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Rumtiger -> RE: What if: (7/11/2007 12:32:53 AM)

Our conflict is our utopia.




swtnsparkling -> RE: What if: (7/11/2007 2:54:34 AM)

I used to wonder what that meant..  Are you happy. I didn't know
I figured if I didn't know then I must not be.

Now I do know- no question. Every single day I wake up I am happy.
Life is good. Have a job I love. Husband who is utterly fantastic so very good to me.
A 19 year old who is my life n joy who is  about to go live her life's dream. I'm so proud of her.
Roof over my head, food on the table, good health.
There are times I have a blue day- someone ticks me off -and wish I was once again in a  D/s relationship (been 3yrs now)  but................

Happy......... Yes I am Happy[sm=mrpuffy.gif]  and Sparkling*




Raechard -> RE: What if: (7/11/2007 12:43:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira
Have you ever considered what it would take to make, and keep everyone happy?  


This was the question I was addressing. I’m not sure how you can just gloss over the issues I mentioned as they were chosen by me because they are the most emotive subjects that are currently dividing peoples opinion. I think such subjects will never easily be answered no matter how technology changes in the future. Also by pointing out that you equate abortion to murder you are just proving my point that people will never agree unless they all think like you; the chances of that being slim to none.

Let me put it another way; if you was to ask a BP executive to describe a world in which he was happy do you seriously expect him to say anything other than “This one”?




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/12/2007 10:03:56 AM)

Raechard,

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This was the question I was addressing.


I just wanted to make sure we were discussing the same type of place.

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I’m not sure how you can just gloss over the issues I mentioned as they were chosen by me because they are the most emotive subjects that are currently dividing peoples opinion.


I am guessing, by using the word “gloss” you mean, “give a short definition, explanation, or translation of a word or phrase”; please correct me if I’m wrong.
 
How I can is one thing, but the reason I did is a whole different issue. I will explain the “how” if you would like, since I did throw it out there.
 
The thing is, while I was thinking about your response, at work last night, it dawned on me; what I was actually doing was trying to debate the definition of a topic, for a place that doesn’t exist, at least at this time, with someone who already said they didn’t believe it was possible; very unfair of me.
 
I apologize for doing that, and to anyone else I’ve done that too. I’ll be watching more closely to try to prevent it in the future.

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I think such subjects will never easily be answered no matter how technology changes in the future.


I agree, even under the best possible circumstances, it will be hard to come to an agreement on many issues. I am still hoping not impossible though.

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Also by pointing out that you equate abortion to murder you are just proving my point that people will never agree unless they all think like you; the chances of that being slim to none.
 
 
If by saying that I have proven your point, you mean I can not be open-minded, I don’t believe I have proven that, since there was no debate to judge by.
 
I am very capable of changing my prospective, when presented with reasonable facts.
 
And while it is true, that at this time, I do see abortion as murder/taking the life of another human being, I didn’t say there could never be a time when that may be in the best interest of those involved. Row v. Wade comes to mind.

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Let me put it another way; if you was to ask a BP executive to describe a world in which he was happy do you seriously expect him to say anything other than “This one”?


I am thinking it would depend on what motivates the individual to do the things they are doing.
 
I don’t see this “garden paradise” I was referring to, as a place where humankind stops progressing; there still may be a need for people to do such jobs or at least similar ones, but in doing so, it would serve the good of the whole and not just a select few or a company.

Swtnsparkling,

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I used to wonder what that meant..  Are you happy. I didn't know
I figured if I didn't know then I must not be.

Now I do know- no question. Every single day I wake up I am happy.
Life is good. Have a job I love. Husband who is utterly fantastic so very good to me.
A 19 year old who is my life n joy who is  about to go live her life's dream. I'm so proud of her.
Roof over my head, food on the table, good health.
There are times I have a blue day- someone ticks me off -and wish I was once again in a  D/s relationship (been 3yrs now)  but................

Happy......... Yes I am Happy   and Sparkling*


I am glad things, for the most part, are going well for you, and that you are happy. :)

Rumtiger,

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Our conflict is our utopia.


This statement confuses me a bit, so I am hesitant on trying to respond to it. If I’ve misunderstood what you’re saying, please let me know.
 
