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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 1:26:45 PM   
ocilla


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: CrimsonMoan

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Ladies, if you dont all dress from head to toe in leather, how will we be able to tell who is a Domina when in Wal-mart ?

Perplexed sub


simple the ones who are just running over everyone with their carts or are in the pet section trying collars on the people with them.



Hi Ma`am..... Thats great news, at last us pets have our own section.


LOL - cracking me up and totally busted. Back in my cheffing days, to get the dazed masses to get out of my way when shopping at the always crowded farmers market I would first take my cart to the pineapple section and get two pineapples to position pointy leaves side out at the leading cart corners.  A little gentle poke or the visual of my spiky cart baring down would always clear my pathway and keep me on schedule.  I know - wrecking havoc with my karma.

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 1:27:27 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Wait, I can Dominate my way thin? If I am in complete control of myself... hmm... I see an idea here.

If all it took to be real was some leather fetishwear and a pretty whip, could you just imagine the consequences?
Ive never worn leather aside from my motorcycle jacket. Does that mean I am a fake?
Or does it just mean I am a sub at heart who needs to meet the rigth Dom to make me learn to love wearing the leather, which would then kickstart my Domme gene and fix everything?



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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 1:40:16 PM   
MistressGala


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Status: offline 		Some of the subs on websites have it all figured out for us. I found  one recently that has a whole list of reasons that would apply here. These are my favorites for this " your not a real Mistress" thread.
Trying to bottom from the top.
Being more interested in Your fetishes than Your submissives.
Not calling or communicating regularly.
Not making sure he knows he matters and is a priority to You.
Not devoting Yourself to making his life enhanced by having You as his Mistress.

I guess I am not a real Mistress but rather just a bitch instead because:
*I have little interest in a sub's fetish unless it coincides with mine and I will not satisfy those needs just to make him happy. That is a sub's role
*I have only moderate interest in what a bottom is feeling...issues such as emotional and physical safety aside....and therefore can not relate to someone trying to "bottom from the top"
*I call or communicate when I desire to. Hello? I am not a wife or girlfriend and I became a Mistress in part so that I have control. I don't call to check in.
* If a sub is in my collar he matters to me. Otherwise he wouldn't be wearing my leather. Don't be so needy.
* I am of the opinion that is a man is a submissive he should be devoting his time to enhancing my life. Otherwise why do I need him?

I also have really tried collars on subs in PetSmart.

< Message edited by MistressGala -- 7/8/2007 1:44:37 PM >

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 1:41:34 PM   
DrkJourney


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Joined: 5/6/2007
Status: offline 		I had rude emails from male Doms in the past, but yesterday this female contacted me, her first email simply said "serve me"   I replied for her to have  a nice day, she replied, "you too but I still have chores for you"  I was trying to be nice, but of course for some reason I wasn't real, (never said why), and I needed direction due to the fact that I"m "always on here"  I told her I had emails to respond to (which she is such a cow guess she doesn't get any of those), plus I'm on the boards.  Only way I would pop up on her list is if she had her interests set to Dommes, which since her profile claims she's straight not sure why it would be there....anywhoooo.....She went on and on about me serving her....after one last attempt to be nice I just blocked her, and I rarely block. 

I swear the last few months I've had the rudest people contact me.

I had one say I was not a real Domme because I didn't do toilet training...that if I "needed" to give my slave ALL of me or it wasn't real

I wonder how some of these people walk upright



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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 1:44:29 PM   
CrimsonMoan


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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney


I wonder how some of these people walk upright




that would be do the giant petrified redwood shoved up their butts

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 5:28:01 PM   
CrimsonMoan


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From: Portland, Me via Las Vegas Nv
Status: offline 		Hey I just figured out where all these subs are getting their idea of a real domme...Jessica power's site.

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 5:32:40 PM   
littlesarbonn


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ORIGINAL: CrimsonMoan

Hey I just figured out where all these subs are getting their idea of a real domme...Jessica power's site.


You mean there's a better source?


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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 6:20:56 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		I have heard the your not real line quite a few times before, but the best one was from a slave who when collared to me, didn't want any contact with the outside world. No friends, or anything. When I told him that idea made me uncomfortable, he trotted out the "your not real line" **snickers** Oh Darn!

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 6:26:53 PM   
littlesarbonn


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ORIGINAL: Trampler

I have heard the your not real line quite a few times before, but the best one was from a slave who when collared to me, didn't want any contact with the outside world. No friends, or anything. When I told him that idea made me uncomfortable, he trotted out the "your not real line" **snickers** Oh Darn!


Lately, I've been getting the desire for no contact with the outside world. No friends or anything. Also, no actual owner, too. But I think that's more frustration with life than with lifestyle.


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RE: Not real - 7/9/2007 5:51:31 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		I was once accused of being a man by a Dom in a chat room.  Just because I take no sh*t off anyone, I beat My boy when I want to and how I want to...and I'm assertive and know what I want...yeesh.
 
Have also been accused of being not real because I asked about someone's interests outside of BDSM.  Apparently people aren't supposed to have interests outside the lifestyle if they are Domina or submissive.
 
I've also had men say I'm not real because I won't cam.  It gets old really, really fast.
~Kara

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