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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:31:18 AM

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I'm probably the exception rather than the rule. Personally I don't care to talk dirty during sex, and I don't like hearing my partner talk dirty. To me talking dirty takes a wonderful experience, degrades it, and puts it in the gutter.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:32:32 AM

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One of the best blowjobs I ever had was by a deaf girl-----the slobbering and the sucking sounds ---aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh.......fuckin' orgasmic, anyway the actual act wasn't the best. it was the unprocessed rawness....

'Oh, yes master, slam that big hot cheese log into my ass' is much more fulfilling (although at a different moment, much more laughable than)

'Would you like to put it in my bottom?'

don't process the prose, just throw it out there, something is bound to stick, you all wanna talk? Here is your fuckin' chance, talk.......

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:34:56 AM

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You do it like this: my God after that long kiss I near lost my breath yes he said I was a flower of the mountain yes so we are flowers all a womans body yes that was one true thing he said in his life and the sun shines for you today yes that was why I liked him because I saw he understood or felt what a woman is and I knew I could always get round him and I gave him all the pleasure I could leading him on till he asked me to say yes and I wouldnt answer first only looked out over the sea and the sky I was thinking of so many things he didnt know of Mulvey and Mr Stanhope and Hester and father and old captain Groves and the sailors playing all birds fly and I say stoop and washing up dishes they called it on the pier and the sentry in front of the governors house with the thing round his white helmet poor devil half roasted and the Spanish girls laughing in their shawls and their tall combs and the auctions in the morning the Greeks and the jews and the Arabs and the devil knows who else from all the ends of Europe and Duke street and the fowl market all clucking outside Larby Sharons and the poor donkeys slipping half asleep and the vague fellows in the cloaks asleep in the shade on the steps and the big wheels of the carts of the bulls and the old castle thousands of years old yes and those handsome Moors all in white and turbans like kings asking you to sit down in their little bit of a shop and Ronda with the old windows of the posadas 2 glancing eyes a lattice hid for her lover to kiss the iron and the wineshops half open at night and the castanets and the night we missed the boat at Algeciras the watchman going about serene with his lamp and O that awful deepdown torrent O and the sea the sea crimson sometimes like fire and the glorious sunsets and the figtrees in the Alameda gardens yes and all the queer little streets and the pink and blue and yellow houses and the rosegardens and the jessamine and geraniums and cactuses and Gibraltar as a girl where I was a Flower of the mountain yes when I put the rose in my hair like the Andalusian girls used or shall I wear a red yes and how he kissed me under the Moorish wall and I thought well as well him as another and then I asked him with my eyes to ask again yes and then he asked me would I yes to say yes my mountain flower and first I put my arms around him yes and drew him down to me so he could feel my breasts all perfume yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:42:26 AM

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dirty talk?
i see it, and use it to help us enter a different mindspace ;)
we can go anywhere i minds take us

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:43:46 AM

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You do it like this: my God after that long kiss I near lost my breath yes he said I was a flower of the mountain yes so we are flowers all a womans body yes that was one true thing he said in his life and the sun shines for you today yes that was why I liked him because I saw he understood or felt what a woman is and I knew I could always get round him and I gave him all the pleasure I could leading him on till he asked me to say yes and I wouldnt answer first only looked out over the sea and the sky I was thinking of so many things he didnt know of Mulvey and Mr Stanhope and Hester and father and old captain Groves and the sailors playing all birds fly and I say stoop and washing up dishes they called it on the pier and the sentry in front of the governors house with the thing round his white helmet poor devil half roasted and the Spanish girls laughing in their shawls and their tall combs and the auctions in the morning the Greeks and the jews and the Arabs and the devil knows who else from all the ends of Europe and Duke street and the fowl market all clucking outside Larby Sharons and the poor donkeys slipping half asleep and the vague fellows in the cloaks asleep in the shade on the steps and the big wheels of the carts of the bulls and the old castle thousands of years old yes and those handsome Moors all in white and turbans like kings asking you to sit down in their little bit of a shop and Ronda with the old windows of the posadas 2 glancing eyes a lattice hid for her lover to kiss the iron and the wineshops half open at night and the castanets and the night we missed the boat at Algeciras the watchman going about serene with his lamp and O that awful deepdown torrent O and the sea the sea crimson sometimes like fire and the glorious sunsets and the figtrees in the Alameda gardens yes and all the queer little streets and the pink and blue and yellow houses and the rosegardens and the jessamine and geraniums and cactuses and Gibraltar as a girl where I was a Flower of the mountain yes when I put the rose in my hair like the Andalusian girls used or shall I wear a red yes and how he kissed me under the Moorish wall and I thought well as well him as another and then I asked him with my eyes to ask again yes and then he asked me would I yes to say yes my mountain flower and first I put my arms around him yes and drew him down to me so he could feel my breasts all perfume yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.

