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mousiemae10126 -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/10/2005 8:58:37 PM)


Thank You for posting an Answer to my Q
I have the mate to Your rose Key Tag & i 2 am a registered Sub/Slave.
Thank You again for Your Well Wishes.
mousie....or Jenny



Gemeni -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/10/2005 10:02:32 PM)

I'm with maggie on this one. Take care to find yourself a good enviornment to recover in as your first priority. I have no idea why this man decided to release you,I am not going to make judgements on something already done. At least he is being generous enough to give you a roof over your head for now.

Forget about D/s for now. It's no longer a luxury you can afford. Drop it.

Concentrate on staying alive.



SalonOwner -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/10/2005 11:47:29 PM)

Jenny,

You have been a devoted slave. Your dedication to slavery continues. But concern for your physical health and safety must come first - to your (former) Master and to yourself. Since your Master have proven Himself unworthy, you must be your own best friend.

That is such a hard thing to say to a slave. No Master ought to take a slave unless He is willing to care better for a girl than she herself can. Yet in real life that ideal is often not met.

That brings Me to a disconnect that, quite unnecessarily, exists in D/s relations. A good Master-slave relationship presupposes intense and open two-way communication. That communication creates the commonality, which then engenders the requisite trust. Yet, many Master-slave relationships are built on blocked, twisted, or one-way communication. That is never a healthy situation.

Master CruelRam



lovingmaster45 -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/11/2005 4:44:57 AM)

Perhaps he is releasing you because of the obtuse way you express yourself or your silly typing style?

Medical issues are REAL and do get in the way.

I had cancer 2 years ago and released my entire harem. I was able to place each one that sought another D/s relationship. I would think that he has the same responsibility toward you.

Or he could simply be tired of you. It does happen you know.



Bbare45 -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/11/2005 3:15:06 PM)

I too have battled cancer. Fortunately I won. I agree wholeheartedly with Maggie.

I wish you the best.



LordBennett -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/11/2005 5:57:18 PM)

In her initial post she did indicate he was letting her live with him even though he requested the collar back. Which is something on the positive side for him.

The question I have is when did she first know she had cancer? Was it before or after she moved to be with him. If before, did she tell him about it or was she simply wanting someone to foot the upcoming medical bills. Could be he wantsd the seperation before they are declared common law man and wife and he is reaponsible for her bills. Right now, with owning nothing she can declare bankruptcy and get out from under the bills.

Reading her profile she says she is submissive, in which case why didn;t she keep the proceeds from the sale of her house and other assets? My opinion is to have a submissive have their own bank account to fall back on if they ever need it. It also allows them to spend money when I am out of yown and a bill needs to be paid and I can reimburse them later. As for slaves that give me everything, I do not need it and keep cash or cash equivalants in a seoerate savings account.



glassdoll -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (7/11/2005 7:47:33 PM)

perhaps you shouldn't refer to yourself in the third person. EVER.



domm4subf1970 -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/3/2005 11:30:35 PM)

Ok I know this was asked for girls, but the so called master bits. Move on I think you be better off anyways.



MasterBenedict -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/4/2005 8:10:26 PM)

& how badly do you wish to be 'taken in'?
quote:

ORIGINAL: mousiemae10126



The Dom. that girl is Owned by States That Since girl Had To Have a Major Life Threatening Breast Surgery That Has Had Several Complications And Has Been a Challenge to The Medical Profession that girl Is NOT THE ONE That He Wishes To Be The Master Or Dom Of.

girl Has given Up the Home that she Owned & Has Moved Over a Thousand Miles One Way from all That she Knew & from every Person that she Knew Or Was in any way Familiar With.

In Service to Master she has Given Her utmost Complete All At All Times.

Master Had Collared girl & Has Now Requested that girl Remove HIS Collar.

girl has No Where else that she can go & Master Wishes girl No Ill Or harm.
Master Has Grasiously Allowed girl To Remain in His Residence Until; Such time as girl May Find a Safe Alternative Solution.

Is There Any One In The Lifestyle Who might Offer a Safe & Reasonable Solution to girl That Would Take Into Consideration that girl is Still on the Medical Mend?






nella -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/5/2005 2:24:10 AM)

Perhaps he is scared, scared of loosing somone he cares for and therefore do somthing stupid to remove himself from you before that may happen. Human fear is a funny thing, and even Doms are subject to it.



pinkpleasures -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/5/2005 7:31:05 AM)

i do not mean to be cruel, but under no circumstances would i open my home to someone posting a message like this on the boards. 1st, there probably is no way i'd open my home to anyone from the net. 2nd, the thread post contains absolutely no verifiable information, and offers to provide none. And i strongly suspect the Op isn't interested in my home anyway...she wants another Dom, right now. Well, hell's bells, if we could just order Doms-r-Us, the submissive and slave women here would be overjoyed.

i am also suspicious because according to the Op, she is battling cancer, yet her 1st concern is finding a new Dom. That should be a matter of no consequence, especially since if she's in the throes of the disease. She cannot tell a new Dom whether she'll even survive -- and such a concealment is completely unfair to a new Dom. In my opinion, submissives and slaves seeking relationships with Doms and Masters need to have their own houses in order...and not be living chaotic, silly, or out-of-control lives from which they hope to be rescued. Doms and Masters are not knights in shining armor. They are potential partners in the deepest sort of intimate, mature, sexual relationship. How can that happen when one party is unable to care for herself?

