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RE: chastity question - 7/15/2007 2:21:25 AM

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Chastity is part of my relationship with Supreme Goddess Lorena. i am not wearing a chastity device. It is by mental control She controls my chastity. If you want to know what effect chastity has on me, you can read it in these articles on my blog. It is not only 'romantic' etc... it is even spiritual.
And because i am so happy, i just want to share it with all the readers of this forum. Supreme Goddess Lorena allowed me to climax in Her honour during my New Moon worhipping ritual i had outdoors. Because i had the climax as part of a ritual that linked me to the Supreme Goddess and to Nature, i felt the climax like an act of spirituality too.

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RE: chastity question - 7/15/2007 8:02:02 AM

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Have the fun of this play for me is orgasm conrol - giving him instructions on masturbation but not allowing him to bring himself to orgasm. The benefits are several fold - the compliancy factor, and the reinforcement of my dominance and the imprinting of me onto him by my creating specific rituals for masturbation and ultimately the catharsis of when I finally allow him to cum, typically a really intense orgasm for him.

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RE: chastity question - 7/15/2007 6:23:47 PM

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With all the responses acclaiming the wonders and greatness of mental chastity, I feel I need to put my two cents in, just to remind folks that there a lot of us who differ greatly on this topic. To me, and many others who thrive on aspects of physical control, purely mental chastity is quite blase (I don't know how to put the accent mark in). Without something physical, or at least a serious method to ensure compliance, it's purely my decision whether to obey, and there's nothing at all exciting about that to me. What excites me is having crossed the line to where I REALLY don't have any choice, and she's in complete physical control (or at least it feels that way).

Chances are good that someone will respond that the physical control is just a mirage, that I'm actually consenting to whatever I'm being forced into. Although there's a bit of truth in that, it doesn't capture the whole picture. While some level of consent is obviously present, what excites me is being in a position where it's too late to change my mind, and I really am under her control. Although many of you really get off on pure willing submission, it has absolutely no appeal to me.

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RE: chastity question - 7/15/2007 11:18:49 PM

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hardbodysub

Same here! Each to their own of course

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RE: chastity question - 7/16/2007 7:59:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: masusub55

It seems whenever i am in chastity, that very soon my very submissive side comes out. i become sappy, pathetic and hopelessly romantic and attentive. Do Experienced Dommes enjoy inducing this behavior or is it seen as too bothersome? Is this the building block an Experienced Domme uses to mold and condition behavior She desires in Her sub? It seems such a powerful tool and yet most new Dommes don't seem to have a clue about using or even beginning to understand this. Is it as simply used`as i seem to think or am i wrong?

I personally love to have my slave/sub in some sort of restriction-- whether it be a verbal command, or a device. I want to be the one to control your 'outcome'.

And I really am thinking very strongly about that PA situation~~~ sounds lovely to me!

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RE: chastity question - 7/17/2007 2:46:50 PM

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Sitting to pee? get a prince albert piercing, then you WILL sit to pee, think about tring to aim that hose with a finger in the way. Chastity, I have done that a few times by request, the longest 3 weeks. What made it worse was I was tied down, un locked, then teased for an hour or so, then iced down so I could be relocked up... very nasty! But really the cock is like any other organ, you lose it if you don't use it. tug

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