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how to find a good sub/slave? - 6/17/2005 10:02:18 PM   
baycitymibi


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Status: offline 		am living in a smaller community in Michigan, have not had much luck with finding an obediant sub, any thoughts?
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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 6/17/2005 10:07:36 PM   
MaggieLynn


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Status: offline 		Have you looked for lifestyle groups in some of the larger cities around you that may have Munches and Events going? Perhaps local message boards online for your area?

It's always easier to meet people first, and let people get to know you and then move into trying to find a specific submissive I've found. IF you are looking for something r/t and local as opposed to online/phone for a while and then possibly traveling to meet at a later date.

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 6/19/2005 8:37:52 PM   
asissyforher


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From: iowa now..maybe move soon.
Status: offline 		oh well hell. i always have thoughts. if they any good or not?
i advise first..please?
whomever/where ever/ when ever You find..
be nice and thoughtful, and do not make Your real life priority?
think about us poor slob slaves out here waiting for ''Your-word"
i had a r/t Ms that made me feel unwanted/un needed for 15 months. i left.
i have one i am talking to, and the emails are few between.
it damn well sucks. i am not inspired to follow.

otherwise.......
to try to get to Your Q

ads on literotica and collarme.=====

and please.......if i am able to send out all my i.d. cards in email..sounds reasonable You dominants can do the same. and where are the pictures from You dominants? be nice to know if i like what i see..do not make me drive 300 miles and find out....YUCK!


i have 10,000 miles rolled up, searching for Ms Right. haven't found Her since 1998. what's up with this?
i am over 50. i do not have many years left to wait. Ya know?
ah i digress.. sorry.

good luck to You, Sir.


thank You


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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 6/19/2005 10:16:53 PM   
sub4hire


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quote:

have not had much luck with finding an obediant sub, any thoughts?


Perhaps lower your expectations. Enter another arena?

Or am I reading this incorrectly and you just cannot find lifestyle around you?
If so, go here and search for munches in your area...or close by.
Follow the meet people link...then the worldwide. Choose your state...


http://www.drkdesyre.com/

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/31/2006 12:24:48 PM   
beatbyMaster


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Status: offline 		Hello all..   as a slave seeking realife power exchange ive found that in southeast michigan there isnt  alot of Masters/ Dommes,,,my search has consisted of driving to ohio- northern indiana for just the basic stuff...you know a slave is more than a bottum  he -her deserves the chane to get a spanking or full bidy whipping before he has the honor of being penetrated...OOOps  im sorry ive jumped of coures if your really looking for a good slave .  try the  other web sites  or just give me a email... im looking for a Real life Master/ Domme  and im tired of getting my hopesd up or being played   thank you Master, Mistress  ,slave is hopeing to hear from some 1 

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/31/2006 1:52:30 PM   
HeartSoulAndMind


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Status: offline 		Now, of course - I'm going by your name here... but Bay City seems like it's not a town that's real accepting of persons in our lifestyle.  I'm closer to Detroit and although there is a broader base to chose from as far as submissives, unfortunately if you're simply looking online, that tends to lead to disappointment (Trust me, I've asked myself the same question you have!).  I don't know if you have access to "The Metro Times" but they always have alternative ads.  Royal Oak and Ferndale also have a lot of groups that are D/s related and may not necessarilly fall into "munches" all the time. I wish I could offer up more hope, as well... but maybe looking down this way may open up a few more avenues.

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/31/2006 11:33:58 PM   
popeye1250


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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/1/2006 11:04:02 AM   
wick3dmistress


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Status: offline 		lmao popeye now that could get him into trouble what if he found one that was worthless......and didnt want to leave

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/1/2006 1:34:58 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Wicked3,...hmmmm... I didn't think about that!

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/1/2006 5:39:13 PM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		I understand that Quizznos has good subs.


Or there is always Slaves-r-us.

The freezer section has them in boxes of two.



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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/2/2006 1:19:19 AM   
seeksfemslave


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Status: offline 		LaMalinche...your quote at the bottom is the biggest load of rubbish I have read in a long while. Using shotgun as a metaphor, it has been tried so often you must live in a box if you havent noticed

The other problem is some people have a funny definition of what IS actually Evil.
Dare I mention the suffering in Viet Nam..
Runs for cover. he he he he

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/2/2006 1:39:12 AM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		I thought that it was just suppose to be funny.  But, I have never claimed to actually have a sense of humor, merely something that I use as one.


< Message edited by LaMalinche -- 8/2/2006 2:13:25 AM >

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/2/2006 6:48:52 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: baycitymibi
am living in a smaller community in Michigan, have not had much luck with finding an obediant sub, any thoughts?


I live about a half an hour from Bay City. I have not seen you at any of the local events. Granted, there is not a great deal going on up that way...one group that I know of....but if you are willing to take an hours drive Flint is fairly active. If you are having trouble finding things you can contact me on the other side and I can give you some links. I would suggest signing up at the following link...it is an email notification only group that will send you information on many Michigan munches and events.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MichiganMunches/

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/2/2006 10:55:41 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Baycity, ever think about MOVING?

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 8/4/2006 3:06:28 PM   
lunatichighff


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Status: offline 		I've had pretty much the same issues (finding a compatible sub) here in Colorado. Being in my 20s and a non-smoker pretty much rules out everyone I've met at the local munches. I've considered going to Thunder, but the relatively high price tag always discourages me, since I'm not much of one for social gatherings (the munches are about as far as I go, and I'll probably stop going to those, too).

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/12/2007 5:19:46 PM   
baycitymibi


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Status: offline 		I MOVED TO IOWA.....STILL NOT MUCH IN THE WAY OF GOOD FUN

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/12/2007 5:59:36 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		Ok, You live in Iowa, yet you are looking for subs in Michigan.................is that correct?

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/12/2007 6:12:56 PM   
littlesarbonn


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Status: offline 		Good luck on your search. I had lived in Michigan for nearly a decade, and a year or so in I just gave up on looking and decided to wait until I left the state to find something in the bdsm realm.

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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/12/2007 6:21:30 PM   
Petronius


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RE: how to find a good sub/slave? - 7/12/2007 6:27:46 PM   
PAsextoy4u


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Status: offline 		Maybe your definition or expectation of "obedient" needs to be examined/explored.  And are you communicating to potential subs what you expect from them?  I have run into a couple of Doms who could not commumicate to me what "obedient" meant to them, so if they didnt know, how on earth could I???  One just kept telling me to be a good girl, without listing or defining what he considered "good".  Obviously, we didnt get too far LOL

If a Dom creates alot of silly, waste-of-time rules or rituals that are hard to follow and have a real life, then he is creating an impossible situation for the submissive.  So is she disobedient, or he is unrealistic/inexperienced/immature is his demands/expectations???

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