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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/19/2007 3:08:27 PM

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We have been working on this but I find it very hard to cum regardless so this is been difficult for us. It's exciting to learn though.

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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/19/2007 9:21:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

As with any training, it takes lots of time, patience, and practice.

... you can learn to control your orgasms and some people can learn to orgasm with no physical stimulation at all.

Em, don't want to hijack this thread, but you have inferred something I want to explore -- kinda the opposite of how this thread started, but still orgasm training: to cum on command. (I've heard and read about it, but never known anyone who can do it.) I suppose this may be a little far-fetched or wishy thinking, and I know these are different for everyone (well, for the her's... with guys its pretty much the same... lol), but I would dearly love to be able to extract this "reaction" from my slave at opportune (and inopportune) times. I have read some thoughts and "directions" on how to go about this training, and don't really know if anyone here has tried it, but thought I'd put it out here.

BTW -- I have not read all the thread here, so if already discussed, I will come to it in a bit I suppose.

edit -- lol, the very next response talked of this... *sigh* but so did lots of others after, so glad to have read them. I'm looking forward to going into this

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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/19/2007 9:39:58 PM

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I've never been one to come a lot... although that has changed since I met my Sir.

There are times when I can come for like minutes and not stop (ho hum, I wanna cum) hee hee... but seriously, I would be interested to learn about those on the opposite end and come all the time.

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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/19/2007 10:11:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mylee

Last night for the fisrt time ever just as I was going to shatter he told me No, at first I didnt understand what he was telling me and then when I did I had a moment of wanting to let go and shatter anyway, but then this strnage peace came over me and it suddenly felt so right that he would tell me when I was allowed to shatter for him, I have to admit though, that, even in that strange peace I felt it was hard to keep from letting myself shatter, later when I felt I was going to shatter agian, I asked him for permission and I was rewarded with a look of praise in from him, I didnt know life could be so sweet

That was just lovely. I feel much the same way about it.

I have to kind of actively let go and let myself get swept up in an orgasm, so it is tough sometimes to come out of my head, form words and beg, it can ruin it sometimes, but it gets easier very quickly. And if denied, I have to kind of jerk myself out of it, like getting jerked out of a dream, and sometimes it is hard to get it back, but again, it gets easier quickly with practice, to just pull half way out of it until permission is granted. I usually don't get denied for more than a few seconds, so it is kind of just riding the wave a little longer before it breaks. Just takes patience and practice. Practice, practice, practice (how awful huh?)

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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/20/2007 3:17:00 PM

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I found it easiest to do if I was manually playing with her. Once I could she she was getting close, I would just stop. It was very frustrating for her, and lots of fun for me. It puts a lot of focus on that part of sex. I love giving a woman pleasure, and building it up to the ultimate was a lot of fun.

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RE: Orgasm Training - 12/20/2007 7:52:00 PM

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Is there something that your Dom could do that would momentarily break the momentum if you were to get too close to orgasming before he wanted you to? You might try a quick swat to the breast/stomach/butt, enough to just break the immediate momentum, but not totally turn you off.

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