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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 3:45:42 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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And that's the only thing that matters, especially if the beholder is the one holding you.

Hmmm, how about BBM for larger Doms? You know Big Bossy Men. 


true to statement #1........and i just dont have the energy or inclination to look for that BBM thing-lol....but if you do it, please let me know how it turns out



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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 3:49:05 PM   
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.....whether i am beautiful is in the eyes of the beholder only....


And that's the only thing that matters, especially if the beholder is the one holding you.



And with BBWs, chubbies, fluffies, plumpers, fatties, rubensuqe-ies, roundies, tubbies...

There is so much pleasure to be holding...

I've sampled many sizes, and still prefer the plus sizes.  Just.. better...


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 3:55:19 PM   
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I have looked at a lot of profiles in here. Some of you didn't need to be obnoxious in your replies. I am not on here much and frankly i have lost weight and will continue to do so and eat healthy. It was something that i wondered about because i have perused hundreds of profiles when i first came on here. Does is matter to me if you are fat, thin, stupid, dumb, kind, intelligent. Of course not. I work with all kinds of people..and it never fails to amaze me how some truly are.

For those of U/u that left positive replies tyvm!

Pardon some of my terribly worded questions and sometimes typos. Although English is my language, i am hearing impaired and what i learned about people and from people would amaze U/u. U learned from hearing language. I got 1/4 of it.

Not asking for pity just stating what is.

Ciao!


Winterlight - not trying to make excuses for anyone's behavior, but if you haven't visited the forums much then you may not be aware that almost every week around here someone starts a new "fat" thread which almost always ends up being a back-and-forth between those who believe in some degree of size acceptance and those who do not. It has gotten pretty ugly at times...so people I think naturally bristle whenever this topic comes up...well, speaking for myself, I do. So, some remarks might simply have been out of simply being tired of seeing this topic raised yet again.

As for your hearing impairment and language, I totally understand that. A good friend of mine is deaf and I came to understand some of the differences in language acquisition between deaf, hard-of-hearing, and hearing people. Most hearing people, however, are not aware.

Anyhow, hope you find your answers. Take care.

MNN

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 3:58:11 PM   
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And with BBWs, chubbies, fluffies, plumpers, fatties, rubensuqe-ies, roundies, tubbies...

There is so much pleasure to be holding...

I've sampled many sizes, and still prefer the plus sizes. Just.. better...



Ah, if only you were a subbie....

MNN

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:00:29 PM   
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Ah, if only you were a subbie....


Trying to convert me, MNN?  :-)

Actually I have found One to whom I would switch for... but it gets.. complicated.

I still like your avatar.. "Sanctuary in chains"


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:06:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wonder why there are so many psuedonyms for bigger ladies, and so few for thinner ones?

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:08:20 PM   
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I wonder why there are so many psuedonyms for bigger ladies, and so few for thinner ones?


as a fat chick, i think i can say....many cant stand the fat word......to each their own

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:15:42 PM   
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I wonder why there are so many psuedonyms for bigger ladies, and so few for thinner ones?


as a fat chick, i think i can say....many cant stand the fat word......to each their own


Because "fat chicks" usually have a much better sense of humor about things..? ;-)


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:18:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Agreed seeksonlyone. Isn't it funny how people don't mind words like shit and fuck and use them with no problem without the need for 10 billion psuedonyms, yet have a terrible time using the word "fat"? Anyway, as someone previously said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and "fat" is relative. Some people saw Marilyn Monroe as a little overweight, others saw her as a divine Goddess (me included, what a gorgeous woman!). 

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:26:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mistressor.. MM was the epitome of the classic figure.  Back when men were secure with themselves and in not in need of a lover shaped like a teenaged boy.  Curve, hips, tits, a poochy belly.. look at all the paintings of Aphrodite.. the goddess of love!  Look at the figuring depicting the Venus of Willendorf... great, round belly, wide hips, fat ass, huge saggy breasts.. she was the epitome of what women should look like, because she would produce babies.. lots and healthy babies... your typical size 2 wasn't sought after at all.

Plus.. she was probably a lot better in the sack. ;-)


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:28:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now wait a minute.  Everyone is entitled to like or prefer whomever, but better in the sack?  Why?  Cuz she is overweight?  That makes absolutely no sense.

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:40:32 PM   
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I had measurements that were 38"- 26"- 36" i was 5' 5".....it was the happiest 6 months of my life....LMAO...


LOL, I have one of those numbers, LOL! 


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:42:53 PM   
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Now wait a minute.  Everyone is entitled to like or prefer whomever, but better in the sack?  Why?  Cuz she is overweight?  That makes absolutely no sense.


If you noticed the little "winkie" emoticon at the end of my sentence you'd see I was being funny.

However, since you've brought it up.. generally speaking, in my experience, yes, bigger women are better in bed that skinny women.


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:43:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno, bandit, I've heard a lot of people say that a bigger woman is better in the sack...honestly, I--being a BBW myself--don't really understand it either, but it does seem to be a bit to the truth.  Maybe because there's a little cushion around the pelvic bones so it don't hurt as much in all that nice pounding and thrusting. LOL!!

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:44:09 PM   
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I had measurements that were 38"- 26"- 36" i was 5' 5".....it was the happiest 6 months of my life....LMAO...


LOL, I have one of those numbers, LOL! 


Yeah i still have ONE of those numbers too...is it ok to have a 36" waist?....


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:45:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think when i joined the army in another lifetime, my measurements were 42-32-42.......and back then, i felt fat and had a helluva time finding pants big enough....seems sizes stopped at like a 13 or so....

i just looked at a pic of me from them-and damn i was hot........

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:48:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, I noticed the little wink at the end.  I guess I was a bit defensive...sorry.  It's just that I work very hard to keep my weight down and stay in good shape.  Mostly, I do it for me.  See, I love tight rope bondage and I find it easier on me physically if I am a bit leaner and flexible.  To each his or her own as far as I am concerned.  But just as women don't like to be told or hear that they are too fat, I don't like to hear that I am too thin.  btw...I'm no where near a size 2.

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:49:43 PM   
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i think when i joined the army in another lifetime, my measurements were 42-32-42.......and back then, i felt fat and had a helluva time finding pants big enough....seems sizes stopped at like a 13 or so....

i just looked at a pic of me from them-and damn i was hot........

Alas, i can understand pining away for the body of your youth....LOL...indeed i can....


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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:50:01 PM   
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Now wait a minute.  Everyone is entitled to like or prefer whomever, but better in the sack?  Why?  Cuz she is overweight?  That makes absolutely no sense.


of course it does because of course fat chicks are easier, and more willing to do kinky shit to get attention...right?

removes her tongue from her cheek...

totally agree with you...there are skinny, average and fat chicks that are bad in bed and skinny average and fat chicks that are great lays...but if you (a general you, not specific to any poster) can't get aroused because my body is not society's or whatever coaligns with you idea of perfect...ok, move on, i don't need to hear about it...

i would love to hook up with a guy that can pick me up...but i weigh 310 lbs right now, and loosing but still...maybe i will go hang out around the worlds strongest men competitions *swoon*

chelle

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RE: i wonder what the statistics are on how many Doms l... - 7/4/2007 4:50:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe you're right demonkitty.  I haven't had any complaints but maybe I'd get more compliments if I gained.  Who knows?  I'm good the way I am...at least, I'm good for me.

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