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 6/30/2005 12:51:29 PM

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First of all i believe the punishment should fit the crime so to speak. Being punished for things like masturbating when i did not have permission, or having an orgasm before i ask, i am sorry but that is in my opinion only not grounds for punishment.

Punishment is something i take very seriously and being punished is serious therefore what ever i did should have been serious. That is a whole other topic however.

my Master uses a variety of punishments all are different in degree of discomfort to pain and chosen due to the offense:

*Dump a box of 50 pencils on the floor or in a baking sheet and has me kneel on them for a designated period of time.

*Fills my bra with cooked rice (cooled) and i am to wear it until it dries (very uncomfortable believe me.)

*kneel in front of the door with hands behind my back nose to the door

*put uncooked grains of rice in a bowl, remove them one grain at a time and put them in another bowl counting each one (uses to teach patience when i get to pushy or anxious)

* "deep clean" a room or rooms in the house for inspection and His definition of deep clean is indeed punishment.

These are only a few examples of punishment that He uses that have nothing to do with sex. While physical punishment has its place like a hard hit with a cane or something it is not the common and it must have been a very bad offense.

Witholding affection or attention in my opinion is damaging. It doe not mean that you continue to have things like sex, or scening. You can still stroke her hair while at Your feet, or hug her and for some just not having sex with her or allowing her some sexual opportunity that she likes IS punishment.

my opinions are my own.

flirt

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 7/4/2005 11:30:31 PM

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Punishment is something that should not be strived for by the submissive...

Discipline is something totally different...

Something that a submissive could potentially enjoy is not punishment

No attention given could be punishment

Cutting of live switches and preparing for corporal use could also.

Anything sexual has the potential to be enjoyable after numerous durations...edurance and exposure...

Tedious repetious chores might be in order

Something that requires research at the library of a topic that might seem boring would further educate yet remind...

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 7/4/2005 11:34:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Something that requires research at the library of a topic that might seem boring would further educate yet remind...

Thats a great punishment. I have a very wide range of tastes and interests so it would be hard to find something I dont like..

Shhh its a secret.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 7/5/2005 5:42:03 AM

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"Non-sexual" is my only punishment - that's what makes it punishment.... In the corner with no cuffs, no collar, wearing that "special" dress I find so unappealing and I'll act like she's not even there. Fifteen or thirty minutes usually has the desired effect and all is forgiven with a big hug....

Punishment is rare but sometimes necessary and I *hate* it, too, as I'm also punished by being deprived of her service! Much prefer discipline - something "short and sharp" usually does the job.

Focus50.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 7/5/2005 6:32:28 AM

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quote:

"what is Your most effective, most used, punishment that has no sexual pleasure for the sub?"

I would have to say that my most favorite and most commonly used is to treat them "vanilla".... I talk to them just like I would a friend, I get my own drink, serve my own meals, the things they gain pleasure in doing, serving me or helping me in some way. I never do it spitefully, I stay very pleasant at all times.

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RE: Non sexual punishments - 7/5/2005 7:21:37 AM

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I must admit that would be worse then punishment.

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