arayofsunshine55
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One of the challenges, for some, with all this bdsm lingo, is that folks kinda buy the hype. "Consideration", "release", etc. Whatever. If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Say so. Thank him for his time and move one. Period. Why play by his rules if she isn't interested in him? Why would that even begin to make sense to her?
And I would be really concerned about a sub who didn't get this, who didn't get that in the end she is a free person of free will which she can exercise whenever she desires. Which means if she desires to do whatever he wants she can. If she doesn't desire that she can choose not to, and 'enjoy' whatever consequences that might entail. I am in this relationship, subordinate to Daddy, because I want to be. And he wants me to be. It takes both of us to want it.
If she doesn't get this I'm not sure she should trust herself in such a relationship. And I mean that kindly.
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Is it not most transformative, most earthshaking, to pierce the veils of self-deception and illusion, and crack the eggshell of ignorance, to most intimately encounter oneself? Lama Surya Das
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RE: Consideration - 
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