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Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 6:10:33 PM   
nickymaz


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Status: offline 		Hey everyone;

I'm a sub male who has been on this site for a while. My question involves a fetish I have developed. I am still a virgin, (I was raised in a religious household) and over the years I have grown to connect this with submission. So, the bottom line is that I find the idea of being kept a virgin by a dominant woman very arousing.

Does anyone else share this desire, or am I alone hear? I welcome your questions and comments.
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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 6:25:22 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 6:41:47 PM   
nickymaz


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure what you mean by this, but I dont have any desire to have my balls cut off!

Let me elaborate a little. I feel that my virginity is a gift that I want to give to my future Queen. I feel it is the ultimate way I can submitt, that if I am willing to sacrifice that it makes a very strong statement about Female Domination and supremacy.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 7:20:50 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		It's the pleasure of withholding pleasure taken to an extreme. It's ok. You're not weird. Or maybe you want to be a service sub only. There are plenty of those.

If you don't make play a hard limit though, here's a thought. Your Domme knows you want to remain a virgin. She teases you mercilessly and gets your aroused. She allows you to remain a virgin.

For a time.

One day, things progress as usual but then she commands you to service her physically. She wants you to give to her what you wish to retain - your virginity. She wants to break you down. She wants your complete obedience.

How would you feel about that?

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 7:29:49 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		Wow slavish i am not a male sub and that was hot lol  

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 7:43:17 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		I thought it was too. ~cracked UP~

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 7:44:11 PM   
nickymaz


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Status: offline 		you make a good point. I guess apart of the submission would be totally surrendering my virginity to Her. For her to take or not.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 7:50:40 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		Mmm mmm mmmmm. The thought ~almost~ makes me want to practice some Domme skills.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 8:34:04 PM   
nickymaz


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Status: offline 		I'm glad folks are enjoying this. I would love to hear more people's thought on this.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/5/2007 10:40:24 PM   
subitodolce


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Status: offline 		Hi! Welcome to the club!

Not only am I withholding my virginity until after marriage, but also my first kiss! (Seriously! Not once!) ;-) I have a wonderfully patient and understanding Sir who is very respectful of my vows and whom I can trust in those key moments not to take advantage of me and the situations I might be in. He knows that intercourse is a hard limit for me, and never pushed the issue once I told him my feelings on the matter.

Yes, we still incorporate other forms of play/bondage, and there are parts of my life in which I submit to him fully (He is breaking me of some rather long-standing bad habits). Even around our friends (neither of us have are in an area with a local Community, so all of our friends are vanilla) I will sit at his feet with a hand on his knee, or will respond to his comments/questions/directions with "yessir", and he loves every little bit of it. He doesn't see my giving up virginity as another means of submitting to him, but he views protecting that gift as a part of his calling to be my Dominant, protector, and provider.

Don't feel that you have to relinquish your religious views out of submission. Just find a loving Dominant that is willing to accept that as a hard limit, and part of who you are as a person.

Best wishes!
~Dolce

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/6/2007 7:42:36 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I think that is great.  It is something yoiu can only give one person.  Almost makes me wish i had waited for my current Master.

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/6/2007 9:03:26 AM   
obis


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Status: offline 		I've never been someone with a particular interest in virgins, but I have to admit when you put it the way slavish does, it sounds like a pretty good scenario :)

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/6/2007 6:29:50 PM   
SirGordonslil


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nickymaz

you make a good point. I guess apart of the submission would be totally surrendering my virginity to Her. For her to take or not.


After witholding it for soo long, i would think you would make a wise choice whom to give your virginity to.. dont want to just give it to anyone, would the Dominant be worth that submission of giving your all. .in that manner? hummm.
am sure there is a fantastic Domme out there who would be worthy of such a taking of a submissive, choose wisely hey.
"virginity is precious." : nanna.
~~lil~~

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/16/2007 9:13:45 AM   
virginslaveboy82


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Status: offline 		i, too am a virgin slave boy.  i love serving in this way. i hope to remain chaste for life, but ultimately, as a slave, i realize its not my choice and i will do whatever my Owner would desire

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RE: Am I wierd? - 7/16/2007 9:34:25 AM   
AAkasha


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Reality check time.

I am the first one to admit I LOVE "deflowering virgins" - I love everything about the vulnerability and ability to show a man who to make love the way I like to make love.

A man in his 20s who is still a virgin is kind of sexy and cute to me.  A man in his 30s and still a virgin is a little odd and questionable.  A man in his 40s and still a virgin is worrisome to me.  The problem is maturity and self confidence.  It's ok to be a little bit fumbling and unsure romantically in your 20s, but in your 30s and 40s, women are going to expect that you can make love with some idea of what's what.

There's also the issue of "romantic maturity" -- while a man may be a virgin when it comes to sexual intercourse, I think if he's in his 30s, he should know the basics of dating, courting, romance and intimacy appropriateness. A virgin becomes more shellshocked and terrified the older he gets, whereas a guy who lost his virginity at 15 or 16 has worked out most of the fear and insecurity.

There's a big difference, though, between a man who has "saved" his sexual intercourse virginity for the right woman, but he's a fine tuned lover in all areas.  Let's face it, there's a lot more to sex than penetration.  If a guy is in his 30s and has never even made out or brought a woman to orgasm manually -- ouch, he might take some work.

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