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Or you could say...suck my cock you little bitch. Then get me a beer.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:47:09 AM

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I would have it the other way 'round.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:49:02 AM

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Hahahaha. So would I.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:51:23 AM

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maybe it is only a select few of us are like that, alot of women think that men are incapable of multitasking effectively.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:52:10 AM

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Why does dirty talk turn guys on?

Probably for the same reasons it turns me and lots of other women on too.....it's hot

. I am very into sexual talk. Master agrees that I could make a helluva living as a phone sex operator but He'll never permit that

. For me, it just takes things to another level. It's very specific for each relationship, though, I think. All the talk that people may be referring to as sounding like something from a bad porno flick or bodice-ripping novel is indeed silly to me. What we say is very specific to our relationship/dynamic/desires. There are certain words, names, phrases, and fantasies we speak of sexually that just send us both through the roof, so to speak. Talking about "huge, throbbing love muscles" and "dripping honeypots" and things of that nature would cause us to bust out laughing. But giving voice to the things that DO turn us both on just adds something very hot to the mix. "Dirty talk" is a must for us

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:54:25 AM

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As long as you have a place to put said beer when things get rocking then it's all good. There is hope for you men yet.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 9:00:05 AM

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This is one of those things that practice, time, and feeling secure with eachother will really make the difference.

Before you talk dirty- just talk. Talk about what you are doing, what you are feeling, what you want to feel.

Then, you can ramp it up a bit, use nastier terms, louder voices.

But talk to eachother first and last- your version of nasty talk could be his version of a total turn off.

I couldn't agree more with this. just getting used to talking would be a good 1st step...for me as well... one can always "turn up the volume" later.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 9:01:59 AM

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i love being talked dirty to, i also love talking dirty to Him
very Hot

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 9:10:47 AM

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I like commentaries while I'm sucking him or taking him up my ass. "You LIKE it! What a whore!!" Like that......

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 9:16:10 AM

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One thing which always turns me off is an unresponsive partner. If I do not get any reaction from her, I may as well get a blow up doll. There greater a partner's reactions, the more she can let go and come and moan and scream as we play, the more she pleases me.

At this point my sub makes me very happy, since I could probably rent her out as a tornado siren.

To slow her down and make her focus on any kind of a script about dirty talk will work for torture for her, as it interfers with letting go and letting herself fly. Torture is often something a dominant likes, so it can be very appropriate..

I suggest you concentrate on serious deep breathing as your play with your dom begins, getting deeper and louder as play becomes more intense. When you do this and find yourself melting and flying, often all kinds of stuff will get said.
I remember we trained a few shy subs by making them sing a ridiculous song she did not like. One Irish girl had to learn to sing "Rule Brittania" to her Mistress while being watched by several people. One Ga. girl had to learn to sing "Marching through Georgia" to dominants she served. Yes this was humiliating, yes they did not like it, yes they lost much shyness. Nobody needed a safe word. But next time the choice of doing dirty talk or singing the song could help.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 9:30:48 AM

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Or you could say...suck my cock you little bitch. Then get me a beer.

This is about as vocal as we get during sex, and it works for me...doesnt interuppt the football game for as long, and if he takes me from behind I can continue watching the game better than if im sucking him off.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 11:51:44 AM

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I love it when he talks dirty to me. Him saying "your my little bitch" or "beg for my cock slut" is my favorite. Makes me so hot! I want to be able to talk dirty to him but it feels unnatural to me.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 11:56:14 AM

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Aileen68: As long as you have a place to put said beer when things get rocking then it's all good. There is hope for you men yet.

Don't you know that is why God created short girls with flat heads?

Geeeze. Gotta teach you jersey girls EVERYTHING.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 12:12:43 PM

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Just an old worn out slut,
Her mouth on my Johnson
Her hands on my butt
A young stud two hands on the wheel
I can't replace the way it made me feel
I would press that lipclutch, and I would keep it right
She would say just a little slower sir
Your doing just fine
Just a little dirty whore with foam on each side
But I was Mario Andretti
When that ol' cunt let me drive

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 12:20:41 PM

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I love dirty talk!

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 3:56:50 PM

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*This dirty little cunt just loves telling him how fucking incredible it feels when he fills my holes.*

I usually will start with something tame like this and then just let the thoughts fly.
Go with the flow and enjoy the reaction.

I usually find it expedient to find a nice ballgag to fill one of the holes. A nice one, in black or red, or perhaps pink, is always best used when it can be strapped in nicely and help eliminate the confusion on this topic. Its just my preference. Ya'll all go ahead and blast away with your talkin dirty. I'll go for the gag every time.

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