I can see that people like to debate, but it seems to me that most of them do so, in order to try and find resolution.
 
I don’t think in a place where people and the world around them is always changing, debating would be eliminated, but instead, would be conducted in a more productive manner, so perhaps we can move on to debate new things.

NeedToUseYou,

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I don't think it is possible to keep everyone happy, without removing pieces of the human brain or controlling memory. I guess, one could feed  a constant loop into someones brain a happy scenario.
 
 
What part of the brain do you think would need to be removed; controlling what; memory? Could you please explain why you believe memory controlling would be necessary?
 
I am hoping such a place/time would provide the necessary elements for people to be happy by what is available, without altering their minds.

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Good food, ability to travel worldwide on a whim, self sustained life for the most part, nicely equipped garage, with tools and supplies in the country. Horny good natured attractive woman, that likes to cook, clean, and do laundry. HEHE.


I was thinking; I doubt the need to work would be eliminated, and as it is at this time, not only do I not have the time to travel, I don’t have the money to do so either. Wouldn’t it be neat if teleportation was possible? That way, on my one full day off a week, I could actually go visit places or people who are too far away for me to get to at this time.
 
Sincerely,
 
k




philosophy -> RE: What if: (7/12/2007 10:15:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

That implies that everyone understnd consequences... not everyone does, some are just motivated by desires.

Now if the technology were to eliminate that flaw...


....not sure technology would ever work......however, education stands a chance....




Rumtiger -> RE: What if: (7/12/2007 4:32:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira

Rumtiger,

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Our conflict is our utopia.


This statement confuses me a bit, so I am hesitant on trying to respond to it. If I’ve misunderstood what you’re saying, please let me know.
 
I can see that people like to debate, but it seems to me that most of them do so, in order to try and find resolution.
 
I don’t think in a place where people and the world around them is always changing, debating would be eliminated, but instead, would be conducted in a more productive manner, so perhaps we can move on to debate new things.


Forgive me, I suppose I was being a bit more cryptic than usual.

I'm afraid my statement was a bit more grim than just debate, and addressed our human nature to destroy ourselves. In a utopia everything is balanced, life and death exist but it's all controlled, natural working in perfect harmony, fly gets eaten by a spider, spider gets eaten by a bird, bird gets eaten by a cat and so on uninturrupted. Everything in nature has it's own competition, animals have thier own natural enemies against other animals, plants comepete for space and sunlight ect.

But us...no we're just a bit different, unlike other animals when I sit here on the computer i'm not worried about some other species which is faster or stronger and which wants to hunt me down and eat me. When I go to the movies I dont expect to see a shark sitting in the row behind me or a tiger roving about the street outside the cinema. (though in Vegas there is actually a slim chance of that happening at any given time.)

Quite simply we as humans have developed to a point where we have no real natural enemies in the world except ourselves, we are unique in the fact that for us, predator and prey are but the same. Nature makes us want conflict with one another for a specific reason, we breed like viruses, were there to be peace and no conflict, we would destroy ourselves in ways more unimaginableand chaotic than can be concieved in the sciences of warfare. This is nature, we must kill, we must die, that is why it has been going on so long. It's not conscious choice, if that was true we would have been living in a utopia for millenia, so thats the meaning of my statement, Utopia is balanced nature...and we have been balancing ourselves for quite some time. And until some other animal comes along which gives us a run for our money, that we as humans can say we compete with, call a natural enemy, it will always be this way.

Of course, I could just be a nutty bastard.




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 9:41:49 AM)

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Forgive me, I suppose I was being a bit more cryptic than usual.
 
 
It’s okay, I have my moments too. :)

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I'm afraid my statement was a bit more grim than just debate, and addressed our human nature to destroy ourselves.
 
 
Do you really believe it is human nature to destroy ourselves? That would be quite a paradox; wouldn’t it? I mean, are there a bunch of people out there, trying to find ways to “make it better” just for everyone to destroy it? I don’t understand the point; why not just let it all flush down the toilet?
 
It seems to me, quite a few people try to find ways to make things better, but as humans, we tend to fumble a lot. No?
 