It beggars the imagination that a cancer patient would not receive the necessary support from the Social Services dept of her hospital. It also beggars the imagination that a person needing crisis intervetion would choose postng to the CM boards as a method of obtaining help. If i'm wrong and the Op really does have cancer, then i'm terribly sorry. But to me this just does not ring true.

pinkpleasures



Alexander -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/5/2005 3:44:44 PM)

you can hope he gets cancer?
My list of people I hope get cancer is pretty long.I can add him to it and hand it off to my favorite witch if you like.



IronBear -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/6/2005 12:13:35 AM)

Pretty disgusting the way he treated you if you ask me…. No way I’m Christian, but with both my Handfasting and the State wedding my wife and I had we pledged “For better or worse”. I accept a trik into my collar as my personal kajira, it is for better or worse. The main changes will be, should she have such medical issues as you had, will be exactly what she can and cant do. Being a smart grizzly, [:-] We’d be finding compromises.

quote:

My list of people I hope get cancer is pretty long.I can add him to it and hand it off to my favorite witch if you like.


Take care Alexander, you might get what you wish for [sm=lol.gif][8D]



ehlovindom -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/6/2005 2:09:58 PM)

So let me see if I understand this correctly. 'girl' moves a thousand miles from where she was living, gives up her home, family, friends and support community, goes into 'service' as a slave to a master until 'girl' develops cancer and has to have surgery, master decides 'girl' is no longer 'needed' removes the collar but allows 'girl' to stay in his home until 'girl' finds new master to serve, which is what 'girl' is doing by posting.

Did I miss the "no cancer collar" for slaves? Besides the 'master' needing some an attitude adjustment, 'girl' needs to come to the realization that she is a person first, not a 'girl', and that as a person, she has cancer and will need a positive environment to be in. I hate to sound so cynical but this is exactly the kind of situation that I hate reading/hearing about. Not only is there a woman who has both medical and personal problems, but some man who has failed humanity 101.

Just my humble $0.02 worth.



nella -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/6/2005 2:48:11 PM)

OP dont you have any family or frinds you can go to and work things out and recover before you go on on the man hunt again?



pinkpleasures -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/11/2005 5:16:56 AM)

Once again into the fray -- the kindness of the posters is an exciting validation but i strongly suspect the Op is a fake.

pinkpleasures



sanita -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/11/2005 10:50:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

Once again into the fray -- the kindness of the posters is an exciting validation but i strongly suspect the Op is a fake.

pinkpleasures



The OP has a profile on the other side, which has not changed since the start of this thread. She has been to the site as recently as 8/9. On her profile, in her journal, she mentions her Master not wanting her. in her profile, she says she is happily collared, and names her Master. Now, she may nat have the wherewithall to update her profile. however, if one lookas up her Master's profile, last time he was on was 7/17 (well into this thread), one sees that he still claims his ownership of the OP. maybe things are resolved.

that's just what i have seen while reading this thread.



MaggieLynn -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/12/2005 8:13:43 AM)

I stick to my original post,

There is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON at all for her to be doing this alone. Social Services, both in her town AND through the hospital will make sure she has her meds, they will assist with transportation, they will assist with food, they will assist in finding her a place to live, they will assist with counceling services with people trained to deal with cancer patients and all that goes along with that nightmare and the list goes on and on and on.

A quick Google on the type of cancer she has will result in dozens of MAJOR cancer society websites that offer grants for everything from food to parking expenses and practically everything in between including wigs and even special clothing depending on the type of cancer she has.

There are agencies that have volenteers that will drive you back and forth to treatments, people that will sit with you when your puking your guts up after chemo and radiation and will even help you cook and clean and shop if you need them too.

I know all of this because I've been down that road personally 3 seperate times, each time more severe than the last, each time more life threatening.

The last, when I had the stem cell transplant, they had given me 6 months to a year to live and even the treatment stood a 15% chance of killing me.

YES your emotions are one demonic twisted roller coaster from hell.
YES you go from crying to screaming to throwing things to being completely numb
YES it's probably one of the most horrifying things you will ever have to deal with

And YES YOU CAN SUVIVE IT!!!

I have a list of resources on my personal website for anyone that wishes to look at them and read up on this type of stuff. www.lynns-world.com.

This is NOT an adult website...LOL. Just some of the things I've gone through and how I delt with it all, resourses that worked for me, a little humor when I could manage it. The wonderful people I worked for donated the software so that I could put it up when I first got sick this last time



pinkpleasures -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/12/2005 2:02:58 PM)

Anyone who cannot see the truth of MaggieLynn's post and the lack of it in that of the Op has flunked my "too stupid" test. Please leave Y/your namecards at the door, thank you and have a nice evening.

MaggieLynn..i am ill as well but not in fear of my life nor undergoing horrible treatments that might themselves kill me. You are one of my heroines.

pinkpleasures



talldrinkawater -> RE: girl would like to ask a Question. (8/12/2005 3:51:37 PM)

quote:

Wish i was closer so i could swat him for you!!!


SIGH!

I think that is about the NICEST thing anybody could have said in this situation...


Tall



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