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RE: Serial bachelors - 7/9/2007 8:20:17 AM

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I'm actually pretty disillusioned with the type of men I find myself drawn to at this point. I have a difficult time trusting and I have twice now invested myself in relationships that I was -very- sure of and twice had the person change right before my eyes totally unexpectedly.

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RE: Serial bachelors - 7/9/2007 10:00:29 AM

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I can understand that. For me, I'm trying to be more realistic about what it is that I want early on in the discussion. This pattern recognition is making me less afraid to evaluate the facts rather than rely on the belly burning sensation.

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RE: Serial bachelors - 7/9/2007 10:35:38 AM

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My experience with the serial bachelor is that they are basically emotionally unavailable. They want you around now and then (sex), but they cannot or will not invest emotions in you or the "relationship".

Some are just the types who never grow up emotionally or mentally, and just want a life that is full of nothing but fun stuff without any committment or responsibility thrown into the mix.

Some have been burned in the past, and although they want someone in their life, they keep themselves emotionally distant from that person.

I have my opinions on why I've ended up with these types, although I never seem to recognize them as such until it's too late........, but I've gone overboard on introspective moments here lately and have given myself a great big headache trying to figure out how I ended up this way, and what to do to fix something that is so ingrained in me. *sigh*