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In a utopia everything is balanced, life and death exist but it's all controlled, natural working in perfect harmony, fly gets eaten by a spider, spider gets eaten by a bird, bird gets eaten by a cat and so on uninturrupted. Everything in nature has it's own competition, animals have thier own natural enemies against other animals, plants comepete for space and sunlight ect.
 
 
No offense, I really cringe at the word “utopia”. The reason being, I don’t believe anything involving humans will ever be perfect. We keep evolving in the things we do and how we do them and a lot of that is accomplished by trial and error. I don’t think humans can stop evolving, which also means, what may be good for one point in time, may not be at another; it calls for constant change in all areas. Doesn’t it?

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But us...no we're just a bit different, unlike other animals when I sit here on the computer i'm not worried about some other species which is faster or stronger and which wants to hunt me down and eat me. When I go to the movies I dont expect to see a shark sitting in the row behind me or a tiger roving about the street outside the cinema. (though in Vegas there is actually a slim chance of that happening at any given time.)

Quite simply we as humans have developed to a point where we have no real natural enemies in the world except ourselves, we are unique in the fact that for us, predator and prey are but the same
.

 
This reminds me of growing up with parents who equated fear with respect. The problem with that concept, especially when used on kids like I was, eventually they get bigger and aren’t afraid anymore. While I can’t say I turned out too bad, and don’t hate them for the way things were, I have to say, when I think back on it; I tend to get really pissed off about what went on that didn’t have to be that way. Also, I have a certain amount of emotional detachment towards them. Funny, they can’t figure out why I don’t go visit much.
 
And I did eventually come to respect them, for things they have accomplished in their lives, but not for their roles as parents.
 
Anyway, my point is, fear, if it doesn’t defeat us; tends to only make us stronger and look for ways to defend ourselves.
 
It seems to me, in a lot of ways, we have the same basic instincts as animals, but then there are the ways in which we differ from them. Do you think if we focused on the differences, and learned to “control” (lack of a better word) them better, we might have a chance?
 
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Nature makes us want conflict with one another for a specific reason,
 
 
Does it? I don’t understand then, why do we get so angry when we are in a conflict? Why do we try to find happiness? Why do we become sad when we are in a conflict with someone we care for?
 
Personally, I would rather avoid conflict. I prefer to work things out, come to an agreement where everyone involved is treated fairly, and then move on.
 
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we breed like viruses, were there to be peace and no conflict, we would destroy ourselves in ways more unimaginableand chaotic than can be concieved in the sciences of warfare.
 
 
Is this because there would be too many people?
 
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This is nature, we must kill, we must die, that is why it has been going on so long.
 
 
Even when thinking of a garden paradise, before posting this thread, I have been at a loss on this subject. I was thinking that science would keep progressing. If we are around long enough, and it is possible, which our own natural rejuvenating abilities makes me lean toward it is, eventually we will figure out how to live longer and longer and if no one died, we would, after a while, run into over population again.
 
When I was studying the bible, someone told me that people would eventually live for ever but stop having UMs. I just couldn’t see that. I don’t think I would enjoy a place where there weren’t even baby animals and if nothing died; eventually even animals would have to stop breeding; right?
 
So now, I’m wondering if the phrase “live for ever” actually means something other then what we relate it to. I’m still thinking on it.
 
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It's not conscious choice, if that was true we would have been living in a utopia for millenia, so thats the meaning of my statement, Utopia is balanced nature...and we have been balancing ourselves for quite some time. And until some other animal comes along which gives us a run for our money, that we as humans can say we compete with, call a natural enemy, it will always be this way.
 
 
Does this mean you do not see a balance in humans; or that we don't strive to find it? Could it be that we do balance, but at extremes? Does needing a "regulator" other then human, mean that no human has control over their self? Perhpas not enough?

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Of course, I could just be a nutty bastard.
 
 
*smiles* It’s all good. ;) Thank you for the clarification.
 
Sincerely,
 
k




Rumtiger -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 10:57:50 AM)

Since my post seemed to answer alot of your very own questions on each part you broke up (I dont get why you did that), i'll focus on the parts which require an extra answer rathrr then me simply repeating what i've already said.


quote:

ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira
Does this mean you do not see a balance in humans; or that we don't strive to find it? Could it be that we do balance, but at extremes? Does needing a "regulator" other then human, mean that no human has control over their self? Perhpas not enough?


