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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/5/2007 8:26:44 AM

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Almost anything done with the right mindset - even though not overtly sexual , can still contain a highly erotic component that is quite delicious in itself !

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/5/2007 8:26:47 AM

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Thanks for the replies everyone. They were very enlightening.

I noticed that a few of them came from people who are in relationships, and that is different from what I was trying to ask about. I feel good when I do things for Daddy too (as he does when he does things for me), but I was thinking more of people who come to live in a household for a period of time to only do service-related work and don't really have any kind of sexual or emotional attachment to their Dom/me. Does that kind of thing exist? I am sure I've seen mention of it on here somewhere.

Honestly, the thought came to me when I hired a housekeeping service recently. (Daddy and I both work full time and in addition to that, I'm writing a book, so our house was starting to become a pig sty!

) I thought - it would cost only slightly more (and be a lot more fun and interesting) to have a service slave or sub living here and tending to things. They could also do things the maids can't do - like cook, do the dishes, draw a bath etc. (I hadn't thought of giving manicures and pedicures, but hey - that would be great too!)

I just wondered why anyone would be willing to do that kind of service, and it seems you've answered my questions.

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/5/2007 8:30:24 AM

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Trust me, if you can believe it, it exists.

My relationship with my partner for the first year was completely non sexual between us. And, at the time, we had no real intentions of it being any more than it was.

But really, hiring a housekeeper outright can be much better on your sanity if that's what you really want on a consistent basis.

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/5/2007 10:55:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: SoquilisGirl

I noticed that a few of them came from people who are in relationships, and that is different from what I was trying to ask about. I feel good when I do things for Daddy too (as he does when he does things for me), but I was thinking more of people who come to live in a household for a period of time to only do service-related work and don't really have any kind of sexual or emotional attachment to their Dom/me. Does that kind of thing exist? I am sure I've seen mention of it on here somewhere.

Yes, but once again, its something you have to kind of get off the boards and go out in the public scene to encounter, because its more of a Leather thing.

My mentor/friend had a Leather boi in service to him in addition to his slave. There re;ationship was platonic and mostly service based.

Many dominants, in accordance to Leather tradition, have spent time in that role to a more experienced and educated dominant in a teacher/student sense.

I've meant several people who go over to a dominants house once a week simply to clean and do chores. The relationship doesnt go any farther than that.

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/5/2007 5:33:36 PM

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Part of the quandary that service submission brings up is that a lot (not all, but a lot) of service submissives have a particular need for recognition and a feeling that their contribution is important enough to be considered that. What often happens that throws a wrench into this is something the dominant doesn't suspect and even the service submissive will claim is not a problem, but it will be. And that's when a dominant decides to take in a service submissive IN ADDITION to other submissives that dominant has in her or his life. Often, what happens is called jealousy, but that's not really what happens. What happens is that the importance of the service dynamic feels diminished because you start to feel "that's all" he or she wants from you. EVEN if that's all that you were ever expected to do in the first place.

That's why I don't even talk about service submission as my desire anymore. Way too many dominants don't actually understand it, but because of their vast experience at d/s and play environments, they think they do.

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/7/2007 1:32:47 AM

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It is very simple, seeing the smile on Her face......She has very little to smile about most days.

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/7/2007 1:45:24 AM

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the turn on of being obedient and servile, for a beautiful creature

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RE: What do service slaves get out of it? - 7/7/2007 8:18:45 AM

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service slave is just as it is
i enjoy being a good pet and if that is just for service with the right Mistress
i dont excpect anything out of it other then the plesure of my Mistress being happy with me

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