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SubinMaine -> RE: questionnaire (7/5/2007 8:06:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all
If you have AOL, go to the dominant women, real dominant women, submissive males, etc. chat rooms in the member created area called "special interests". Some of the Pro Dommes have this questionaire on their web pages. I'm sure there are better ways already mentioned here, but having not read through them, just another option. Those questionaires, I was told during chat with some of the Dommes who had them, helped them develop scenes for their clients. I don't know how true that is, or how helpful this info was. But for lifestyle considerations, wouldn't it be much better to learn each other, limits, likes, what turns you on, what terrifies you, what disgusts you, what you fantasize about in direct communication with potential Dominants? A form letter just seems way to impersonal IMHO.
ready4, i always like reading your replies, they're always well thought out and provoke people into seeing another side *smile*
i do wonder, though, if these Dommes use this exact questionnaire or if They have Their own version of it?....i'm all for communication, but the questions asked, along with the request for names, ages, sexes and personal vital info including first/last name and street address is what the real issue is with this particular questionnaire, for me anyway, i can only speak for myself.
It scares me that a new-to-the-lifestyle sub/slave may think this is "protocol"...that this info is expected to be given out and may set themselves up for some very uncool attention....
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