You dont seem to understand my point is that we do have a balance already, we kill each other, thats our purpose in life at this moment. Not to simply feed ourselves anymore, not to build civilizations anymore, but to kill, to control our own species; we have the food, we've already made our nations, there is nothing left. Grim? yes, the truth is quite simply, we have no other thing to compete with than ourselves, you may see killing one another as an extreme, I see it as what nature really intended. Might explain why it's so hard to get me down lol.

The thing is we try to go against it, we trick ourselves into believeing that doing all this is wrong, humans are the only thing on earth that has a sense of morals, and so begins the struggle between doing our best to stick to our morals and conqour our human nature.

And we all see what happens when you try to go against nature.

I forgot to add a bit of an expansion on my comment about a forgien "regulator". Another aspect about human nature is that while we have the basic nature to have conflict, we also have an equal nature to bond together, after all thats where the whole civilization building came into practice, having soemthing big enough which humanity as a whole can compete against would put us in an immediate peace with one another in order to have conflict with said forgien entity.




thompsonx -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 11:10:17 AM)

To no one in particular:
My thoughts are that some amongst us seek more than they need or could ever use for no other purpose than to deny it to others and in so doing justify their avarice as human nature. 
thompson




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 12:00:24 PM)

*tries to shake the confusion out of her head*
 
The reason I broke it all down, and asked for more clarification, is because the idea is just … unfathomable to me; and I am really trying hard here, to understand.
 
Capabilities, pointless, empathy, pointless; morals, pointless; I can’t intentionally kill anyone so; purpose, none.
 
How can kill/kill be balanced? Am I wrong in thinking, if the purpose of people is to kill each other off, the balance would be some wish to be killed?.. or is it kill/survive? Can that even be?
 
If I am not one who has it in me to kill others and will fight back if someone tries to kill me, as long as I see them coming; where does that leave me?
 
Also, while I do enjoy a little healthy competition, I don’t play to the death. Why not? Am I fooling myself? Do I really want to kill people and just don’t realize it?
 
Eeeegads!!! Obviously, it is time for bed.
 
Sincerely,
 
k




NorthernGent -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 12:11:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

To no one in particular:
My thoughts are that some amongst us seek more than they need or could ever use for no other purpose than to deny it to others and in so doing justify their avarice as human nature. 
thompson


More is power.




thompsonx -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 12:12:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira

*tries to shake the confusion out of her head*
 
The reason I broke it all down, and asked for more clarification, is because the idea is just … unfathomable to me; and I am really trying hard here, to understand.
 
Capabilities, pointless, empathy, pointless; morals, pointless; I can’t intentionally kill anyone so; purpose, none.
 
How can kill/kill be balanced? Am I wrong in thinking, if the purpose of people is to kill each other off, the balance would be some wish to be killed?.. or is it kill/survive? Can that even be?
 
If I am not one who has it in me to kill others and will fight back if someone tries to kill me, as long as I see them coming; where does that leave me?
 
Also, while I do enjoy a little healthy competition, I don’t play to the death. Why not? Am I fooling myself? Do I really want to kill people and just don’t realize it?
 
Eeeegads!!! Obviously, it is time for bed.
 
Sincerely,
 
k



charmdpetKeira:
There are those among us (the majority) who lack the courage to face another for the purpose of mortal combat but they will elect those who likewise lack that courage to hire proxies who will.  This does not make the cowardly less culpable.
thompson




Sinergy -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 3:00:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

There used to be a restaurant in Seattle called El Puerco Lloron... (The Crying Pig).


I guess the point I am taking away from this is that Estring has never been there.

Just me, etc.

Sinergy




NorthernGent -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 3:14:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira

 Also, while I do enjoy a little healthy competition, I don’t play to the death. Why not? Am I fooling myself? Do I really want to kill people and just don’t realize it?
 
Eeeegads!!! Obviously, it is time for bed.
 
Sincerely,
 
k



'Depends on your dreams and aspirations, Keira, and the type of person you are at your core etc. 'Companion or competitor?




thompsonx -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 3:27:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: thompsonx

To no one in particular:
My thoughts are that some amongst us seek more than they need or could ever use for no other purpose than to deny it to others and in so doing justify their avarice as human nature. 
thompson


More is power.


NothernGent:
I believe that was my point...that there are some among us who's only pleasure is depriving others of their's.
thompson




NorthernGent -> RE: What if: (7/13/2007 3:50:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: thompsonx

To no one in particular:
My thoughts are that some amongst us seek more than they need or could ever use for no other purpose than to deny it to others and in so doing justify their avarice as human nature. 
thompson


More is power.


NothernGent:
I believe that was my point...that there are some among us who's only pleasure is depriving others of their's.
thompson


Yeah, and I like your justification point. Conditioning or inherent? I tend to side with conditioning.




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/14/2007 8:39:06 AM)

Thompsonx
 
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To no one in particular:
My thoughts are that some amongst us seek more than they need or could ever use for no other purpose than to deny it to others and in so doing justify their avarice as human nature. 
 
 
Assuming we know the motives of others is a dangerous game; isn’t it? It does give a good example of why a garden paradise might not work though.
 
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charmdpetKeira:

There are those among us (the majority) who lack the courage to face another for the purpose of mortal combat but they will elect those who likewise lack that courage to hire proxies who will.  This does not make the cowardly less culpable.
Thompson
 
 
Speaking for myself here; please don’t mistake a lack of willingness to “kill first, ask questions later”, as cowardly.
 
I am quite capable of fighting my own battles, so the dilemma for me does not lay in a lack of capability, but more a lack of necessity. Common sense tells me, I can kill those who cause problems for me, but as soon as I do; someone new will be lining up to take their place.
 
My problem with the statement “our purpose is to kill”, even to weed out the population, is that it gives people permission to play god. So, where do we start? Who gets to choose who dies and who lives? Why does this idea sound familiar to me?
 
NorthernGent
 
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ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira

 Also, while I do enjoy a little healthy competition, I don’t play to the death. Why not? Am I fooling myself? Do I really want to kill people and just don’t realize it?

Eeeegads!!! Obviously, it is time for bed.


Sincerely,


k



'Depends on your dreams and aspirations, Keira, and the type of person you are at your core etc. 'Companion or competitor?
 
 
Being competitive does not mean one has to kill the opposition; does it?
 
k




Rumtiger -> RE: What if: (7/14/2007 9:09:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: charmdpetKeira
 
My problem with the statement “our purpose is to kill”, even to weed out the population, is that it gives people permission to play god. So, where do we start? Who gets to choose who dies and who lives? Why does this idea sound familiar to me?


You took that one statement of mine and ignored everything else I said that explains it.

When a tiger goes and eats a monkey, is it playing God? when an orca attacks a sea lion, is it playing God? when a spider spins it's web, is it playing God?

How bout when you want to eat, sleep or fuck? do you think thats playing God then too?

It's really a simple concept thats been in practice since we began having more skin than fur, though it's practice has changed over time, gone are the times where you personally bash someone elses skull in with a rock cause hes got a better cave or stream or hell, cause he looked at you funny. (At least in mostcases). And today we got modern warfare for "modern reasons".

We are a vicous animal, quite possibly the worst thas ever come along simply due to the fact that we can kill each other for technically no actual reason at all.

And where do we start?..woman, where have you been the last 10,000 years?




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/14/2007 9:23:48 AM)

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You took that one statement of mine and ignored everything else I said that explains it.


I told you I was having a hard time understanding what you were saying. You said:

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Since my post seemed to answer alot of your very own questions on each part you broke up (I dont get why you did that), i'll focus on the parts which require an extra answer rathrr then me simply repeating what i've already said.


Is a person’s questions answered when they understand the answer, or when the person answering understands what they are saying?

If I am not mistaken, we come from two relatively differnt places; the words you use to mean one thing, may not equate to the same thing that they will for me.

k




charmdpetKeira -> RE: What if: (7/14/2007 9:40:35 AM)

Now, I see the “problem”; for lack of a better term; you and I have completely different belief systems.
 
I won’t debate that with you.
 
Best wishes,
 
k




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